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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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It'll never happen, and even if it does, something will go wrong. Hut of Doom part deux

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duchesse · 19/01/2007 19:43

There wasn't any more room for moaning with all those grinny smilies's eyes following me around the room.

Suspected (my own self-diagnosis) perimenopause, anyone?

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jhyesmum · 17/02/2007 09:40

As posted before I sent a pee sample to the docs as my AF was due on 27th Jan. Result was Neg. Got to go back in two weeks.

Something's going on in my F*uck'd up body!

Impatience · 17/02/2007 10:05

Josie, I'm sorry for your chemical pregnancy. How cruel it all is. Don't ever worry about moaning about things in here: That's why we're all here! Here's another pillow for the really comfy sofa. It's big enough for both you and Lissie.

Catbabymummy · 17/02/2007 14:27

Bleuggghhhhhhh.

I have chest infection, f*ing period and migraine to boot, and I'm on three different painkillers (yes I AM being totally masochistic being on pc with migraine).
And I feel sick (due to migraine).
Pass me the vodka please!!

lissielou · 17/02/2007 14:42

only if i can share. spent the past 3h talking sil thru a cs coz im trying to act like normal, when im so fecking all the time. she told mw what had happened with my bladder and she didnt seem at all surprised!!!!

jhyesmum · 17/02/2007 16:54

Hi Lissielou - followed your awful trauma on here. You've got every right to feel angry and I don't blame you.

I hope you start to feel at least a little better soon.

feedmenow · 17/02/2007 18:02

OK, I'm bitter and angry and upset and bitter and tearful and emotional and generally really, really bitter.
Just found out another family member is pg, due in Sept....pleased for them but already thinking "my baby should/would have been a month old by then". Started crying in Tescos when I found out I s'pose I'm just not in a good frame of mind at the mo as I found myself lying in bed last night with my hands on my belly, talking to my miscarried bean. I just don't get it all and just feel like shouting and screaming right now.

jhyesmum · 17/02/2007 18:18

((((((hugs)))))) you need them

Catbabymummy · 17/02/2007 18:28

Don't worry Lissie, this is bottomless vodka.

Catbabymummy · 17/02/2007 18:29

FMN _ Yep, with you there, i was nearly crying in the car on the way home, when my friend told me she was due in Spetember.
I think it would be safe to say that the world can go to hell as far as i'm concerned, i just want a baby!

lissielou · 17/02/2007 18:36

i hate all these smiling glowing pregnant ladies that i see walking around.

they look so serene and content, except when they are moaning about morning sickness. i want my morning sickness back! i want my baby back!!

Catbabymummy · 17/02/2007 18:48

Poor Lissie
We just keep seeing pg ladies and babies everywhere...

lissielou · 17/02/2007 18:55

feck it. pass the vodka!

i feel so guilty for being so angry with them. its not their fault that i have malfunctioning reproductive organs! buut what right have they got to be so happy!

lissielou · 17/02/2007 18:59

to top it off, my 2nd mc bean was due on the 12th!! AAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!

and then people say, youve got noah, and you can try again... as if you can replace the lost beans with new ones. in my mind they were perfect, they had their own personalities and futures, and my shitty useless body has robbed them of all that

seaside72 · 17/02/2007 19:01

Oh lissie - I am so so sorry for all you have been through - it is too awful for words.

I know what you mean about all the pregannt women - I know we notice it more cos we are TTC- but FFS - they are everywhere - I know I have no right to complain after all that you and many others have been through but I used to smile when I saw a preg lady now more often than not I either stare with obvious or I have to move away - I hate being like that but it just seems unfair.

Fingerscrossed2007 · 17/02/2007 19:10

The thing is that we are more aware of them (preg women/couples) but they are often unaware of those of us who are ttc and struggling. Male partners are even worse as they won't have come across problems un;ess their partner or sister has an issue. And the thoughltss things that come out of peoples mouths like....oh don't you want one...you know you are missing out don't you...don't leave it too late!! grhhhh

seaside72 · 17/02/2007 19:15

If one more person asks me "are you going to have kids" or "do you want kids" I think I might scream - All I manage to say through gritted teeth is "I hope so!"

Then someone asked me my age the other day and when I told them they asked if I wanted children and said - "Oh well people are having them much later now aren't they" - yes - but many not by choice Arghhhh

Fingerscrossed2007 · 17/02/2007 19:27

I've also found that the range of places when people will ask is much worse than I had thought. I have had it come up at the end of meetings at work. The most foolish are those who ask if I'm om a night out - generally havign waited until I have had a few drinks. Tears on at least two occaions - but they do go away knowign in no uncertain terms that it has not been easy, will not suddenly get easy and yes i would love a baby.

On a plus my manager is very supportive so that is a plus

rahrah1 · 17/02/2007 20:01

Loads of people use to ask us when we were having children, especially after we got married... I got sick of saying 'yes we would like children' and they would still go on... so I changed it to 'yes we been going through the fertility clinic for a while, do you want updates?'.... they soon shut up after that... I hate to be the next person to ask me when I will have one after whats happened, god knows what my response will be...

I just wish people realised that small talk does not include going around asking when people want children!

goingfor3 · 17/02/2007 20:48

Hello all,

I feel like wallowing in self pity and this seems the best place to do it. I'm upset that my period arrived on thursday, it was only my second cyle of trying but it still bugs me. I thought that getting pregnant again would be easy well even if it takes a few months it will be still the easier than pregnancy. I will have to have a stich put in at 12 weeks and then I will be constantly worring that I am going to have a late misscarriage and go in to prem labour like I did the first time. I feel guilty for wanting to put my family thorugh the worry again but if all goes well than I know it will be worth it. Sorry to winge as I know many of you have had a really tough time recently.

rahrah1 · 17/02/2007 21:09

Hi goingfor3.... I can totally relate to your worry... wallow in self pity my dear... I do regularly...

lissielou · 17/02/2007 21:19

oh goingfor3... grab the voddy and plonk yourself down dear.

Catbabymummy · 17/02/2007 21:46

Is there room in the self-pity for one more?

Sleepy now so will say nighty night xx

lissielou · 17/02/2007 21:47

night night hun

rahrah1 · 17/02/2007 22:34

Night all....

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duchesse · 17/02/2007 22:55

Damn, I missed the party. Night, all.

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