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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC through Donor IUI or Donor IVF or just undecided - all welcome!

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Kwick709 · 07/03/2016 17:17

This thread is for anyone trying to conceive... or thinking about doing so through donor IUI or donor IVF. Nothing TMI - feel free to join, we are a lovely group here to support and help keep the cray-cray away!

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kwick · 15/07/2016 19:47

shoes i have been using a hot water bottle for feet and kidneys... Oops!Angry
I forgot to say walnuts.

Fanks shoes it is awful how they are being targetted.

CautionHormone · 15/07/2016 21:57

Yay! So glad your AF has decided to make an appearance Kwick. What's the next steps for afterwards? Are you going ahead with IVF after this cycle?
Glad you'll make another thread. MN is my sanctuary. I can't obsess about this with anyone else... They look at me gone out half the time, although my mum is a pretty good person to talk to.

What's happened in Nice is awful. Absolutely awful. France have had so much heartache... The whole world has had so much heartache. I just wish it would stop already!

Lovelyholiday · 16/07/2016 00:01

Cassenovum boost is pictured and really seems to work! I've just ovulated and really felt it this month with lots of mucus going on! (You only take upto ovulation)However this is the first time since my operation to remove a large dermiod cyst that I had growing on that side, so could also have been tender from that.
OK so I'm 39.8 single and my work background is such that I'm around either pregnant or new mums daily so have a lot of technical and practical knowledge of this but not too much re conception, however always willing to learn 😊. Especially from you ladies in the same boat!! Lots of brilliant advice above (never knew about keeping feet and kidneys warm)
Are any of you trying reflexology or acupuncture ( interested to know if it's worth a go)
My amh is 24.4 tubes clear all bloody work good.
Bmi within healthy range.
Donor sperm at 90million but with only 3% morphology so may need icsi this will depend on the sample quality on the day.
I pick up meds just before my next period and will then have a scan 8days later to see how it's progressing. Consultant wants to give me a low dose and only increase if necessary.
My fingers are very tightly crossed for success and I have a friend who is going to be with me when I need her too. Great thread, which I'm sure i will make a lot of use from! Thanks girls!! Here's to lots of happy and healthy pregnancies this year!!

TTC through Donor IUI or Donor IVF or just undecided - all welcome!
TTC through Donor IUI or Donor IVF or just undecided - all welcome!
kwick · 16/07/2016 10:11

lovely do you know what meds you will be on? I took highest dose of 3 different meds last IVF but only got 2 eggs, only one of which fertilised so am trying "natural" this time - also very little downregging this time. Just some norethisterone days 14-25 this cycle.

TMI alert: bladder control knickers are really doing the trick at night to stop period leakage.

Lovelyholiday · 16/07/2016 11:39

Grin at bladder control pants!
Gosh no idea what meds they are giving me until I find out in 2 weeks, he mentioned 3 one to start, one to stop ov and the one 36 hrs before collection. (This is why I need you girls!! 😂)
I did ask him if it was going to make me go crackers, but he said it shouldn't do, so that's good news for everyone around me!
I really hope you manage to retrieve more eggs this time, it must be hard to know what to do for the best, but keep picturing holding your gorgeous baby in your arms. I'm going to be thinking about you all!!
Off for one (probably) last blow out with the girls in town!!
Then I'm going to seriously look after myself and make the most of this opportunity

kwick · 16/07/2016 17:38

lovely I will most likely only get one egg at most this time - but seeing as the stimulation drugs did not work out for me I am going to try this approach (which is also about £3k cheaper as the drugs are very expensive).
What freaked me out was the injections but after a couple of days I was like a pro and even managed to do the intramuscular ones myself. Let me know if you would like any tips!

pickle162 · 16/07/2016 20:54

Yay for AF kwick, that's fab! How many days late was it in the end? Now you've had 2 can you restart ivf or do you think that these weren't proper periods?
Welcome lovelyholiday :) hi everyone,hope ur all doing ok

RobinsAreTerritorialFuckers · 16/07/2016 22:30

Hello lovely - best of luck with it all!

kwick - so glad you have AF again.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed very much at the moment. DP's got a faint positive this morning, so with luck this is day 15. I am hoping it's the right thing to post this here - I felt I shouldn't just disappear off the thread.

pickle162 · 16/07/2016 22:57

Ooh robin that sounds really positive news! Keeping everything crossed xx

Karendvm · 17/07/2016 01:37

Robins that's wonderful!!

INeedNewShoes · 17/07/2016 02:11

Robins that's good news Smile

And of course we want to hear about it!

Fingers crossed for you Smile

StorkAhoy · 17/07/2016 21:33

Hi all. So I'm not getting any notifications on this thread anymore!

lovely hi! And welcome. I'm a bigger doer of the old acupuncture. I started doing it when I decided to try for a baby (so that was March), I'm doing IVF in November. I'm loving acupuncture. It's relaxing, it's improved my sleep quality dramatically, it's calmed me down. It's 45mins a week of complete calm and focus on me and my soon to be baby. My acu doc actually did IVF herself and now has twins and needled herself throughout the process so she gets it, all of it - the highs and the lows... She is also directly liaising with my fertility clinic acupuncturists to ensure they give me the correct treatment pre and post egg collection and transference.

And look at it this way, even if it only a placebo, I still say go with whatever works for you. Try it but make sure you find a doc you can work with who listens, and ensure the environment is correct. My docs clinic is all gong music, warmth, dim,lights, comfy bed, candles flickering and I sense burning. It's a cocoon of safety, I fall asleep every time!

She suggests complementary reflexology, but due to numerous surgeries and missing nerves in my feet and toes I can't stand people touching them!! So I pass on that and just take the needles and the Chinese herbs (gross!).

Let me know if you have other questions!

kwick · 18/07/2016 07:25

It was 6.5 days late! They are defo proper periods - do not want to share the TMI - but believe me when I say they were/are.

robins do you mean a bfp???!!!! Congratulations!!! Why would you abandon us at the most exciting time????!!!! More details please: what test was used? Do yoi have a piccie?

I am off to my FC tomorrow to get bloods done and query dose of Norethisterone for days 14-25 of this cycle. I am so glad to be actively TTC again.

RobinsAreTerritorialFuckers · 18/07/2016 11:42

Thanks everyone! Yes, it feels great although it is very early days, so obviously we are trying hard not to get hopes up. We used the test they gave us - will check with DP exactly what it was. The line was very faint on the first day we tested (day 15 after insemination) but a bit stronger yesterday, so keeping fingers very much crossed. OTOH, I've not started my period yet, and DP and I usually synch, so it is still very early.

kwick - yay! It feels so good to be actively doing something, doesn't it? The waiting around feels so frustrating.

pickle162 · 18/07/2016 17:27

Robins-keeping everything crossed
Kwick-yay glad it was proper one :) all systems go hopefully!!! Good luck with ur tests x

kwick · 18/07/2016 19:01

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kwick · 18/07/2016 19:02

#makeithappen!!

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