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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC After Pregnancy Loss Thread 22.

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HidCat · 08/06/2018 20:30

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A thread for all those who have suffered the loss of a much wanted baby. Affectionately know as the penguin huddle.

We'll start with a roll call as there have been so many new members lately and so many success stories that I think we've all lost track.

HidCat
Age 35
TTC #2
DS 5
MC at 11wks in January
Cycle 3 post MC, trying since August 2017

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Lilimum4 · 26/06/2018 19:34

@YellowDaffodils86 so your having a really crappy time. Have you enjoyed your holiday?

Lilimum4 · 26/06/2018 19:35

@YellowDaffodils86 *sorry not so

DaisyMay25 · 26/06/2018 19:39

@zarala sexy week haha! I like it!

@Pancakes7 you poor thing, UTIs can be so painful too. I hope it's gone quickly!

Lovewinemorethanhusband · 26/06/2018 19:39

This thread is moving really fast at the moment ! Been away watching Ed Sheeran so a lovely break just in time for fw so fingers crossed this in my month ! Will catch up later on

Boboelephant · 26/06/2018 20:11

@TinyPaws so glad all went well! 👍
@zarala yep I know what you mean! I never had any idea before about my cycles, now I so attuned to every tiny detail! Haha I like the name 'sexy week'!
@Pancakes7 glad they gave you antibiotics. Hope it clears up soon.
@YellowDaffodils86 hello! I was just thinking about you. So sorry it sounds like af has come. I had everything crossed for you. Hope you have had a lovely holiday though.

achanger · 26/06/2018 20:23

This thread moves so quick! Short period for me this month, finished yesterday so will start OPKs on the weekend. It's so emotional isn't it!

weasledee · 26/06/2018 20:29

Ladies! I think this is the strongest positive OPK I've ever had! I'm impressed with my ovulation skills tonight Grin not bad for a 42 year old!!! Ha ha!

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KnitKitty · 26/06/2018 20:37

Excellent Weasledee! Go, go, go!!!! Grin

Sorry AF seems to be making an appearance YellowDaffodils86. It'd be worth test again if the bleeding doesn't get stronger just to be sure in case it's "pregnancy bleeding", but I know you won't be getting your hopes up after what your last AF was like. Bodies are so weird aren't they!!!

Pancakes7 I hope this lot of antibiotics does the trick. Feel better soon! Drink lots of cranberry juice.

zarala · 26/06/2018 21:04

Haha yup- sexy week is even in our shared calendar so OH knows what's up ! Such a shame we're apart in July! But oh well...

@YellowDaffodils86 what cycle is this since your MC? This is now my 4th since my last one and I still don't think I'm back to "normal"
But I have also had a bit of spotting today so expecting AF to arrive in full force tomorrow

@achanger it definitely is an emotional ride!

@weasledee that IS impressive! You go girl! JKS JKS JKS! Fx this is the one for you!!!

zarala · 26/06/2018 21:15

@Lovemysparkle how are you hun? How was the wedding? Are you still on honeymoon?? Please update us with your lovely sparkly stories!

@Cakelaur and how are you doing? Hope everything is going great!

Boboelephant · 26/06/2018 21:15

Go @weasledee!!! That is super strong. Grab your DH!!!!! 👍👍

Blondcat · 26/06/2018 21:27

@pancakes7 hope you feel better soon now you have more antibiotics.

@zarala loving sexy week that is a great name for it.

@weasledee woo hoo jks!

@tinypaws glad you had some positive news today.

Af is just about over so feeling much more positive today. Looking forward to catching up with one of my bestie's this weekend too.

