TTC after miscarriage Thread 21. JKS

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@Anyday88 hi I'm thinking 3dpo but not confident this month

@Anyday88 I've been exactly the same since my mc. Currently 11dpo with just BFN on cheapies. Going to hold on until Wednesday and test with. A FRER if my period is a no show.

@Anyday88 I've been exactly the same since my mc. Currently 11dpo with just BFN on cheapies. Going to hold on until Wednesday and test with. A FRER if my period is a no show.

Sorry for the double post! Connection issue!

@Blondcat , yep so far DH is on board and aware he's in for a busy week! Fx for you too! Xx

Sorry I've not been on for a few days- been non stop since Wednesday this week & have only just had a chance to properly catch up & reply.

Thank you everyone for your supportive posts on Tuesday. I'm definitely out this cycle unfortunately - AF arrived Thursday. Not sure if might have been a chemical as was a very heavy period for me and defo had pregnancy symptoms last weekend and beginning of last week which seemed to slowly fade. 🤷‍♀️ Will be not TTC ing till August now probs- maybe July if I'm lucky as OH is working away but will keep in touch and see how your all getting on if ok?

@KnitKitty I'm so sorry lovely. It's just so heart breaking when this happens. I also feel I have learned my lesson this time and will try and be stronger in not testing so early next time we try. It is just so difficult in the tww too though! How are you doing today? Hope you have lots of nice things happening to distract/treat yourself with.

Caught up with a lot of old close friends at mates wedding yesterday which really helped me. Also made some big decisions re:work and trying to reduce my overall stress for the next year or so which is making me feel a bit more in control/less stressed with things.

@RedRobin7 I hope Canada is amazing! I know you'd rather just not be on holiday and still be pg but try & see it as a great experience you'd not have had otherwise. And hopefully should leave you nice and chilled for TTC this cycle. Fingers crossed for you!

@strawberrye my temps have been all over the place since my mmc in March too (mc 2). Not sure if means maybe my hormones are not quite settled to normal routine yet🤷‍♀️

Good luck to those in TWW. 🤞for you all. Welcome to those of you who have just joined- sorry your here but this is a great supportive hub/huddle! 🐧 & sorry to those for whom AF has arrived that I've missed! Xxx

@HidCat ooh hopefully they are a dodgy batch and you get two lovely lines on Wednesday!
@MrsLCW I'm sorry for your bfn. I think if you can you should try and wait until at least Wednesday before testing again. Bfns are so awful to see.
@strawberrye sorry you think it might have been an anovulatory cycle. Do you want to post your chart?
@MrsGS76 I hope it's a good cycle for you! If you are going to try the pineapple they recommend it from 1dpo to 5dpo and you have to eat the core. I don't mind it but lots of ladies hate it! I just take a bite of the juicy bit after the harder core. I'm cd17 today and got my positive opk so should ovulate tonight or overnight . Short surge. I temp so fx for a temp raise in the morning!
@Pancakes7 glad the wedding was fun. It takes a while to heal but time really does help. Try and take the work return slowly and don't be afraid to take a minute when you need it. Also I got my negative hpt 2 weeks after my ERPC.
@hellotoyellow fx! When will you test?@KeefBurtain, @MrsGS76, @Blondcat and @RedRobin7 good luck with the upcoming fertile week! Get your sexy knickers on if those fellas are claiming tiredness! 😉

I've completed a bit of a jks record breaking marathon over here- 10 times in 10 days. Let's hope it does the trick hey??

@Anyday88 I hope your holiday and DD's birthday were awesome and good luck back at work. Fx for this cycle too. Try and hold out a few more days! The fake negatives aren't worth the heartbreak!
@Jessabean so sorry af got you and that you will be out for awhile. It could be the break that you need though to give your body and mind a break. I've put in a big effort this month to have less stress and more relaxing time for myself and it feels great. This has been a long journey for me and may be even longer so I've decided it's really important to not miss everything else. Definitely stick around and let us know how you are! Hopefully hear good news from you on a couple of months!

Thanks @Boboelephant I'll try my best to hold off! X

@Boboelephant Haha I've packed a whole weeks worth of sexy knickers! The granny pants stayed at home 😂😂 Even bought 4 new bras for the occasion lol!

Bloody hell! 10 times in 10 days - that's impressive! Fingers crossed for you 🤞🤞

Thanks @Boboelephant they were pretty good 😊

I have told myself I will wait until atleast Friday, I just need to find some willpower from somewhere now.

I have my 🤞🏻 this is going to be your cycle!

@Hidcat 🤞🏻 For Wednesday then.

