anyone else just fucked off with this lark and want to moan?

[stillvicarinatutu]

come on then.
moan away.
ill start. i m just so fucking fucked off. lost one last year at 44....i thought its a miracle!! wasnt to be but filled me with what appears to be false hope.

been trying ever since. and no. every month the same. this month as well as AF ive another surprise - a cyst. where no one ever ever wants one.
so this month will be lost. along with all dignity as i beg the hospital to lance it.

moan away. go on. you know you want to.

@mamasbookbabynumber2 hello!!

Hello @mrsjones I was wondering if we would bump into each other again
Are you on cycle 11 now? Any hint of a bfp?
I'm in my fw atm.

@mama welcome! feel like i recognise your username :)

Yes! Hello juney I was on the thread a while at which was for ttc to graduates.have been try for 9 months and then before that we were trying last year for 6 months and my name was babydances I think. I took a few months out.

How are you juney? I don't recognise many people on the buses. It seems us longer ttc-ers are all in here. Silly me for not finding u here sooner.

Like everyone I am feeling frustrated and wondering why it's not happened yet.

I gave up on the buses as too many get their BFP in the first month and it's just depressing! But I'm okay! 9dpo over here, not sure if I feel anything or not! This is cycle 7 with this donor, cycle 12 over all blah!!

Where are you at in your cycle? xx

Is it expensive to do a donor? I'm on CD 14 so been busy dtd. But also feel it's pointless thinking about fw and tracking as its all ben for nought atm.

I have 1dc who is nearly 8. It took me so long to convince dp to have a baby (dc1 not bio his) that the age gap is widening.

We are doing home insemination so fairly cheap, we just pay expenses. But if we went to a clinic it'd be approximately £1,200 a cycle for IUI :/

Are you able to get any support from your GP now that it Has been 12 months?

I think so, I'm certainly going to ask after this month!

I also know I need to crack on and lose weight as that certainly isn't helping!

I am thinking about when we reach month 12 to go and see the doctors too.
Is it unusual for it to take over a year as there's alot of ladies on here who have been trying for a long while.

Glad to hear you’ve started fertility tests justwaiting I have too and it all seems very real now :(

OH has to go and give a sample in to the lab at the hospital on Wednesday morning. Anyone know how long it can take to eat the results?

Omfg GET not eat!!! I wouldn’t want to eat the results of a sperm sample, obviously

Hahaha bubblegum that made me laugh. I remember you too from previous threads. Sorry to hear everyone is at the stage of getting checked out.

@Bubblegum89 I eat too many sperm samples...maybe that's where we are going wrong ;)

Ours came back in about 5 days I think although they had said a week

Aw welcome mamabooks in the nicest way possible, I wish I wasn’t seeing you in here! How long have you been ttc now? I’m coming up to a year with zero pregnancies whatsoever in that time.

jane hahaha omg, NOW you know what the problem is!! 5 days isn’t too bad, I assume you either call your dr or they call you rather than speak to the lab directly?

jane that creased me up! bubble 9 months and then 6 months last year too

I had what j presume was a chemical on cycle 2 and last year I took a break due to mental health1

I’m sorry to hear about your chemical mamabooks :( most women I know who have been trying for roughly as long as I have have had a mc/chemical or both. I haven’t had a positive test whatsoever and although I so fortunate to not have been through a loss whilst ttc, it makes me wonder if maybe there is something really wrong with me since I can’t seem to get pregnant at all :/

I've been trying about 23 cycles, no sniff of a bfp either. Had tests done, my blood showed all fine. DH sperm showed low morphology so maybe that's the reason. As soon as af arrived this month I'm starting him on soluble men conception vitamins or something to see if that helps.

*arrives! It's still not here, although probably tonight or tomorrow.

That’s rubbish Sooz :( my bloods all came back fine too. Have you had any other tests done like an HSG or anything?

@mamas onto cycle 12 for us now and not even a sniff of a BFP 😕

Sorry to hear it's now cycle 12. Were u using ov sticks or temping? I'm not sure I want to poas so much to see if I've ov.

Any previous dc?
I'm starting to feel like contraception in the future is pointless and if I ever do get pregnant I could track my cycle that way. As I am realising getting pregnant isn't quite so easy.
My dc (I have 1) was a broken condom suprise. Who knew 8 years later what luck that actually was on the ttc world I am currently in.

My bake-at-home Yorkshire puddings wishes you all a lovely weekend (and half-term if you're a teacher)!!