Sad after chemical

[Holly5633]

I have just had a chemical at 5+1 after some sting BFPs and a 2-3 on a digi. Feeling quite sad but I know it’s just one of those things. I feel sad about having to start all over again. Does anyone know how wonky this will make my cycle in terms of ovulation? I am hoping as it is early on I might return to normal quite quickly x

@rachyrach300 i'm so sorry to hear this, sending you lots of love. Its so hard, My partner keeps saying he thinks i'm pregnant again as I've had a few tell-tale signs as before but i'm putting off doing a test until further down the line as i'm so worried about disappointing him xx

So sorry to hear that @rachyrach300 - it's a cruel thing this ttc malarkey. Great plan to delete the app. It's all consuming sometimes.

Oh @rachyrach300 I'm so sorry. Must be so heartbreaking. Here if you just want to talk things out. I know it's so hard out in the real world as just not one of those things to share so easily x

So sorry to hear this @rachyrach300 xx

Well I’ve ovulated on my exact normal day so I guess if anyone ever looks at this post for reference then, for me, the chemical didn’t change my ovulation day but it has made me pre ov temps higher which has confused me when waiting to o x

@Holly5633 Glad you're feeling a little clearer Holly. My temps have been so weird so just been trusting OPKs. I'm 7dpo now so crossing everything xx

@Holly5633 when are you jotting down as ovulation date?
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@LunaLG I'm around 6 now. Agrh the waiting!
Also worrying I missed my ovulation as been having right twinges and cramps this afternoon x

Ooh not far behind me @mrsof20118 - eek!

I've had some brown spotting today (8dpo). AF due this Saturday so too early for that unless my cycles are screwed and it's come on day 22. Such a confusing time. I did get spotting on 8 dpo when I got my bfp last time but trying not to read into it.

I’m going to stick with Saturday as ovulation day even though it doesn’t seem quite right but I’ll go with it. @LunaLG the brown spotting sounds like a good sign. I won’t get too excited for you but I’m keeping all crossed for you and @mrs20118

@LunaLG sounds very positive x

I’m now in my ttw but deleted my app today and put a alarm on my phone to do a test at 6 weeks so don’t get upset again with a chemical. I say all this but knowing me I will do a test in 10 days lol. Hope everyone is Doing ok! Xx

@rachyrach300 on you for trying. I don't think I could wait it out that long. I'm too impatient x

Thanks @mrsof20118 and @Holly5633 - I will keep you posted. Don't think I'll test until Friday. Found out so early last time and it wasn't meant to be so going to try and chill whatever the outcome x

Had a weird kind of yellow tinged cm today, kind of like teeny clumps of balls of cm? I had twinges and cramps most of yesterday so wondering whether af is coming on a standard 28 ish day even though I ovulated late? Confusing!

Oooo I had a blob of yellow Cm when I got my bfp!

My chart just wasn’t sitting right with me this month at all so I discarded a temp and got solid crosshairs saying I’m 7DPO. Whether it’s right or not I’m sticking with it for now.

How you all getting on? My temp has dipped today so guessing at arriving. Maybe means my cycle is 28 days ish even though ovulation was cd19.

So I got 2 BFP this morning, I had my CP last month so i wanted to wait as long as possible before doing another test so early but been feeling off for the past week and this Morning something just made me feel like i should.

I'm feeling a little scared of getting excited with what happened last time and it being super early days but fingers crossed this is it !!

How is everyone getting on, i'm hoping we get some more positives and happy news soon xx

Congrats to you @Lunaenzo

Congrats @Lunaenzo 

I'm 11dpo and had a faint line on a FRER but feel really doubtful for some reason. My temp was lower this morning and it's also slightly lighter in comparison to the line I got at 11dpo last month (my chemical p).

Otherwise feeling utterly dreadful - banging headache and nauseous. Kind of like a migraine. I'll feel more positive tomorrow if it get darker but worried it isn't the one.

Here's my faint line for reference 😬

Ahh fingers crossed @LunaLG. I had a really faint one this morning too so did a digital aswell which came up pregnant straight away.

I have been the same and so tired, but really trying not to get overly excited until i do a couple more tests etc and get things confirmed.

Its so hard but i do feel that everything happens how its meant too.
Let us know how you get on ? xxx

Oh thanks @Lunaenzo

So nervous after last time. Also had the fear it was leftover HCG from last time but then I did test with an IC a couple of weeks ago and it was blank. I just hope it flourishes in there. Was your faint line on an FR? Might do a CB dig tomorrow. So many emotions. This banging head isn't helping!

Hope everyone else is getting on ok. This group has been such a help over the last month x

I know how you feel, i'm still nervous and every pain i'm getting is panicking me but just need to wait and see. I think it was yes, to be honest it was one from last time that was just in a packet not a box so unsure, I will send you a pic of the line when im home.
I then did a Boots own Digital one that came up Pregnant. My Fiance is off to the chemist today to get some more so will let you know.

yeah i agree it has, I haven't told anybody about my CP apart from this group so its been helpful to be able to talk to people who understand xx