Anyone around 9 dpo?

[lavenderlove]

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle

@lavenderlove I know I just don't want to get my hopes up lol, I'll test again in the morning I think, it's confusing because I'm still spotting brown from the procedure! Just need to know lol xx

Don't worry too much I'm 6 days late and only getting faint line! Xx

@Thethreeandme i know what you mean. See what tomorrow brings but fingers crossed for you!! And thanks. I feel like I'm out this month. I'm due af tomorrow so we shall see. My husbands gonna go to the doctors next week to chat about his anxiety meds as I've read they can reduce fertility so just want to check x

@lavenderlove I was on sertrolene and they said it can effect fertility so I stopped taking them.. and I'm pretty sure I have a bfp now... xxx

@Thethreeandme that's what my dh is on and oh my gosh!!! Congratulations! I'm so happy for you. Gives me hope that you've only just got your BFP! Have you tested at all between Friday and now? X

@lavenderlove thank you so much!! I tested last Thursday and Friday before slicing! Them No t3sted on Tuesday with some cheap ones, tested last night bfn then tjat one this morning that was so so faint after 20 mins then about an hour ago and tjat was faint to start but got darker! And I'm not 6 days overdue! This is cycle 8 for me , I'll keep everything crossed for you . And yea I stopped taking mine maybe ask hubby to cone off for a few months. To be honest I didn't have such bad anxiety when I came off them but I do habe my first session of CBT on Friday xx

Sorry my shakey fingers aren't making much sense lol hope you can figure that message out lol, now jist to tell oh, no idea how to do it because he'd said let's get all my tests out the way and make sure I'm healthy first xx

OMG, @thethreeandme I am thrilled for you! You had so much going on you deserved some good news.
@lavanderlove this should teach us to be more patient and to not test early 🙈

@akasia thank you so much, it's been a rough few months for sure lol, fingers crossed it sticks in there now and stays thete for the duration lol xx

@thethreeandme congratulations!!
lovely news xxx

@dreaminofholidays thank you so much, still hasn't fully sunk in I feel so sick lol xxx

@Thethreeandme that's amazing!! I can't believe how long it took for it to show up, definitely won't be early testing and disappointing myself any more now lol. Keep us updated with everything. He's going to go to docs next week so I'm hoping he starts cutting them down slowly. He wants to but is scared his symptoms will return. Hope your CBT went ok today. Af hasn't arrived for me today but I'm not going to test until Sunday as it will probs turn up tomorrow x

@Akasia yes definitely won't be testing early again! Lol. Think it's just us two left now without our BFP. Hope we get them soon!! When are you due to test? X

@lavanderlove not sure how many dpo I am. I haven't properly kept track as run out of CB digitals, had a flashing smiley on the 11th then a dark opk on 13th. So maybe 3-4 days dpo.
Already started going cockoo with symptom spotting and feel like my boobs have doubled in volume but is just post ovulation hormones 🤔
Have you got any af or pg symptoms?
@thethreeandme has it sunk in yet? How are you feeling? When did your symptoms kick in, of you don't mind me asking.

Good luck @Akasia ! Hopefully they are good signs. My af came this morning first month I've actually been really upset about it. Think it's because I've hit the 6 month mark. Thinking about taking a break for a couple of months but I'll see how I feel in a few days x

Oh, so sorry to hear that @lavanderlove. I felt the same way at 6 months. But then I went to check my calendar and realised that only one of them months I had sex when it really mattered. Somehow I just don't manage to dtd when I should and always skip it just before during and after ov.
So maybe worth checking yours? It really helped with how I felt. Then I took a break and it was just great not thinking about it for a while.

Wow congratulations @thethree! Amazing news. Hope all is well with your health now and oh. Sounds like a stressful few weeks for you. X

I have everything crossed for you both, @lavender and @akasia. Really wishing you success in ttc and will continue to check in on your progress so please keep us updated. Good luck 🍀xx

@Akasia thanks. I think you could be right as I seem to always skip sex the day before ovulation which is probably the most important day! I think I must ovulate 2 days after I get my first positive OPK rather than 1 day. What month are you on now? X
And thanks @blitzen! Hope all is well with you x

Thank you @blitzen, here's to hoping! How are things going with you?
I am on cycle 8 🙄 @lavanderlove. But as I was saying, the only time I've actually dtd on most fertile days was back in June. There always seems to be something happening around then stopping us. And thia month same thing, only managed to dtd 3x before when I think I've ovulated as I had some commitments away from home for a few days.
Argg!!

Hi ladies, it was only Monday jist gone, so 2 days after missed period I started to get symptoms, I felt nauseous and nipples are tender. I also noticed horrible smells more! It's sunk in now I think but I'm spotting because of my lletz which is worrying but it's just very light discharge so I'm trying not to read too much into it. I will call Dr Monday and book in could do with putting my mind at rest . Sorry about your bitch af turning up @lavenderlove mine was on 7th cycle though so fx for next month! @akasia I was always so on it with trying to notice symptoms before af but they've just intensified 2 days post missed one fx for you too xxx

Ok so just my luck but I'm having some more discharge now but it's more pink, it's far from deep red you'd expect with period but it's there, not enough to change a pad sorry tmi but there when I wipe and stains pad, I don't know if I should be worried as I said before I prob shouldn't of had sex because ice prob disturbed the scab on cervix and thay couod be reason for bleeding but I'm stressing out now xx

@thethreeandme fingers crossed it's all from your procedure. It's such a scary time but you definitely have something concrete that could be causing it.

@Akasia @lavenderlove I know it feels like an eternity but they say the average is like 12 months I think? It's difficult also if you don't 100% know your cycle cos sometimes you don't even if know if you're dtd at the right time. I have everything crossed for more BFPs.

Xxx

Thanks @lavender and thank you @akasia. I am fine, thanks. The bleeding I had lasted about 10 days off and on, but not had any since Thursday so crossing my fingers that it's over with now. Incredibly stressful but had official scan last week and baby looked good, which was a huge relief. I am still anxious and keeping the news under wraps for another few days I think. I think the nausea is beginning to lift this week which I am happy about! Hope all you ladies are well xx

@blitzen that sounds really scary, sorry I missed your earlier post. Did your dates catch up at your official scan? glad you're ok x

@blitzen how scary for you in so sorry it's not beennstraight forward and exciting. How far are you now? I'm also having a little stress, had a little bleed not sure if it was from lletz or pregnancy so they did an internal scan. No sac or anything found but womb lining was nice and thick and could see where my ovary had released an egg. But did bloods and my levels were at 235 so I have to go back Thursday and she's wanting my levels to be at least 383 otherwise it may not be a viable pregnancy, such a long wait xx