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TTC baby number 3 at nearly 40

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MakeAWhish · 20/08/2018 13:06

Hi all, I have just turned 39, and have 2 daughters from my previous marriage, aged 6 and 9. I am in a very happy long term relationship with my partner who is 32. We have just started TTC'ing for a baby. My third, his first. Anyone else in a similar situation?
I believe I should be ovulating today or tomorrow (On CD17 of a 32/33 day cycle) but no positive OPK yet. Worried my eggs have dried up! Wink

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Bloodylegoeverywhere · 17/09/2018 20:03

Welcome @seastargirl 😀 I'm sure the month we dtd for my youngest I had hardly any ewcm and my opks were never dark...

Bloodylegoeverywhere · 17/09/2018 20:05

No, still time. The pack of frer had a free stick in so three for the price of two. Will see how my temp chart goes over the next few days before I test again!

MakeAWhish · 17/09/2018 20:37

@Bloodylegoeverywhere Exciting! Crossing everything for you that you get an nice sticky BFP! Xx

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LatteLover12 · 17/09/2018 20:46

Good luck @bloodylegoeverywhere & welcome along @seastargirl Smile

seastargirl · 18/09/2018 06:45

Thanks everyone for the lovely welcome!

Good luck @bloodylegoeverywhere

Temp still not shifted so thinking the clear blue was definitely a false alarm and not worth the money! Will keep poas just in case I get an obvious positive!

LatteLover12 · 18/09/2018 17:59

Agh! Ladies, just had the start of ewcm. FF app has gone green but it’s another 3 days till DP is home 😩😩😩

There’s still a chance, right?! OPK is still negative, maybe my egg can wait till Friday... Fingers crossed please!

Still getting the tiniest amount of spotting in cm, do you think that’s normal? I’ve put it down to dodgy post-pill hormones?

@makeawhish how’s DH? Back in his tracksuit?

MakeAWhish · 18/09/2018 18:34

@LatteLover12 , don't worry, EWCM can be seen 2-3 days before egg release, right? And even if egg releases Thursday, if you BD Friday and Saturday you still stand a really good chance. I'm rooting for you!
He's been signed off for a week and told he needs to rest it completely! I'm shattered Confused

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LatteLover12 · 18/09/2018 18:51

Oh no, I hope he has a speedy recovery (and doesn’t wear you out in the process!)

Thanks for the reassurance. I know it’s silly to fret about it because there’s nothing I can do but it’s the ttc madness 😂

Bloodylegoeverywhere · 19/09/2018 13:04

11 dpo and had every sign under the sun. I'm sure I'm looking for signs too! At the weekend I was exhausted and had issues with my gallbladder, that's calmed down but feel sick after I eat or wee. A bfn this am. In ones I'm bored being crazy, I either want a bfp or af to turn up now! Day 22 so any day now Hmm

LatteLover12 · 19/09/2018 17:53

Good luck @bloodylegoeverywhere!

I had a positive opk this afternoon so I’m hedging my bets that I’ll ov at some point tomorrow (hopefully pm!) & egg might possibly, hopefully still be there Friday night??

What do you think?

MakeAWhish · 19/09/2018 21:54

@LatteLover12 Keeping everything crossed for you - I reckon it should still be there. How annoying that your DH is away. Does he go away often? X

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LatteLover12 · 20/09/2018 12:53

Thank you!

Super strong positive opk just now so looks like tomorrow IS ON!

He’s away all the time. It’s totally shit & I miss him all the time. I have very little (no) support with the boys.

LatteLover12 · 20/09/2018 12:54

Here...

TTC baby number 3 at nearly 40
Bloodylegoeverywhere · 20/09/2018 13:20

Whoop hoo @lattelover12
That's rubbish that he's away a lot.
Here's my bfn Confused

Bloodylegoeverywhere · 20/09/2018 20:38

Another frer. I've heard them whispering to me! That's it, I've run out if tests now. Just sit and wait nicely I think... GrinGrin

TTC baby number 3 at nearly 40
LatteLover12 · 20/09/2018 20:58

When are you next testing @bloodylegoeverywhere? Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

Bloodylegoeverywhere · 20/09/2018 21:01

Don't think I will as at is due between fri and next week sometime..
Thanks but we shall see.

MakeAWhish · 21/09/2018 00:01

@Bloodylegoeverywhere if I squint - there's a hint there on the FRER.... go out and get some more tests tomorrow! You know you want to! Xx

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Bloodylegoeverywhere · 21/09/2018 06:27

Ha @makeawhish
Wishful thinking but my temps have been dropping and my resting heart rate too.
Grin

Bloodylegoeverywhere · 21/09/2018 13:34

I squinted too and saw something but wonder if my phone picks up the indents! Is your dh home yet @LatteLover12

LatteLover12 · 21/09/2018 14:12

Nope. He won’t be back till about 10pm 😭

Still got positive opk & no temp spike though so feeling hopeful that we’ll catch the egg ☺️

Bloodylegoeverywhere · 21/09/2018 20:18

Tonight's the night........ You all ready @latterlover12?

MakeAWhish · 22/09/2018 07:07

@Bloodylegoeverywhere Keeping everything crossed for you still! It ain't over yet!
@LatteLover12 Sounds promising for egg catching! Wear your DH this weekend, make sure you've properly covered yourselves!

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Bloodylegoeverywhere · 22/09/2018 07:48

@makeawhish thank you but I'm out! How's you!? Just trying to work out if I can take multi vitamins with vitamin b in etc but only 200ug of folic acid....where as my folic acid by it's self has 400ug levels.

MakeAWhish · 22/09/2018 09:39

@Bloodylegoeverywhere Ah, boo. We go again!
I take a seven seas supplement, it's called 'Trying for a baby' and it has vitamins as well as 400ug of folic acid - what I like about it is it comes in a little blister pack like a contraceptive pill, and is small enough to swallow without water - I keep it in my makeup bag and never forget to take it. It's about £5 for a months supply.

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