The Berries: On knockerwatch, sniffing willies and clinging to the coat tails of the continued clusterdiff (thread 21)

[barkingtreefrog]

The smallprint –
Berries have a strict entrance criteria (TTC #1, over 30, TTC for 12+ months, NO instadiffers, must have a special pot and definitely no mention of baby dust or baby dancing).
Those not abiding by the rules may be escorted from the premises.

thinking of you barking.

Sorry I haven't posted on here for ages but saw barking's message and just want you to know that I'm sat here with all my digits crossed for you. I know the waiting is hideous especially when they are running late...we're all here for you xx

They're not running late they've fucked up my notes again. I was told 2, my notes say 2, but the system says 2.30, so we've been sat waiting for no reason. Now DH has had to leave to put more money in the meter, they'll 'do me' as they put it, when he gets back .

big hug barking

oh how stressful barking
So hope you are back shortly with brilliant news

Grrrr poor you batking hope they see you soon

Bloody hell batking, they make things even more difficult than they need to be don't they. Hugs and positive vibes x

I am literally holding my breath. Everything crossed...

Refreshing with butterflies in my stomach...

refresh

Sack but no embryo. Not happening again. They've taken a blood test to rule out an ectopic. In the meantime I stop taking the progesterone and wait to see if I start bleeding or whether I'm going to need medical management. I honestly have no fucking idea how I'm going to get through this a second time.

oh god barking I am so so sorry. This is just so bloody unfair. I know no words can help but we're all here for you. I wish there was something we could do to make it better.

barking that's absolutely unfair. Fuck. I am so so so sorry. Please know that we're here for you. Wish there is more I could say or do. Please be kind to yourself. X

barking I'm so sorry. Life is so unfair and cruel sometimes. We're here for you. Lots of love

So so sorry barking. It's so ridiculously unfair

So so sorry batking, this ttc malarkey is so unfair.

Barking my lovely its so fucking unfair. I don't know what to say. But whilst today isn't good news your time will come. Hugs and tissues for the tears xxx

I'm so sorry you're having to go through this again. Thinking of you xx

Oh barking, that sucks; I'm so sorry. I know I can't make it better, but I'm thinking of you.

Barking you will get through this. You may feel desperate but there is still hope for future cycles. Loads of people have success after 2 mc. So let yourself be upset and angry and all those other emotions, but please don't give up hope x

So so sorry barking. I'm so sad for you. I have no idea what to say to you, but I guess no one can say anything to make you feel any better anyway. Plenty of thoughts coming your way xxx

Oh Barking I am so, so sorry my lovely. This is beyond unfair. I'm shedding a tear for you as I type. As others have said nothing we can say will take away your pain today but please know we are all here for you as and when you need us. Please take care of yourselves