TTC after MC; hand holding, hugs and lots of things that can JTFO!

[Treaclepie19]

The Rules...

(1) A lady may only POAS on a Friday.
(2) Friday means the day that everyone calls Friday in the time zone where you spent the night.
(3) Rule (1) does not apply to POA-OPK-S, UNLESS they are being illegitimately used as surrogate HCG detectors, in which case Rule (1) most definitely does apply
(4) Rule (1) does not apply following a BFP because if you want to waste £25 a day POADigiS that's your prerogative
(5) Rule (1) does not apply if a lady is POAS in an attempt to get a BFN to prove she can start DTD with intent
(6) Rule (1) does not apply if a lady wants for unknown reason to pee on an actual stick, like a twig or some such, if that lady is unexpectedly caught short whilst tramping in the forest looking for bears.
(7) These rules (including Rule (1)) are subject to the change at any time if the ladies of the Posifrickentivity thread decide on a whim come up with empirical evidence to prove that it is luckier to POAS on any other day of the week
(8) Violators of Rule (1) shall be subject to fish throwing.

And as a grand finale, why not pledge to NEVER POAS before 14DPO?

Hi Ladies!
Welcome back Mademoiselle! Glad that you're feeling up to TTC again now. Hopefully you won't have to wait with us too long before you get you're happy ending. I can't imagine how hard that decision must have been for you to make.

I can't look at those threads... It just makes me sad

Have a lovely time away Treacle, a few lovely days away sounds perfect! Enjoy!

On to day 5 of flashing pissing smilies! Fuck off with your flashing, mocking face!

Thanks ladies :) you're all so lovely.

I've had a lovely relaxing bath in our bridal suite (the bath is made for two but I got in alone haha) with chocolates and champagne.

Gorgeous.

I haven't looked at that thread either. Think i would get majorly annoyed.

english my 9th flashing smiley I was ready to stamp on and throw out the window.

Here is said bath.

Monten that was very diplomatically put! Very reserved, you made a really good point about the scan pictures being worse. I completely agree about the 'announcement' being very self involved and it is like celebrities announcing to their fans, but then I look at facebook and think about what I know about people on there IRL and it's always the ones who treat their RL friends in the same way, like they are fortunate to be the chosen few who are allowed to be friends. I'm awaiting a particularly sickening one in the next few days, I know it's coming it's just knowing how they are going to do it in light of what the know about my circumstance.

IVE FINALLY GOT A SMILEY OPK THIS AFTERNOON! I think I may have proven my theory to be right, if I get a flashing smiley in the morning on the dual hormone OPK then I know that my surge is very short and that it always happens in the afternoon. It might help other people too I hope :) especially if people are worried they have missed their surge. I'm hoping I do ovulate but I'm not putting all my hopes on it this month, just knowing my hormones are doing what they should is enough at this point.

How is everyone?

English I was on day 6 of the irritating bloody thing but look at my update ^^.

Hi girls, just reporting in to say Hey. Welcome to newbies, so sorry you find yourselves here. It's a lovely thread but no one wants to be here or stay here lol

Well I am cd19 still reading High on CBFM. I know I won't get a peak now but I decided to feed it sticks in the hope that it might get used to my cycle again post MC and maybe I'll start getting Highs and Peaks again. My cycle is normally only 25 days long so I'll be finding out soon enough if I'm duffed. No symptoms, nothing happening, usual story.

Sounds amazing Treacle!!

Thanks Blink - but I've been doing ic's too and no line. I've either ov'd very early and completely missed it or I'm in for a late ov or no ov at all... We'll see
Glad you have you're fixed though

Sounds amazing Treacle!!

Thanks Blink - but I've been doing ic's too and no line. I've either ov'd very early and completely missed it or I'm in for a late ov or no ov at all... We'll see
Glad you have you're fixed though

Well I did another test and got a good strong line so looks like this ones a definite bfp :) yay! paranoid now though every twinge, every time I feel a bit moist downstairs (sorry tmi) which keeps changing shade very annoying. flipping between pale and an almost light beige. But there is plenty of it either way. Which I take as a good sign. I promised myself I wouldn't hop on the pregnancy forums or apps this time but I have worked out a date which is as far as I'm going yet. Still very early much earlier than I got my previous 2 bfp. 3w6d just want to get to next weekend which is when I mc both times before. If I can get past that I'm sure everything will be fine. Is it alright if I still hang here till I get past this point? Don't want to rub anyone's nose in it but we all know a bfp doesn't hold any guarantees.

Congratulations lauren everything crossed for you!

treacle oh my word that looks amazing! That bath! Enjoy, enjoy enjoy!

I am definitely out and definitely in a lot of pain with hormones everywhere! DH is not being sympathetic and I can't find a hot water bottle. There is no wine or violins to play my tale of woe.
The pain is hideous, much worse than normal AF, as bad as miscarriage. Feel sick and can't really stand up. It's a chemical induced bleed so not a 'real period' which apparently are pretty bad anyway(something to do with lining?)

Ps- hurray for the surge blink go go go!

Congratulations Lauren.

I'm out this month which I expected as cycle was all over the place and didn't dtd much. Good news is that this cycle was 28 days which is pretty much what is was pre mc.

I've invested in a CBFM for this month. Annoyingly I wasn't expecting AF to turn up when it did as WTF cycle was 35 days and I had been unsuccessfully stalking ebay for a cheapie 2nd hand one. Had to order one from amazon which will come tomorrow so won't be able to start it until CD3 which hopefully will be ok.

On to the next cycle......

blink that's great news, and lauren fingers crossed for a sticky one! fab news!

Ever since my mc, I've been doing opk that I bought on amazon, 2 days after I stopped bleeding it looked like a positive result, and blank ever since. Does that seem right? I was told to wait for one cycle because they want to rescan me, but I still want to do the test to see what's happening?? Maybe I'm obsessed.... Grrrr. I hate this!!! Sorry.... Rant over.

Thanks all, it is gorgeous here :)

Glad you got a solid smiley Blink :)
Congrats Lauren!

My friend has gone into labour. I had a completely irrational thought of "why is this happening now to ruin our anniversary"... I've lost the plot :/

Thanks sunbathing, i just wish I didn't sounderstand so pathetic :p
I'm just in a bad mood, especially with this stupid thrush!!!!!!!!
My own fault for making it worse with wine. Still, it's our anniversary weekend.

Oh dear *sound so

Thanks sunbathing that makes so much more sense now. Right, will keep on the eye out for signs of ovulation.

treacle I can understand your reaction, and you don't sound pathetic at all. Try and enjoy your anniversary weekend though, how lovely.

Fuck fuck shitty bloody fuck, this just happened ...

I'm absolutely terrified.

What is it oneday?! I'm on the app so can't see any photos and do t want to say what I think it is in case I'm wrong...!

Is that what I think it is oneday?

It's a bloody BFP. Took a FRER this morning and it's a bloody BFP!

DH has verified I'm not going mad and he can see it too. I'm such a mixture of emotions. Terror and worry being the main ones.