Anyone around 9 dpo?

[lavenderlove]

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle

@Thethreeandme I know! I'm nervous for his results. He sent the sample in today and they told him to ring his GP in a week. Fingers crossed everything will be ok. And wow 17 weeks! That's gone so quickly! Are you going to find out the sex? Oh I know the feeling. I'm like that most of the time lately too. Least you have an excuse 😂 hopefully your hormones will start to settle soon xxx

Hi All, hope you're all doing well. Hope your test results give you some answers @lavender. X

Hi @blitzen everything good my side, I'm 20 weeks now and everything looked perfect for baby girl.. how you getting on? @lavenderlove how did you get on xx

@thethreeandme aww yay, congratulations on a baby girl!
How are you feeling?
@blitzen how are you? we're due the same day right 17th may?
@lavenderlove hope the tests have come back with answers and given you guys a way forward xxx

Hi @thethree yay baby girl! 20 weeks is a great milestone. Hope you are feeling less irritable and enjoying the second trimester.

Hello @dreamin! Good to hear from you. Yes we are due date buddies. Everything is going well with me and baby boy so far. I have more aches and pains now, especially in my hips but can't complain really! How are you getting on? Hope you are well x

Hi @blitzen @Thethreeandme @dreaminofholidays glad everything is going well for you all, and may is not long away at all! Have you got any names picked out yet?
We got the test results back and DH has a low sperm count. It's not awfully bad but still pretty low. I think tensions are running quite high as we've actually just had an argument about it as I don't feel like he's doing anything the doctor suggested to improve it, and he gets really defensive and argumentative if I challenge him about it x

@blitzen awww so pleased for you! is this Dc1 for you?
I've started mat leave this week, very early but I'm rubbish at being pregnant, my works really far away and very high pressure so I'm glad to have this time to take things a little slower before the baby comes.
Finding it quite difficult to find neutral stuff, so much of it is actually quite girly or boyish once you imagine a boy or a girl in it. I've done zero for the nursery but hoping to get that started tomorrow.
@lavendarlove on one hand great you've got a result there and that it's workable but sorry it's causing issues. Men can be quite funny about these things particularly. Hopefully he will reflect on it and be more proactive xxx

Hello @lavender, good to hear from you. Sorry it led to an argument but now you have an answer it means you can work on it. I think his pride might be hurt but not an excuse. Hope you are able to have a relaxing weekend and that he comes round. X

@dreamin great to hear from you too. Yes, it's DC1 for me. Sounds like you have made the right decision in going on leave now. Hope you enjoy getting everything sorted for the nursery. My job is quite hectic but I have scaled back on my travelling and I have a lot of flexibility as I can work from home. I have given up public transport though and drive instead as it is such a pain when you're like sardines and avoiding germs! I go off around Easter so not long. Do you have more dcs? How are you sleeping? X