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January bus anyone?

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DrRBannerx · 12/12/2016 09:11

Thought I'd start the January bus, anyone else hoping for their BFP to welcome in the new year?
My stats are -
Age 23
TTC #2
CD 10
Cycle -- hard to put a number on, been trying a year but have had two losses, 5w and 12w so not sure where to count from.
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Londonexhile · 16/12/2016 07:01

Hi OhB don't you just love the confusion OPKs bring? I can't quite bring myself to temp as I regularly get up at different times / have a cat on my head so I don't think it would help!

I thought I had a faint OPK yesterday but this morning...snowy white!! Meanwhile, the Clear Blue dual hormone sticks showing low through. God knows.

Expecting to be ovulating Sunday / Monday but now I'm thinking maybe a bit later! Some CM but tbh I can never really tell.

Can stress delay ovulation? I had a weird anxiety feeling in my stomach, I think work related...and now ironically, ovulation related!! Hmm

Dazedandconfusedtoomuchpeppa · 16/12/2016 07:23

Well unexpectedly I am now cycle day 2! Can't believe cycle was a normal length this month Shock. Maybe Angus Cactus does work after all. Should hopefully now ovulate before DH leaves in January to go back to work.

Amz26 · 16/12/2016 08:41

Sorry Hoho I can't really help you out there! I need some help with my OPK too 😁

Welcome on the bus afire

That's good your cycle was normal daz hoping 2017 is a good year for everyone 🙌

I'm sorry to hear you're so stressed london I'm not to sure but I'm sure stress can stop your periods so I'm guessing it can stop you ovulating🤔 That's only a guess tho!!

This was my test this morning on the OPK does anyone know if this means I should be ovulating soon?

January bus anyone?
Ohb0llocks · 16/12/2016 09:44

I'm just going to shag every other day until I'm bleeding or pregnant that's my plan Grin

Bows85 · 16/12/2016 10:11

Good plan Ohb!

I would say that you could be on your way to getting your surge Amz. Not quite there yet, but looks promising! I predict a weekend of DTD for you Grin

ns1348 · 16/12/2016 10:42

Welcome newbies,

I feel the ovulation confusion: while Ovia says I'm in my fertile window Clearblue has said low fertility yesterday and today (though not surprising as I had a long AF): I'm hoping I'll just have a longer cycle rather than not ovulate this one. Sorry, have no idea about the stick tests to help, think I'd be too confused by them so have found the clearblue ones online as cheap as poss.

hoho we made time for dtd on wedding night, but we had our big party the following night as had two day wedding, so that made it easier for us, but you should make time for it if you'd like to: weddings are about the couple and their love after all! I was fairly blunt about where we were heading to a few close friends...! Can't believe you're on here and seeming pretty ok so close to it: really hope it goes amazingly!

Dazed pleased to hear your cycle was normal, and that you should ovulate before DH goes away.

Londonexhile · 16/12/2016 11:29

Hi ns I'm in the same place, app says FW but Clear Blue & opks say no!

I think my DH would agree with OhB's strategy!!!

DTD last night & used preseed for the first time!

Amz26 · 16/12/2016 11:51

Sounds like a plan hoho good luck for the wedding day.. Hope you enjoy every minute

Ive been doing the same!... I Don't want to miss my chance! To be honest I thought I had ovulated already 😁 I'm must of been wrong! Thanks bows that's what I was thinking but I wasn't sure

Think I might try the clearblue one next cycle NS X

blackcherries · 16/12/2016 15:43

I'll jump on this bus although no longer hopeful. Think I'll take myself off some of the other threads I've been on as trying not to obsess any more...
Anyway:
Name: cherries
Age 35
ttc no.2
10th cycle of trying
cd 12 and just got positive opk which is the earliest so far.

Amz26 · 16/12/2016 16:35

Hey cherries, welcome to the thread😀

I know it's so hard not to get obsessed, when do you normally get your positive OPK? X

blackcherries · 16/12/2016 19:32

usually cd14 or 15, but has been even later like cd16 in a recent cycle (cycles were always 25-26 days except the last two when they were 32 and 28!)

