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Fed up fed up fed up FED UP!!!!!!

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Kate8989 · 19/05/2018 11:11

Sorry ladies just felt like a rant......
Had a fricking shit year so far that doesn’t seem to be getting better at the moment. I have good days and bad days but feeling fed up today. I think watching the wedding making me feel more down as everyone looks happy and beautiful and I’m sat here looking like waynettea slob 😂 x

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physicskate · 29/06/2018 15:44

Thank you. I'm feeling quite cautious at this point... Kinda feel like I don't deserve it?????

thisisouryrfx18 · 29/06/2018 15:59

@physicskate the fact its taken u 3yrs to get here i completely understand id feel scared to get xcited but u totally deserve it after all the heartache ttc for that length of time brings💞

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Kate8989 · 29/06/2018 16:09

You’ll be feeling a lot of emotions!!!! It’s normal, your head will tell you to feel one way and your heart another. X

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Bluecocooon · 29/06/2018 16:27

Kate it’s taken you a long time to get here so it’s understandable that you feel apprehensive. However you ARE pregnant and regardless of the outcome, you are allowed to feel happy, hopeful and excited. Best of luck, I will be watching out for your news. Take good care Kate x

thisisouryrfx18 · 02/07/2018 15:23

@physicskate how are things?

physicskate · 02/07/2018 15:34

4 +3. Feel fine? Had some cramps, but they haven't bothered me today... I'm down to a 20% chance of miscarriage - if the internet can be believed! Never made it further than 4+3... so we shall see!!

thisisouryrfx18 · 02/07/2018 15:44

@physicskate thats brill hun x r u due an early scan with ur history?

physicskate · 02/07/2018 15:47

I've got one for the 16th. I am hopeful but not entirely confident that it will happen. It's the same for any IVF cycle, I think...

peachesarenom · 02/07/2018 16:50

OMG physicskate!!! I'm so super happy for you! Are you gonna come over to the preggo board?

physicskate · 02/07/2018 17:35

Not sure I'm ready to 'engage' yet... feels in limbo. Feeling cautious...

peachesarenom · 02/07/2018 18:15

Totally understandable physicskate how many weeks will you be at your scan? If they see a heartbeat at 9.5weeks miscarriage risk goes down to 2.5%

physicskate · 02/07/2018 18:29

Will be 6 + 3 at scan... hoping for a hb but know there's no guarantees!!

thisisouryrfx18 · 02/07/2018 20:42

@physicskate id feel totally the same like i said before its hard to get excited when uve had a lot of bad news..at least ur scans soon but i know in this ttc game a wk feels like a yr x

peachesarenom · 02/07/2018 20:44

It's a difficult wait even till 6+3. Don't worry if you don't see a heartbeat then, I think there is quite a bit of variation that early, all depends on how fast your hcg rises. Mine was a bit slow. I've got everything crossed for you. I'm finding work tough, I think you did the right thing quitting.

thisisouryrfx18 · 04/07/2018 13:39

Any up date?

thisisouryrfx18 · 06/07/2018 16:11

@Kate8989 how are u hun? Im on such a low today af came yest im mentally and physically exhausted dnt know how much more of this i can take!

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Kate8989 · 06/07/2018 19:51

Hey poppet, I’m not too bad. At home recovering. I had my major surgery on Monday. Sorry to hear you’re not feeling great 😢 xx

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thisisouryrfx18 · 06/07/2018 20:08

@Kate8989 had a shit day suppose everyone has them cant stop crying im an emotional wreck just soo tired of it!..how have u been feeling since ur op? X

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Kate8989 · 06/07/2018 20:19

Ohh I’m sorry to hear that 😢 being a woman is fucking hard work! It’s good to let it all out so don’t feel bad for crying or feeling the way you do.
I’m very tender, will be a long recovery. I had some of my vagina cut out and bowel shaved off xx

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thisisouryrfx18 · 06/07/2018 20:44

@Kate8989 thanks for understanding hun x god that sounds xtremely painful did it all go as planned?

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Kate8989 · 08/07/2018 22:13

Hey,

How are you today!?

Yes the op went very well but the endo was more extensive than they thought. So it was quite hard work getting rid of it all. The stuff was a hard as concrete 😳 x

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thisisouryrfx18 · 09/07/2018 09:39

@Kate8989 geez i didnt realise i thought it would b fleshy growths..hopefully now uve had ur op itl help with ur pain and ttc. I had a massive blow up with oh which isnt like us think we ve both just reached a breaking point i know his SA is stressing him out. I almost feel like giving up ttc but i dnt want to, i dnt want it to keep ruining my day everyday! Soo sick of it all x

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Kate8989 · 06/08/2018 19:53

Just checking in to see how everyone is doing? xx

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physicskate · 06/08/2018 21:33

Had my last fertility clinic scan today at 9+3. Heart beat and waving at us. I cried. Chance of my miscarriage now down to 1-2%!

Things have really changed from the last two years! Oh and I've got a job interview for the civil service! Should be an interesting experience, but not holding my breath.

Any updates from you Kate?

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Kate8989 · 06/08/2018 21:54

Awww that’s lovely news- how your life has changed Smile.
I’m still taking time to heal, think it’s going to be a long road for me but hey ho that’s life.
X

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