Anyone around 9 dpo?

[lavenderlove]

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle

Bfn for me yesterday, af due Wednesday so could have been too early to test but I think it's probably a no for another month

Or not.... 1-2 weeks on a cbd this morning

@Squ1ggle congratulations!! 🤗😁💃🏼

@BLS1983 Thank you! I think I'm still in shock!

@Squ1ggle :-) enjoy x

@squ1ggle yay! congratulations!! xxx

Thank you @dreaminofholidays

@Squ1ggle oh my gosh congrats so haply for you xx

Thank you @Thethreeandme I have everything crossed that this cycle is the one for you

Congratulations @Squ1ggle so happy for you! Keep us updated x

I'm trying SMEP this month I think. Currently on CD 10. How's everyone else getting on? X

Thank you @lavenderlove booked in to see the midwife on the 29th of November, feels ages off tbh but I'm sure it'll come round soon. Sending bfp vibes to you all. I'd like to still hang around if that's ok

@Squ1ggle please donstick around we can pick your brains lol.. what cycle did you manage in the end I'm on 7 now boo xxx

@lavenderlove I'm 5dpo I'm in such a happy place this month, would love it if it could be this time but Lord knows lol I am full of a cold and have been for a week though as has my partner 🙄 xx

It was number 4 officially but probably 5 or 6 really as we'd been sort of trying but not trying for a couple of months

@Squ1ggle that will soon come around. How exciting! Yeh please do stick around. And thanks, I'm hoping cycle 6 will be the one!
@Thethreeandme good luck I hope you get your BFP this month, and hope you both feel better soon! Have you been tracking ovulation? I've gone back to my OPK's and just got a positive today so going to have to dtd 3 days in a row now to stick to SMEP. Wouldn't mind but we dtd last night so god knows how we will manage 4 days in a row haha!

@lavenderlove no I'm not charting anything at the moment it's too much stress, I just know approx when I ovulate and hope for the best. I've just had the results if my smear this afternoon and I have abnormal cells again so hoping that's not effecting my chances xx

@Thethreeandme probably the best way to do it! And oh no, bless you Glad your smear has fallen before you getting pregnant though as now at least the cells have been detected early and can hopefully be sorted very quickly x

Woohoo! Congratulations, @squ1ggle! Amazing news.

Hope all other ladies are doing well too x

Good luck for this month, @lavender xx

ALL LADIES ADVICE NEEDED!!! I feel very crampy today at 10dpo . I had a smear last Tuesday so it may be that. I'm due to have some cervix cut away next Friday. If i get a bfp before then should I cancel and have treatment after baby born or risk it and have it. I know it's a lot of ifs and buts, I'm just swimming in questions and I don't want to risk a miscarriage but I obv don't want to get ill xxx

Hello @thethree, the midwife told me not to have a smear when pregnant. But if you get a bfp you need medical advice before making a decision either way.

@blitzen yes I thought this would be the case it can't be safe to mess with the cervix especially in early pregnancy!

Argh that's a tough one @Thethreeandme hopefully the doctor will be able to tell you the likelihood/ rate of it getting any worse whilst pregnant? Bet it's causing you a lot of stress  x

Thanks @blitzen x
Not sure this will be the month as my DH has a virus so haven't been near each other very much!

Hi ladies, I slightly misjudged I'm actually 9dpo today approx , did a test half hpur ago bfn, I known I shouldn't test early but I don't want to go for this procedure on Friday if I don't know .. just incase . Really don't know what to do. I don't want to cancel incase I'm not pregnant and risk health but I don't wanna go if I might be and risk a baby! Arrrgh I'm hoping they might want to test me Friday morning and it will show if I am or not .. has anyone else got a bfp between 9 and 13dpo? Xx