@Lilimum4 I never know exactly so I have my 🤞🏻 for you 😊

Thanks for all the kind messages.
Lilimum4 Sorry this happened to you last time too. It's comforting to know others are going through the same journey.
I had a major wobble last night and cried for about an hour. Not just about the chemical but also my previous miscarriage and also just life in general. I've had a horrendous week at work this week and am not at all where I'd like to be in life and just everything got on top of me. I am feeling much better again today. It's OH's birthday so I've spent the day cooking and hosting for a surprise birthday gathering. Had a lovely meal in the sunshine and I'm keeping up the positive mantras. A new cycle is a new chance. Just got to keep looking forwards and not lose hope.

Jessabean good to hear from you again. Sorry AF arrived and that it's a bad one. Good to hear you're making some changes to make you feel more in control. I'm looking at doing that too. Please stick around to let us know how you're doing.

RedRobin7 Enjoy your holiday. Getting my OH to do the baby dance more than twice a week is a huge task for me too. Seems like a chore for him sometimes. The worst thing is it seems like whenever I'm really in the mood for it it puts him off. Sigh.
I hope your new bras work their magic!
And WOW Boboelephant 10 times in 10 days??? You must both be exhausted! Haha! Really hope it does the trick!

Good luck to those in TTW and/or who are testing soon.
Good luck to those just starting a new cycle or in their FW.

Haha @RedRobin7 good for you!! I hope they put DH in the mood and you get some quality bd'ing in!!
Yeah it's a bit OTT really but I feel like I need to try everything this month! I am dreading the idea of not being pregnant with both my due dates coming up so soon so hopefully the marathon is my good luck charm! At least DH is happy, I have the other end of the spectrum where he would love it every day twice a day and I need rest! 😴
@Anyday88 thankyou and I have mine crossed for you too.
@KnitKitty sorry to hear about your wobble but it really is good to let it out and feel it. I love the relief that comes after a good cry. So glad you had a lovely day today. Definitely keep up with your positive mantras and I hope DH gets a bit more frisky for you during fw!!

@Boboelephant thanks, that's good to know. I started bleeding again. Hoping one more week then we can get back to operation ttc.

I know really should wait for af but I'm too impatient. I won't use any ovulation tests but will just see what happens. Just got to hope. Been feeling down today. Still stuggling with whats happened. Feeling anxious about work. This is the longest I've ever been off (2 wks)

@Boboelephant Also well done on 10 in 10! Fx for you this month! I said to dh we need to jks every day if poss!

@Boboelephant 10 for 10!!! You're a legend!!! It's gotta be the month!!! Xx

@Boboelephant omg, you're crazy!!! I could never manage that! Fx it pays off for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Cakelaur how are you doing?

Hi @HidCat I'm ok 12weeks today. Beginning to get nervous for my nuchal scan on Wednesday. Had some spotting again a few days ago. But starting to feel like this actually could be my rainbow! 🌈

How are you? I've been sort of following along. Just sprinkling baby dust and crossing everything for everyone's bfps this month!

That's come around so fast! I'm sure everything will be fine for you! I'm in the TWW with AF due Wednesday so feeling optimistic and trying not to overanalyse everything and failing. Hopefully will be joining you on the pregnancy boards in the not too distant future!

Oooh @HidCat so close!! Are you holding out to test?? Or testing early?? 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Pancakes7 my doc said that it didn't matter about waiting for af as they only recommend that for dating purposes. I'd say once you stop bleeding and get your negative go for it. I ovulated 4 days after negative so it all happened quite quickly.
I hope work is ok for you. Hopefully you have a supportive boss. Just take it day by day. It's a huge trauma and one we don't get over in a few days or weeks. Be kind to yourself!
@Cakelaur haha thanks!! Ovulation is stretching out a bit- looks like today now- so it might become 12 for 12! 😂😴 woohoo for 12 weeks!!!! 👍👶❤ Hope Wednesay is perfect- I'm sure it will be!!!!
@DaisyMay25 haha I agree about the crazy part!! How are you going? What CD are you?

@Cakelaur I'd been testing using internet cheapies but all BFN so far. Didn't test this morning. Had a bit of spotting this morning so could go either way still!

Wow @bobotheelephant! Well done on your marathon!
I’m now at cd 26 but I think I didn’t ovulate this cycle so I’m not feeling the stress and excitement of the 2ww. Doesn’t mean I won’t feel sad when AF arrives but I’m actually feeling quite good atm. Ive been focussing on getting out and doing some exercise and so I feel a bit better in my body. I can take a shift on the outside of the huddle. 🐧

Thanks @Boboelephant yes I think in a week when its negative we will try. I just want to be pregnant again asap. Yeah my boss is usually good. I just hope he still is now he knows I want a baby... anyway I best leave for work. Feeling very anxious to face everyone.

Good luck @pancakes7 hopefully work will be ok today and will give you a bit of distraction from everything.