Glad to hear you're ok Sammy! I bet that, pre-ttc, you never would have imagined being grateful for nausea!
Maple, hopefully you wont need to ask them to scan next time because hopefully there wont be a next time! 
Oooh, Mrsren I am also considering acupuncture next time if I can talk DH into giving it a try It's always sounded a bit scary to me before, but there are a few people on here who speak highly of it so it might be worth a go! I'm also not good with needle type situations, though this months IVF has gone a long way to curing that.
Welcome Street, though sorry you find yourself here. I've never heard of the y shape uterus before, but I just had a quick google and I can see why it makes things a bit scary, as you put it. I did find quite a few success stories, so hopefully you have a nice, supportive doctor who will help you out. I always found my appointments quite worrying - I worry about literally everything - but I also found that I felt better in the months where we were actually DOING something to help, be that tests or trying something new etc. This thread has been a lifesaver for me. Lots of lovely, knowledgeable people who are always willing to help. Its so hard to talk about some of this stuff and its brilliant to have a place where you can talk about everything with people in the same boat. My DH was similar to yours still is sometimes in that he felt incredibly guilty each month when nothing happened. That increased for a while after our mf diagnosis and we had many long talks about how its no ones 'fault' and its not 'his' problem, its 'our' problem. We talk about it all quite a bit, but like the others, I try to limit the crazy to here! As for the stress, tests and disappointments, we try to laugh about it where we can - the crazy, mad dash to the hospital with a pot of swimmers under the armpit, DH holding my legs up in the air when there was nothing to lean on once, and most recently, his assertion that he was travelling to Czech for the most expensive wank of his life. Sometimes you just have to take the smiles where you can, I suppose! Overall, you're in good company here, so please feel free to talk, rant, ask questions, and divulge things about cervical mucus and wind that you wouldn't share anywhere else! 