TTC after miscarriage Thread 21. JKS

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@Boboelephant so sorry for such a slow response but yay it's looking fab!! I almost think keep doing if you can one or two more days and then am sure ov will be confirmed either today or tomorrow? Just think to be on the safe side keep going until ff confirms it, because it could be a longer cycle like you had a couple of cycles back? And you'd be so annoyed if you stopped just a tiny bit too soon. But wow ff is going to give you tons of points for your jks!! How you feeling? (Other than knackered!!) 😂

Thanks dh wants to wait for a negative test first.... damn. Will test again Friday. Fx! I wanna get trying!!!

@Pancakes7 just get the least sensitive test you can find so you can start quicker lol. I think the digital ones are the least sensitive.

Hidcat I love your idea re tests! Ha!

@HidCat that made me laugh out loud!! Dh heard...so I told him. He did find it funny. I think I'll take a test tomorrow and cross my fingers.

Thanks boboelephant I guess I am CD2 then. I wish my OH was as in to the enjoyable part of TTC. It's hard to get him to do it 3 times in the same week, let alone 12 days in a row! I am in awe. This HAS to be your month, surely?!?

Weasledee Good luck for Thursday! xxx

Good luck for tomorrow Cakelaur. Will be thinking of you. :)

Pancakes7 I personally waited until I got a negative just because I didn't want to confuse myself trying to work out if I had a new pregnancy or residual HCG from my previous one if my period didn't show up. I got my negative 4 weeks after ERPC and AF started CD38.

Maydot that's great the AF arrived. Good luck in this new cycle if you're trying again straight away. :)

Sorry for your loss Misbit1. I don't really enjoy the emotional roller coaster of TTC either. Good luck with it. We're here when you need us.

Hidcat are you going to test tomorrow as planned then?

L1zz13 Good luck with the seduction! Have fun!

I just had some now brown blood... ☹ I am hoping it'll stop by Friday.

More* not now

@KnitKitty I really don't know 🙈. On the one hand I've had only had a 5p sized bit of brown blood on a pad and only watery pink / red blood on wiping otherwise, on the other hand I don't want to see a negative and feel I should wait a few more days. Going to see how I feel in the morning. That pesky optimism is back 😬.

@Pancakes7 I hope it's just a little and it's all stopping for you.

Ah just wrote a long post to most of you ladies and then bloody went and lost it!
Don't have it in me to rewrite
So I will just say I think i am officially on the TTC game (finally!) 😬
OH told me today that he's done with protected sex and wants to get on the JKS marathon! @Boboelephant I think he was jealous of your husband 🙄 plus it's his bday tomorrow so I have comply! 🤸🏽‍♀️
I peed on my first ever OPK -it was negative (I am only cd8 so was expected) but JKS starts tonight according to OH...
I am really anxious about TTC I've had diarreoh all day just thinking about it! (Sorry if tmi) Need to channel my inner peace and positivity- might Try headspace some of you mentioned...🧘🏽‍♀️
But I figure we have to start soon because god knows how long we'll take until BFP.
And at least now I know what my issue is we should hopefully get our 🌈 soon 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Hugs and baby dust to all!

Ps @Cakelaur how did the scan go?

Hello ladies how are we all doing. Just a question to all you ladies that use opks. I seem to have a second line on every test I take and have since cd10 and I'm now cd15 is this right or does it mean I have a dodgy batch of sticks ( one step wide ones).

@HidCat Thanks. I hope so too. I jist want to get trying and get that bfp again! Is your af late yet? Fx for you!

Should have said strong positive lines

Hello @Lilimum4 I would definitely recommend the digital OPK tests, I know they are a little more expensive but the one I have gives you four days of fertility and it's as clear as can be! No looking at tests in the light to see if there's a line! As Ive not had a problem in falling pregnant, I'm hoping that I won't be using them for long so the money is worth it x fx for you xx

@zarala so happy for you!

@Lilimum4 I think some people do have long surges so it might be that. When did you last do a pregnancy test though? They get strong positives during pregnancy too...

@Pancakes7 I thought it had arrived on time this morning but it stopped! Have had spotting for the last few days so not really sure if it might be implantation instead. Not really sure what's going on tbh.

