Cheers for the feast Impy - tuck in everyone.
Hope I?m more successful with my rather longwinded response to Glitterkitty? here goes!!
GlitterKitty - I'm going through something similar with my bfriend. (Though she fell pg rather than sneezing one day)... For the two months she was sort of trying and, at last, I felt I had a real life friend I could share all the crap about ttc... (to the point I realised I had to hold back as all my bottled up concerns came pouring out!!)
When she told me she was 6 weeks I was completely torn in two. I dreamed of us getting pg around the same time, and having kids the same age (I encouraged her to start ttc!). I was over the moon for her while I was at rock bottom. Meanwhile, she was asking me for advice, scared of being pg, desperately in need of a mate to hold her hand through it and I was eaten up with jealousy and very, very sad.
She then called me saying she was going into a&e with a feared ectopic... and I felt dreadful. All was OK but she said she just didn't know how much to tell me. I replied... by text: I was happy for her and I hoped I could be there for her as her bump developed but also hoped she understood there would be times I'd need to keep away.
Within half an hour of the text she was at my door with flowers. We both cried... and it has helped clear the air. I'm not saying it is all hunky dory... I'm still the barren one, she's still up the duff - but it has restored a closeness I think has been missing from our friendship for some time.
I hope this helps in some way - I'm sure she is happy for you, and I'm sure your success gives her some hope (Congrats by the way!!! - what do you think worked in the end for you??), however she will also feel she has lost a friend with whom she can share her innermost fears of ttc... and may be struggling with the dreadful emotion of jealously. Perhaps she needs to know you still understand.