Anyone around 9 dpo?

[lavenderlove]

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle

@Thethreeandme I think you've got a good chance of getting an accurate answer at 13dpo so maybe get a frer ready for Friday morning? X

@lavenderlove yes that might be a good idea. Wish I drank at the moment lol xx

Wow, had lots of catching up to do!
First of all, massive congratulations @squ1ggle. Nice to come back to such good news.
@spottypijamas @blitzen @dreaminofholidays how are you ladies feeling now? Have either of you started showing?
@lavanderlove @thethreeandme @BLS1983 🤞 still for you. This is a very lucky thread, one day it will rub off on us as well.
@thethreeandme sorry to hear you're going through this uncertain period. I agree with the other ladies, retest with frer before the appt and in the event that you get your bfp have a good chat with your dr to weigh in pros and cons. I sincerely hope it all goes well for you.
I had a month off from ttc and, oh, how great it's been not temping, charting, poas-ing like crazy.
I am now ready to try again and only cd8 and stressing. Have pre seed, opks, and a very regimented sex calendar at the ready, pleaseeee this be the month!!

Thanks, @Akasia. Good to hear from you. I am doing okay this week (13w but measuring 12+2) but the week was off to a stressful start as I had some bleeding on Monday, which is still ongoing. I have calmed down a lot since having a scan on Monday afternoon and speaking to a lovely doctor. However, I don't like the situation. Everything with baby seemed fine and it was amazing to see an incredibly wriggly baby on screen. Official scan next week so basically hoping it will be okay.

Good luck for this month! X

@lavender, is your oh any better? X

Ps any update @thethree? X

Thanks @Akasia I'm due af today according to app and had negative fr this morning so not looking good for me :-( xx

@Akasia yes I will ask them, at my blood test for kidney I did mention it but she said to ask the st for colposcopy.
@blitzen no update yet, my appointment is on Friday. I got a bfn on Tuesday so looking like I won't get a bfp but I do want to absolutely make sure before procedure. I'll let you all know Friday! I'm worried there will be complications and I'll end up with a hysterectomy or something.. worst case I know but xx

Ladies, I'm getting so nervous about tomorrow. Has anyone had their cervix cut away, I'm worried about the numbing injecti9n into my cervix and they've said no sex for 6 weeks to heal. Can only use pads and no baths. I'm fine with surgery I've had my boobs done and a kidney removed lol but this one is really freaking me out xcx

Oh no sorry I haven't hun. Hope it goes well. Try not to think too much and it will be over before you know it x

2 days late according to all. Going go test sat morning as would love to be able to surprise dh on one of our very rare nights out. Was bfn yesterday morning with a FR X

@BLS1983 yes I suppose so. So exciting about your news though keeping everything crossed for you, keep us posted in the morning!@!! Xx

@thethreeandme What were your changes in your letter? I had a colcoscopy in the summer. I had borderline changes, all they did was take a look and redo my smear. Was fine to have sex afterwards. They were all super lovely

They won't do it until 16 weeks if you are pregnant though.

How did your test go this morning?

xxx

@dreaminofholidays hi, thanks for replying, I had high grade cells, I've just had local anaesthetic and part if thebcervix cut away and sealed. Results in 3 weeks aparently. They said I'm not pregnant but it won't effect ttc may habe to habe extra monitoring however wjen I do become pregnant as cervix is weakened. It's so achy now! Xc

Thanks @Thethreeandme day 39
Now 🙄. How are you? X

Hi, I'm ok bit weird feeling, I think now it's all done in sad I'm not pregnant again. But I suppose it's for the best until I get my results! Don't know if I'm letting my mind run away with me but I can't have sex for 4 to 6 weeks and I know it's unreasonable but I'd like my partner gives it also. And I'm certain he treated himself in the shower and I'm upset and angry can someome twll me if I'm being unreasonable or crazy cus of today and hormones cc sorry for tmi xx

@thethreeandme I know someone who was going through something similar, had a few miscarriages pre op and lo and behold couple of months after she healed fell pregnant and it's a sticky one this time. So maybe you'll relax a bit during this time and it will happen when you'll least expect it.
And um, it's good in a way that your other half is erm, enjoying himself. Old sperm is not good sperm, got to keep them little guys fresh 😀

@Akasia update. I just had a total melt down. I think the events of today really have upset me. I feel like a non functioning female. I've calmed down now. But thank you for your reassuring words. I was over reacting lol xxx

@Thethreeandme I hope you're ok? Glad you've had your treatment though. I hope your results come back all clear.
I'm due af on Friday, not even feeling the urge to test this month as I don't feel pregnant at all. Going to try and wait until at least Saturday to test x

Yes treatment all done, because I've been in such a shitty mood my partner has just left . Said he can't take it any more he's not happy and this time he's gone for good. I have been horrible to be around this week so I can't blame him but I feel so sick, hormones are all over the place, not sure what to do now!

@Thethreeandme thats not fair, I don't think anyone would be in the greatest mood with everything you've got going on! Hopefully he will realise that quickly and apologise. Must be stressful him leaving so much x

Sorry I've not been on in a while, been a bit stressed! Me and my partner are better now sorted a lot out. I'm now 5 days late bfn though. I guess it's because of lletz but it's driving me mad cus I've felt nauseous for a week and my boobs are killing. So basically my body is just reading me!! How's everyone else getting on xx

Ok, I'm trying not to over think it because it says don't read after 10 mins and it's been like 15 , it didn't come up at first but I looked at it then stuck it in the drawer thinking what's the point it'll stay bfn. Now, obv ill do another tomorrow but wjat do we think.. should I call down.. are we thinking evap line xx

@thethreeandme glad you've sorted things out with your hub.

I would re test with a frer maybe. It's not very clear in the picture if the line has colour or is grey-ish. As it's after 15 mins I would say don't get excited, retest and 🤞

Keep us updated x

@Akasia yes I have 2 more of those tests but will get a frer for the morning, I have felt extremely sick this last week but it may be because of my procedure. Will let you k ow xc

@Thethreeandme glad you've sorted things. That looks promising to me as it looks pretty strong for an evap!! Hold your wee and do another one! Haha x

Oh and also I've done a frer this morning at 13dpo and BFN