GPS76 · 26/06/2018 21:31

@Laney79 My first AF last month was quite light but it came with a bang this month so hopefully I'm also going through a body spring clean!! X
@Pancakes7 bad news about your uti , my AF too 33 days to come after MC and then I felt normal again! Hope yours arrives soon so you feel the same and ready to try for another little bean x
@ek78 glad you finally got static smiley face , good luck for you this month x
@KnitKitty I've got my fingers crossed for you this month!
@zarala I'm liking the phrase 'sexy week'b I've already booked my DH in for one from this Sunday!
@YellowDaffodils86 so sorry that hear your AF is all over the place! It's confusing and emotionally draining ! Fx for you xx
@Boboelephant I'm like you, I never had any idea about my cycles but now I'm an expert at my own body ... my specialise subject is ..... ovulation! Think it should be on the school curriculum! X
@achanger I'll be starting OPK's this weekend too so good luck to you xx
@weasledee 42 yr old here too and impressed with your skills!
Hope I haven't missed anyone but good luck to all this month!
I'm CD4 today and have only had a 3 day AF, hope everything is back to normal and I'm going to start the digital OPK's from CD7 as my cycle has only been 26 days .
Fx and baby dust to everyone x

Laney79 · 26/06/2018 21:38

@GPS76 I'd take light right now...been having to go to the loo every 45mins/hour for fear of bleeding through pads...bloomin pouring! It's horrid! Been like that all day. I'm exhausted! And a bit wobbly...more floradix for me I think!

GPS76 · 26/06/2018 21:46

@Laney79 oh dear! Poor you! Floradix definitely helps, good luck to you xx

Cakelaur · 26/06/2018 23:11

@zarala I'm good babe. Thanks for asking. I'm trying to keep up with the thread. Still no AF for you?? Maybe a temp rise tomorrow?!

I'm now just over 15weeks. Sickness is dying down and bump is starting to appear. Not much to report from my end. Just waiting to welcome all of your guys onto the bfp thread. I miss you all. Xx

Lilimum4 · 26/06/2018 23:16

OK ladies I'm officially 1dpo let the madness begin

CobaltRose · 26/06/2018 23:24

I'm only 9DPO today but caved and decided to take an FRER and.... Grin

I had a missed miscarriage in April and we've been TTC ever since. Can scarcely believe it...

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dreaminofholidays · 26/06/2018 23:58

@cobaltrose congratulations! how very very exciting!

This thread moves so fast. Lovely to see all the supportive messages.

xxx

TedLife · 26/06/2018 23:58

Omg @CobaltRose! No mistaking that - congratulations!!

I'm 11dpo today and had a little brown spotting this eve when I wiped. I'm away for work til tomorrow night but plan to test when I'm back with my husband. Keeping everything crossed that it's implantation bleeding... and driving myself mad in a hotel room wondering Confused

TedLife · 27/06/2018 00:00

Also welcome to the crazy train @Lilimum4!

Newbie21 · 27/06/2018 06:12

@cobaltRose congratulations! Exciting news - wishing you and soon to be bump a safe and healthy pregnancy.

Laney79 · 27/06/2018 06:58

Fantastic news @CobaltRose xxx

HidCat · 27/06/2018 07:16

@Laney79 I hope things ease up for you today.

@Cakelaur lovely to hear things are going well and the sickness is improving.

@Lilimum4 welcome to the TWW!

@CobaltRose congratulations! Hope all goes well with this one. How are you feeling?

@TedLife only a bit longer to wait. Hope it's good news for you!

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YellowDaffodils86 · 27/06/2018 09:22

Thanks everyone, yeah holiday hd been good. Last day today, having some spa time later.

@zarala this is my 3rd cycle since MC. Before that i went from having the coil and no periods, to pregnancy within a month or so following removal and the MC. So i guess its going to be a little unsettled.

AF is truly here this morning. Belly is so crampy and heavy flow. Glad she is here at least and is 'normal' as the days went on i was pretty sure pregnancy wasn't the reason for her not showing.

I updated my app today and it moved my last ovulation day a week later then what I originally logged it at. Obviously to make it 14 days between this af and ovulation.
Do you think i got ovulation wrong and infact had a longer cycle and af was never really late? I got a very near positive opk followed by a neg, so assumed ovulation was at that point.

@Pancakes7 Uti sucks. Hope the ABs work for you and you feel better.

@weasledee Nice opk! ➕➕➕➕

@Cakelaur Glad all is going well with bubba.

@Lilimum4 good luck with tww crazyness

@CobaltRose ahh congratulations, nice line for 9dpo!

@Boboelephant How are you? Where in your cycle are you? Close to ov surely?
Might try SMEP too next cycle.

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