Lozalooloo3 · 16/12/2016 19:42

DrRB I'll be testing on 31st too!
Fx for us both! X

Amz26 · 16/12/2016 21:52

Oh ok cherries.. so I guess it must be hard for you to track it

Volleyfeet · 16/12/2016 22:39

Hello can I join too? Am TTC #2, DD is 3 in April. Trying properly from Jan but took 6 months first time round so aware it may be similar again!

krakentoast · 16/12/2016 22:44

Hello newbies!

I'm already bamboozled by all the different preg tests available - any recommendations for the best one to get when the time comes (yes I'm thinking ahead...)? Would like to avoid the Clearblue ones if poss purely because I hate the adverts! AF is due on Jan 3rd but I'm now thinking I would quite like to test on New Year's Day, but I don't know if that would be too early to tell anything.

blackcherries · 16/12/2016 23:09

I think First Response (FRER) ones (pink packets) are the most sensitive along with Boots own. FRERs get used a lot on this board! Clearblue ones aren't so sensitive so when I got a negative I was still wondering.
Personally I like to wait before testing as seeing a bfn really depresses me.

colourmylife · 17/12/2016 08:56

Can I join please? I'm feeling really down today. Had a bfn this morning and AF still nowhere to be seen and I'm staying over with friends tonight and just can't face any of it. I have really sore boobs and feel tired. My cycles used to be every 28 days without fail but since starting ttc my cycles have gotten longer just to make me feel like shit. Last month it was 33 days.
I convince myself every single month that I'm pregnant and that I'm feeling symptoms I don't usually have with my period and then AF always arrives. I can't believe it's this difficult, I was so naive and thought it would be easy.

Age: 29 (soon to be 30 in January)
TTC: #1
Cycle: still on 6 soon to be 7 when AF shows
CD: 31

HOHOHOvariesBeforeBrovaries · 17/12/2016 10:24

Welcome Volley our DDs are the same age :)

krakentoast · 17/12/2016 10:43

Welcome colour! It's so frustrating that something that is meant to be easy (I mean, evolution had to happen somehow!) can end up being so hard. Good luck with this month and hope you feel better soon.

ttcnovice · 17/12/2016 11:07

Hi everyone I'm jumping on from the December bus.

My stats:

ttcnovice
Age 23 (DH 25)
TTC #1
Cycle #2
CD1
Next AF due 13th Jan

AF arrived this morning a day late after I'd been having promising symptoms (sigh). Just bought some preseed so hoping that will arrive in time for my next FW.

Amz26 · 17/12/2016 11:58

welcome Colour I'm sorry to hear you're having a bad time ATM.. Don't write yourself off yet as AF still hasn't shown yet.. A friend of mine was 6 weeks before she got her BFP 😀

Hey TTC I was talking to you on the other thread! I'm sorry to hear AF has shown her ugly face Flowers

HOHOHOvariesBeforeBrovaries · 17/12/2016 12:50

Welcome colour :)

Londonexhile · 17/12/2016 12:59

So I finally got a clear blue "high" this morning so things are moving along finally! Probably means ov Monday or Tuesday? Hopefully see something on OPKs now too.

Hope everyone else in / near FW has a weekend full of DTD planned!!

ns1348 · 17/12/2016 13:58

London that's great: me too! How many 'high fertility' days have you had in previous cycles before peak? Last time I had 4, so I'll be curious to see if it's the same this cycle, though it's started on a different day.

Welcome newbies!

colour, I'm sorry to hear you're finding it so tough.

Jellybabie3 · 17/12/2016 16:07

Hello im jumping on after falling off the December bus this morn. Stats are:
Age 30
Ttc #1
Cycle 3 after coming off mini pill
Cd1 [sad
Last cycle - 29days
Af due 14th January
Goodluck to all!
Im going to try and relax over xmas with my fertile time predicted new year ish. Going to try and be abit more sensible, drink more water etc etc and see where it gets me. Ordering a whole wad of OPKs too Smile