Haha @DaisyMay25 and @MrsGS76. Something for them to aim for!
@weasledee good luck for Thursday!
@Cakelaur ooh tomorrow is the big day! I'm so excited for you. And love that you got Doppler. 👍👍
@Pancakes7 as @KnitKitty said waiting for a neg test is just so if you did catch straight away you wouldn't be stuck worrying if it was a new pregnancy or left over hcg. The brown blood is a good thing. That's old blood so should be the end of it!
@Maydot glad your af has started and body is getting back to normal!
@MisBit1 and @littleemma1 welcome and so sorry for your losses.
@HidCat ooh fingers crossed you're not out yet! And your test post made me laugh!
@L1zz13 oohh it's go time!!! Hope you can get DH in the mood!! You too @MrsGS76, nice work on the steak pie!
@BabynameEdie thanks hun! Number 12 complete! 👊 Haha pretty knackered yes. And stupidly hopeful as always. I'll be even more gutted if doesn't work this month after all the jks I imagine.
@KnitKitty thankyou. I really really hope so! It's been such a long crap journey.
@zarala good luck hun! Channel your inner peace. Repeat mantra... I am a sex goddess.... 😂😂 remember it's supposed to be fun! And rest in the knowledge that you seem to conceive easily and now you know what the issue was. 🤞
@Lilimum4 can you post a picture of the opks?

@HidCat Oh awful all the not knowing isn't it. @Boboelephant I hope it's the end of it! Yeah I know that's sensible. I'm just so impatient! I want to be pregnant again now!! Need to just wait...

@Pancakes7 it is hard not to be impatient. I know! You're not far away now from trying now and hopefully it doesn't take long to fall again. 🤞

Just to show a difference between digital ovulation tests and 'amazon' ones .. I used the clear blue advanced digital test this morning and it was negative but have the done it tonight as well as the amazon ones and look at the difference. The digital test is actual flashing a smiley face which means I'm in my fertile period (not ovulating yet) but can still DTD !! The 'amazon' one is not showing I'm in my fertile period yet, and if you have a very short fertile period you may miss it out on these ones. I've already pre warmed DH for tonight and the next few nights.... xx

@Boboelephant Thanks. I hope so too. I just hope it also goes ok this time. I'm scared the same thing will happen again. I hope you're successful this month after all your jks! Fx for you! I never realised until I started ttc-ing how much waiting is involved! I hate it lol

@Boboelephant I'm so confused. These (I'm a poas freak) are from morning of 30/5/18 to today 5/6/18. Around 31/5 I had really strong ovulation pains in my right side. The last test was done about an hour ago. I went for the scan on 4/6/18 and sonagragher said she didn't think I had ovulated. Today is cd16 for me and I have a 28 day cycle. What do you make of all this? If I did ovulate on 31/6 that would make me 5dpo right? This is all so confusing

Hidcat if I were you I'd do a test just to know either way tomorrow, but I might be super impatient! If you'd prefer to see if AF turns up in earnest in the next day or two, do that.

@Boboelephant omg what a marathon... it has to be your month! My fingers are so tightly crossed for you haha! 🤞

@zarala wow seems like it was a great idea seeing Dr Shehata! I’m glad it was so helpful for you. & yay for TTC again! Have fun with all the JKS 😉

@HidCat fingers crossed for you! 🤞

Hope you’re all doing alright. Good luck to everyone in FW and TWW! I hope June brings lots of bfp’s. Sending hugs to anyone struggling right now

@Lilimum4 how many are you taking each day? I think your positive is the 6th one down. What date was that and how far apart were the 6th one and the 8th one? I would normally say that you probably ovulated a day or so after the 6th one. However it is strange that the sonographer said you hadn't ovulated. If she is right it's possible you had the LH surge as your body was gearing up to ovulate but then didn't complete the process. Your last test is dark but not positive. However if you haven't actually ovulated yet it could be possible that you are having another surge and it may still happen. How many cycles since MC? It is possible for cycles to be messed up for 6 months. I have ovulated from day 16 to day 22 on the last few month's. Sorry it's so confusing! I'd try and keep bd'ing!

@Boboelephant I know how many been obsessed since I found out about the cyst on my left ovary. The test your referred to was on the afternoon (2.30 pm) of 31/6 and I had the strong pains from about 6-7 ish same day.