Poppy75 ? poor you, you?ve had a horrible time, I?m so sorry but it?s lovely to have you with us and we hope this thread really helps and that you fall again very soon When did you do these OV tests? Do you chart your temps & CM or anything like that? It can help to show you things about your cycle in addition to pin-pointing the most fertile days. I?ve decided that if anyone asks me again when I am going to have a baby etc, I?m going to come out and say my baby died, I don?t care if it?s rude or if they squirm, if they?re rude enough to ask, they?ll wish they hadn?t. This comes off the back of being harassed by my PIL since our wedding day last June and by various other people and we got a BFP finally after 8 cycles of trying only for it to end at 10 weeks, I?m not letting anyone add to the pressure anymore. I?m 33 by the way and have 8 pregnant friends at the mo, one due a week before what should have been my EDD testing times ahead!
Hayls ? I agree, the burden of hiding a mc is so heavy. Even felt the need to tell my bank manager yesterday I do know her well though and was trying to get her to refund a bank charge and was blaming my dip into the red on my emotional state which think was fair enough. How are you feeling physically now? I feel empty and flabby, I know the latter sounds odd, I just do. I?ve had some twinges from each ovary but not really like OV pains. I was going to take a test this morning to see if it was ?ive yet (I think MC started 3 weeks ago today but not sure as had a scan 2 days into the bleed and the baby was still there) but I chickened out, it just felt too weird .
Catbabymummy ? hope the GP appointment helps. Wish I had an issue with food (I think I?ve been seeking comfort )
Hello Glimmer ? how are you doing? Feeling a bit better?
Hey Jess, so sorry to hear you are still not feeling right I?m having the same quandary as you about temps and OV, I was regular before and this is so stressful. I like you really want to fall asap but another part of me wants AF to arrive so I at least know where I am in my cycle. I just think maybe my body just doesn?t feel back to normal yet. I hope the pains stop soon.
Becklespeckle ? glad to hear that AF is more normal but sorry that she arrived at all. The dates and milestones do plague you don?t they? I should have been 12 weeks today based on LMP, instead, it?s 3 weeks since the scary bleeding began and 2 weeks tomorrow since they confirmed that the baby had gone . I so want to be pregnant again, it?s almost an obsessive desire.