TTC after miscarriage Thread 21. JKS

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I know there are not much comforting words I can offer. I’m also experiencing the same thing. It’s just that my dh & I’ve been trying for 7 yrs now. I know how frustrating it is when every month af shows up. I don’t want it… I want to get pregnant so bad. I did IVF in May, but m/c last week. We will try again next month (ivf again). That is going to be our last try… After that I don’t know what to do anymore. Well dr. thinks donor eggs may work… But I don’t want to think about it right now. I put all hopes in upcoming IVF. I leave everything in GOD's hands. I believe if it’s HIS will, then it will happen. Hang in there girl... But it’s not easy to stay positive, when you see a baby or pregnant women. I'm just glad that I have a wonderful DH. I just think about all the good things happened and good people around me. Good luck to you and to all who ttc.

@jjjen I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriages. I hope you're doing ok and that your final round of ivf gives you the baby you deserve. We have a more up to date thread if you want to join us. TTC After Pregnancy Loss Thread Thread 22.

Hello all :-) not sure if anyone can join so hope this is okay :-) i mc four weeks ago yesterday :-( I am coming to terms with it and feel a lot better.

However I am now driving myself slowly insane!! I had a bfn finally on Sunday which was a relief and an internal scan showed nothing left. However yesterday I had such an urge to pos so I did and it had a very very faint line (had to pretty much shine a light behind to see it but it was there and slightly pinky). So now I’m going nuts thinking I’m a) pregnant again so soon or b) didn’t actually get a true bfn on Sunday. God I wish I’d kept Sunday’s test to double check it!!!

I think I ovulated last Wednesday but I also seem to have had a surge two weeks ago so no idea what’s going on there!!!

God this whole thing is such a mind fuck! Apologies for swearing!!! 🙊

@Gillead2029 I'm so sorry for your loss but welcome to the group. I'm glad you're feeling ok but that bit before getting your period is so confusing, you're not alone in that.

I'd be surprised if you had a new pregnancy already, your surge 2 weeks ago could have been left over pregnancy hormones as opks normally show positive when pg. I'd test again in a few days to make sure the line doesn't get darker just to be in the safe side. If it does then call your epu again and they'll confirm with bloods so you know what's happening.

@hidcat thank you for replying :-) it is so confusing ! Nice that people understand though :-) I tested ovulation every day and it started at nothing then increased to peak! Midwife said ovulation could come back that quick :-s on one hand I hope the line gets darker but on the other I am not ready to cope with another loss :-/ you think you'll get pregnant and it will all be plain sailing! How wrong I was!

@Gillead2029 just remember that most people have a successful pregnancy after a loss. Very few (statistically) have multiple miscarriages. We're all here to hand hold and there's a follow on thread for pregnancies as well full of penguin graduates.

Thank you :-) I know you are right :-) I just need to get my head around it all and realise that what will be will be so no point in stressing :-)