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Anyone around 9 dpo?

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lavenderlove · 29/07/2018 19:00

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle Sad

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Akasia · 26/08/2018 08:38

getting not betting.. such a doughnut!

Squ1ggle · 26/08/2018 09:14

Thanks @Akasia, I caved and tested this morning but bfn. Telling myself that it's just too early but the pessimist in me is resigning myself to it not being my month

Squ1ggle · 26/08/2018 09:16

Oof, that sounds painful! No way I could do that Grin hope it's just too early for you too

lavenderlove · 26/08/2018 10:04

@Squ1ggle thanks, luckily I was quite suspicious of it anyway as i was only 5/6dpo and it was quite a dark line. Just confirmed what I thought when it disappeared Sad just seen that you got a bfn this morning but it's still very early!! Don't lose hope. I think I read that the average time for Implantation to occur is 9dpo then I don't think hcg shows up for a little bit after that

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lavenderlove · 26/08/2018 10:09

Thanks @Akasia luckily I only have 2 tests left in the house and I don't want to waste them so I'm going to do one on 10dpo then 12dpo I think. My boobs are really sore too! They always are though between ovulation and af so no change here! Hopefully it's not your cycling that's caused them lol. Did you manage to find out about you BBT charts?

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Akasia · 27/08/2018 10:33

@lavandrlove 🤞 for when you are testing. No, I didn't get any clarification in regards to the bbt issue, if anything I got more confused as downloaded few more apps and all have different ov dates. Are you going to give bbt a go if not lucky this month?
@Squ1ggle it is so hard, isnt't it, when all you want is that 2nd line :( I caved in and tested with frer this moring and bfn. I am getting light cramps as well so probably af is on her way very very early. And although I know this it won't stop me from testing again tomorrow 😃

Sparkles1992 · 27/08/2018 14:14

Hi everyone, I'm in my first TWW and getting impatient now! AF due on Friday according to my FLO app, but not sure how accurate it is as I had a 32 days cycle last month which is odd for me. FRER calculator says I can test today but I am only 9dpo so I don't think it would be accurate, I am realllllly wanting to test though and have a FRER from last month... the temptation is so hard.

When is everyone else AF due?

Good luck everyone SmileSmileSmile

Squ1ggle · 27/08/2018 16:14

@Sparkles1992 the temptation is so bad. AF not even due until Sunday for me. I'm probably going to test Wednesday or Thursday with a frer. You could test tomorrow if you're due Friday

lavenderlove · 27/08/2018 20:14

@Akasia it does look confusing when I've seen the charts. All I've heard is that it's a good sign if your temp stays high after ovulation? Yeh I'm going to give it a go if this month isn't my month. I work day and night shifts though so will be difficult getting my temp at the right time every day! X

Hi @Sparkles1992 did you end up testing today? It's so tempting isn't it. I used an OPK today just to curve my poas addiction! Af is due Sunday for me. Hopefully a frer would be pretty accurate for you tomorrow if you're due Friday Smile

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lavenderlove · 27/08/2018 20:16

@Squ1ggle my af is due Sunday too! Probably going to test tomorrow (10/11dpo) then on thurs or fri then I'll probably just wait to see if I'm late after that as I only have two tests left! Good luck for wed/thurs!

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Squ1ggle · 27/08/2018 20:26

@lavenderlove I have loads of tests, hence my lack of self control. I've got 2 frer, 2 cbd and 2 superdrug cheapies. They're calling to me!

Sparkles1992 · 27/08/2018 22:54

Hi @lavenderlove I didn't test today but I did buy some cheap tests so I may start, even though the frer would be more accurate Hmm my app says I'm due Friday but I've been having longer cycles so I wouldn't be surprised if I'm actually due on Sunday. I'm thinking of maybe testing Friday.. should be pretty accurate then!

I get the urge to POAS but when I know it's going to be negative I can resist the urge! Sunday is not long to wait, do you think you'll start testing this week or wait until the weekend?

Lots of luck to you ✨✨✨

Sparkles1992 · 27/08/2018 22:56

Thanks @Squ1ggle I'm unsure if I'm due Friday or Sunday as my cycles have been ranging from 28-32, no idea why! I think I ovulated on the 18th which was CD17. This Saturday would make me 14DPO.

When do you plan to test? It's so exciting but nerve wrecking too!!

Lots of luck ✨✨✨

lavenderlove · 28/08/2018 08:35

I tested this morning and it was a bfn Sad I should be 10/11dpo today so it's made me feel really disappointed that I'm probably out this month x

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lavenderlove · 28/08/2018 09:10

Please tell me if I'm going crazy but can any of you see a hint of a line?

Anyone around 9 dpo?
Anyone around 9 dpo?
Anyone around 9 dpo?
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Akasia · 28/08/2018 09:18

@lavanderlove maybe you ovulated later than expected. Was reading that opks are not that reliable as you can still get a positive result but not ovulate on that date. Don't lose hope yet.
Good luck to those of you who are testing this week!

Akasia · 28/08/2018 09:36

@lavanderlove I can see the begining of something!!
Look, I've changed it to negative and there is something there. Have you got any frers left?

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lavenderlove · 28/08/2018 09:43

Thanks @Akasia I'm trying not to get my hopes up but I see something too. Really hope it is the start of something! I don't have any frers, I only have one cheap eBay one left. I think I will buy a frer today to use in tomorrow morning Smile

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lavenderlove · 28/08/2018 11:12

Anyone know if you can get FRER's from Asda? I can't see them on the website and don't want to make a wasted journey! There's a chemist in my village but I'm not sure they will have much choice in there

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Akasia · 28/08/2018 16:21

As far as I know they only sell the FR Rapid Response but thats not for early testing. I get my frers mainly from boots or superdrug as they tend to have offers on them quite often x

Squ1ggle · 28/08/2018 20:10

Ooh @lavenderlove there could definitely be a faint line there, I'll keep all my fingers crossed.
I'm out this month I think, took a frer this morning and was a clear bfn. Bought some opks and some preseed on the way home for next month

lavenderlove · 29/08/2018 09:44

Took a FRER this morning and it was a bfn so I'm guessing I'm out this month Sad really disappointed as I thought this was the month x

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Akasia · 29/08/2018 12:05

Gutted for you @lavanderlove. It really looked like you had a line there yesterday.
Fed up right about now.. :( ttc is a joke!

Squ1ggle · 29/08/2018 15:20

So sorry @lavenderlove, it's so hard x

lavenderlove · 29/08/2018 16:09

Thank you @Akasia @Squ1ggle I would love to know what goes on inside our bodies, as I just can't understand how it doesn't happen when everything is timed correctly! Feel like there's not much more I can do which makes it more frustrating Sad going to save my other FRER for Friday as af due Sunday but I'm not holding out any hope x

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