TTC after MC; hand holding, hugs and lots of things that can JTFO!

[Treaclepie19]

The Rules...

(1) A lady may only POAS on a Friday.
(2) Friday means the day that everyone calls Friday in the time zone where you spent the night.
(3) Rule (1) does not apply to POA-OPK-S, UNLESS they are being illegitimately used as surrogate HCG detectors, in which case Rule (1) most definitely does apply
(4) Rule (1) does not apply following a BFP because if you want to waste £25 a day POADigiS that's your prerogative
(5) Rule (1) does not apply if a lady is POAS in an attempt to get a BFN to prove she can start DTD with intent
(6) Rule (1) does not apply if a lady wants for unknown reason to pee on an actual stick, like a twig or some such, if that lady is unexpectedly caught short whilst tramping in the forest looking for bears.
(7) These rules (including Rule (1)) are subject to the change at any time if the ladies of the Posifrickentivity thread decide on a whim come up with empirical evidence to prove that it is luckier to POAS on any other day of the week
(8) Violators of Rule (1) shall be subject to fish throwing.

And as a grand finale, why not pledge to NEVER POAS before 14DPO?

Marmalade - try not to worry or assume the worst yet. At least you are getting looked after which is great. I really hope that tomorrow & friday bring some reassurance to you. For now try to take it easy, sending you lots of positivity hun.

So sorry to hear about your bleeding, marmalade, dulcet n Allthefours. I had two mc's back to back and it was horrible we waited a month then tried again n here I am in limbo again. Hope your getting lots of hugs from your OH.

The brown I was getting has finally subsided. Had my third lot of bloods today so I'll find out tomorrow what's going on. They made a right mess of my arm huge bruise but now I've got a strange sensation almost slight stabbing pain behind my belly button. God know what that is but it's got to be too high to be the bean right?

all the fours and dulcet I'm so sorry this is happening to you again. Devastated for you.

Marmalade fingers crossed for some good news for you.

Lauren glad spotting has slowed. really hope you get positive news from blood test.

Big hug to everyone in here right now xx

Hope you are wrong marmalade, but all hand holding in the meantime.

Thank you for all the support. Sorry the thread has gone a bit negative - didn't mean to do that!

Don't apologise Dulcet. We're all here for the same reason, we're all in the same boat. You will always get a hand to hold or an ear to bend here. Mc is a really shitty thing to go through once, let alone multiple times and unfortunately there just didn't enough support out there in rl. Hugs to all who need them

Well ladies, it looks like I'm joining you again, it's shit - you're lovely people and everything but I really don't want to be here. I've spent the night at a and e where they were useless so currently driving to Manchester to an epu for an emergency scan. Crap.

Oh god... Boozle, I'm so very sorry. There's nothing I can say that will ease your pain, i just hope you have people around you at home who can look after you. Lots of love hun

Hi all, hugs to all that need them for whatever reason. Today is going to be a tough one, have a meeting with a friend who's little baby was born about 2 months before I would have been due. However, I'm also seeing my other friend who had 5 mcs on top of struggling to conceive in the first place. She now has two of the most lovely daughters through the adoption process.
I guess what I'm trying to say this morning is, difficult as it is, there are all kinds of success and there are all kinds of families. For me at the moment, my maternal instincts will have to be showered on my new form - 20 16 year olds starting A Levels, what could possibly go wrong?

oh boozle I'm so sorry. Hope things at epu go ok.

dulcet don't apologise hun, as has been said we're here to hand hold because it is a lifesaver to have a place where you can say "this is really shit that this is happening to me". So please say anything you want here xx

Just popped in again and devastated to see your news boozle, allthefours and dulcet. Such a shitty carry on. I am sending you lots of hugs and caring shoulders for you all. Hope you get all the kindness and amazing support in RL you deserve and need right now.

My stats, for the next thread: Broodylicious, age 35, mc at 12 weeks on feb 27. Not really actively ttc #2 at the mo as we just moved house nearly two weeks ago and doing it all up is our priority (painting and restoring, humping furniture and all that jazz not good for any bump).

Oh boozle I am so sorry. Sending big hugs :(

Hi jumping back on board now we're tentatively TTC again

My stats - Tranquilitybaby 36.
Two children, 12 & 9,
ectopic pregnancy April 2014 (lost baby & left tube)

So sorry you're going through such a tough time dulcet and allthefours it sucks. :(

We started TTC again last month after waiting 3 months since my surgery. AF arrived although was v light, which sent me into a panic that it was happening again. All fine though after several negative tests so it's onto month 2.

Good luck everyone x

Oh boozle too :( I hope by some miracle your scan shows all is ok x

Oh boozle no, I'm so sorry. Fingers crossed for you.

Can't believe all these back to back mc's are coming from everywhere!!!!!

Makes me think can I even do this again, but I know I'm not ready to give up yet xx

Yup, confirmed missed miscarriage. This wasn't the one for us to meet, D and C tomorrow. Bollocks.

Oh no Boozle i am sorry. Big hugs.

I have to wait till after 2pm to get my blood results. Time is moving as slow as treacle

Boozle I'm so sorry. It really is not fair.
You and your fella look after yourselves xx

I'm so sorry Boozle, how horrible for you. Take care of yourself.

I hope all you other ladies with bleeding get some better news.

So sorry Boozle xx
Good luck Lauren.
My best friend just told me this morn shes 10weeks, caught out on an accident, lifes shit today, i am happy for her but feel soooo jealous an then feel bad about feeling like this!!

Oh boozle that's so crap. I'm so sorry.
I've just spent the day in A&E with bad pains and still bleeding.
They couldn't find anything on the scan so I'm pregnant in an unknown location.
I don't know what happens now but I just wait for my next blood test on sat and look at hormones levels. It's not looking good

Hello, new here (and new to mumsnet too). Have lurked for a few days, so sorry to read stories from those who are going through mc at the moment

I'm 30, DH 33. TTC #3 (I have Twins aged 3). Mc this week at 6 weeks.

Bleeding is starting to slow, and I'm feeling that I would like to start trying again ASAP. One of my best friends was around the same number if weeks preg so it's going to be super difficult watching her grow

Anyway, hope to find support and be supportive here!