Hey ladies, how are we all today?
Cats, sorry you had to go through that at the wedding. I think people think they're being sweet when they ask and simply do not think about the stress that we're actually going through to want this to happen. I think it's such a flippant thing to say. I used to get really angry about it after our wedding last year, as it was all that people would ask us and at that point we weren't wanting to TTC, but everyone thought that because we were married the next thing was to have kids. So less people ask us now.
But my close friends that know we are TTC (that dont have kids), just say, 'try and relax about it'. Seriously, I will be on their case when this catches up with them!!
XL, i'm with you. Everyone I know seems to be pregnant or literally just had a baby. 3 local friends have just given birth and it is heart wrenching as you're happy for them, but just want it to happen to you.
I find myself being really teary these days. My emotions are all over the show. It's so much pressure and I know im inducing it on myself, but now we are down this road it's not like we are just going to stop and even if we did, you'd still know roughly when you're ovulating and instigate DTD around that time.
I have 4 sets of friends that got pregnant by accident, so they didnt go through this at all. None of the OPK's, starting at 3 iPhone apps like a lunatic and constantly googling how to work this that or the other!
I've just ordered some Conceive Plus - this will make you laugh.... i ordered it on my corp card by accident and when you google the company its very clear that its an 'intimate lubricant' company! UH OHHHHHH. That should make interesting reading for the accountant next month. SH**
Lets try and keep our heads high girls. XL you must be coming up to your fertile window now too? I'm currently on my 2nd day.
Here wwe go!! xx