RESPONSE Trial for Recurrent Miscarriage - Thread 4

[Vicki272]

Thread for all ladies on the RESPONSE trial - all stages welcome, for a bit of well needed silliness and good old fashioned all round advice and support!

That's great on the positive opk Claire!

The brown seems to have gone again... Just have to keep an eye on it I guess. Xx

it's not great when me & dh have had an argument so I've gone to bed alone.
I have totally had anough of the whole thing I'm so pissed off.

glad brown has gone Vicki x

Claire I'm so sorry about the argument. It must be so stressful. Any chance you have the forgiveness for some cheeky making up sex?!

^^ what size said. So stressful, but this time could be......!!

Oh no Claire... We had the same thing last month if that's any consolation... Just dtd the day after! Xx

We definitely did not make up last night. We ended up having a awful rant at each other where I was practically hysterical and he said after arguing the last thing he wants to do is have sex (irrelevant what time of month it is) I'm just so pissed off as my month revolves rounds ovulation and ttc. then he said he couldn't care if we get pregnant and after 18 month of ttc and 3 mcs it's all a chore and he's sick. brilliant. I feel so alone now and like we are on completely different pages x

Claire that's a really cruel thing for him to say. I'm hoping it came from anger and frustration in the heat of the moment, as there must be a huge amount of pressure on you both. I know I've said some things I haven't meant when I've been hot headed mid fight. So very much hope that he is thoroughly regretting his words last night, as I can imagine how hurtful they would've been to hear.
Hope you feel a bit better as the day goes on and that you manage to talk things through and get back to a better place again.
It's such a shitty situation. My heart really goes out to you.
Please rant away and let us help you get through it. X

Claire sweetie sooooooo been there!!!
It gets on top of you both so much, you don't realise it gets to them too.
I'm sure he didn't mean it, it's such a stressful time you're going through.
I hope you manage to make up. Just have a talk to each other.
Dh told me he didn't want to try anymore as he could see what this was doing to me each time I lost and I just wasn't the same person.
I totally agreed, I knew it had changed me. I'd sit down with him and have a proper proper talk, get it all out. No shouting. Make a nice dinner once dd has gone to bed and sit down just the 2 of you and get it all out. You'll feel so much better and then you'll know if you're on the same page and go from there.
Sending lots of love xx

Sorry you had such a crap night Claire, I've been there too and it's a vicious circle of total shit. Hope you both calm down a bit today and can make up, choccys idea sounds good.

I'm not on Facebook... Hopefully mumsnet can sort it out!

Vicki - glad the brown has stopped. I also had the same - spotting from 4 weeks, quite a bleed on the day of my 6 week scan when I thought it was over, then a clot a few days after and it all stopped at 9 weeks. No reason was found.

Claire - sorry it's been crap, TTC is really difficult and it starts to take over. I hope you are having a better day today x

Oh no what have I done... Just bought some girls sleepsuits online. It's the first purchase and feel terribly like I have jinxed myself but they were a bargain! Feel sick...

maz I get that feeling EVERY time I purchase anything baby related.
I'm still storing most at my father in laws as feel uncomfortable with it in my house.
It will get easier. And there really is no sense in jinxing, although it's a very real feeling!

MAS well done you for taking that step!!!!
Don't feel bad, it'll feel so real when they arrive :) and hopefully you can start to get excited about it.
We've been doing the nursery a bit (stripping wallpaper etc), something in a million years I never ever thought would happen!!

Claire how's things??

Oh mas it's a good thing you've bought something ! Such a big milestone for all
Of us ! Are we allowed to see them ? Xx

Hi choccy. I've pm'd you about the Facebook group. :)

Thanks everyone. I'll post a pic when they arrive! Hopefully it will get easier now I've made that first step.

Hi everyone,

I've been lurking on here for some time, sorry I don't participate much (I've just got a new job and it's taken up all my time. meh! )- but I do try and keep up with everyone's progress. It's such a rollercoaster of a time for us all.

Those that are on the injections, are side effects likely? I guess it depends if you've got the placebo or the drug! But, I was just wondering if people have found there to be many side effects in general.

Thank you :)

Hi syudbx. For me I had really bad headaches whilst doing the injections but that can also be a normal symptom in early pregnancy so who knows?! What stage are you at?

Hi syudbx I don't really remember tho I do remember getting more migraines but I think most things I put down to anything other than pregnancy/trial as I was scared to accept I was ! sorry that's not very helpful x

Thanks for your replies :) I have just been randomised and feel JUST like you did LouiseM - I am sooooo worried about believing I'm pregnant in case it goes wrong :( I haven't had any side effects - three days in - and so worried!! x

Hi Syudbx, congratulations!!!!!!
I don't remember if I'm honest, but headaches sounds familiar!
Are you having any side effects at all? :)

Not really, which is what's worrying me! I have slight cramps for a little while after injection but not sure if I'm imagining it! ??

I'm bleeding bright red :(

Oh Louise, I'm sure at this stage you'll be ok. You're probably already well on your way but at 22 weeks + you can go straight to labor ward to be checked. x x

louise how are you? Sorry, it must be terrifying. Huge hugs. Hoping at this stage it's just the big baby prodding something in your womb and causing a touch of bleeding. Are you feeling movements as normal?