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I had a mc a week before christmas, should have been 11 weeks and was first pregnancy. Started bleeding at work, called EPU and was given a scan appointment for 48 hours later.
However later that night I bled so heavily DH insisted we went to A&E, good job too as BP was scarily high. Scan there they thought all tissue had gone, bleeding slowed and I went home.
A few days later bleeding had almost stopped, then out of nowhere I passed the sac. We buried it in the garden and said goodbye, had no idea what else to do.
Not back at work yet can't face it. DH squeezed my hand last night, and because it was the first time he had done that since the scan it triggered such powerful grief.
The hospital advised me to wait 3 cycles to TTC but queried this with GP who said once i had a BFN could start again straight away, so am now TTC again.
We had a scan at 7 weeks that showed baby was fine, but now I can't find the scan photo anywhere and it is breaking my heart.