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The Berries: On knockerwatch, sniffing willies and clinging to the coat tails of the continued clusterdiff (thread 21)

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barkingtreefrog · 30/05/2014 10:20

The smallprint –
Berries have a strict entrance criteria (TTC #1, over 30, TTC for 12+ months, NO instadiffers, must have a special pot and definitely no mention of baby dust or baby dancing).
Those not abiding by the rules may be escorted from the premises.

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nolly3 · 31/05/2014 12:14

happy hen featherGrin hope.you have a great time!

good weekends all. I'm in darkest.ruralshire so no reception- catch up on Monday..

chloechloe · 31/05/2014 12:28

Thanks for all your good luck wishes ladies. All went well, 20 eggs retrieved. 12 will be ICSIed and the rest IVF. We didn't even have a discussion about whether to freeze or not - the dr wouldn't even contemplate doing a fresh cycle.

Had a different dr today with the EC falling on the wkend which was a bit annoying. He said we should wait 2 cycles before doing the FET as we are going away end of June. But my dr said we could do it any time after the holiday - I'm guessing because I don't ovulate I don't have to time it with that. Anyway was totally confused having the conversation right after the sedation with a new dr who didn't know my file. I think I will make an appt to go and see my dr next week.

barking You actually made me laugh out loud with the jiz sign. Not good when I've just had my ovaries jabbed with needles! Loving the pimp stories, I think we should vote on the weirdest. I say feather wins so far, have no idea how you managed to get it in a beer can (tho it sounds like you didn't!)

lumen when are you due to start stimmimg? Hard to keep track!

Finally a baby kestrel update. He survived the night but is still sitting on the roof all alone and crying a lot Sad

Pipbin · 31/05/2014 15:04

20 eggs. That's loads! How many were mature?

chloechloe · 31/05/2014 15:19

The 20 are the mature ones. I have PCO though so they were expecting a lot even though they kept the FSH low. Fx the quality is OK and a decent amount fertilise tomorrow.

beakybeak · 31/05/2014 16:32

Wow chloe that's loads! Is definitely try and see your dr since you had a different one, you don't want to end up with a massive delay for no reason. Well done though Grin

Bunnygirlie · 31/05/2014 17:07

Wow, I have PCO and only had 5 eggs!!!

RosieintheAlps · 31/05/2014 19:21

Congrats Chloe. That's a lot of eggs. I second what others have said, probably good idea to speak to your usual doctor.

Loving the pimping conversation but cannot contribute. So far, have only had one attempt at poas on pg test and quite a few ov tests but never pimped.

No activities other than running Sad. I ordered some pre-seed since feather seems a staunch advocate of it and want to try it out so will have to get the allure out tonight and maybe allow DP a pint or so. He's been trying to be good and not drinking much. The good news is I survived the run! My first 5k run ever. I quite like exercise but due to asthma had never tried running before so I am well chuffed I survived. Also just tried out recipe from the HH cookbook. Still in the oven so cannot give judgment yet. I do wish, though, they had added the prep time/ cooking time to the recipes. So am trying to have very healthy weekend.

Hope everybody is enjoying the weekend.

chloechloe · 31/05/2014 19:43

Oh crap I think I have mild OHSS. My chest feels tight and my abdomen is bloated, am 1 inch fatter than this morning. According to Dr Google it doesn't seem like I need to start worrying yet - am passing lots of fluids and my weight hasn't increased massively.

There are lots of horror stories on the internet though, especially in the US - I can't believe some people are stimmed to the extent that they have 40 or 50 eggs, totally crazy!

Well done on your run rosie, especially with your asthma. I really need to look into getting this HH book everyone is talking about!

On a good note, 3 more baby falcons have flown the nest. They are all a bit clumsy and just seem to need a bit of time to find their wings and get their confidence up! Am trying not to get jealous that the parent falcons get updiffed all the time, its only a few months since they had the last 2! Another one for the list along with the Travelodge advert!

tigerdog · 31/05/2014 19:57

Chloe hope you're ok. Fingers crossed it is nothing to worry about. 20 eggs is an impressive haul!

rosie well done on the run! What did you make? I've not made much from the book as yet but enjoyed what I have had.

Just made a tapas type meal but muddling up Greek / italian and Spanish dishes. I love Mediterranean food Grin. Enjoying a cheeky glass of vino too!

happylass · 31/05/2014 20:04

Chloe great news on all the eggs but I hope you're ok? Look after yourself and please ring for medical advice if/when you think you need it Thanks

Tiger your dinner sounds gorgeous. I love Mediterranean food too. I speak French, Italian and Spanish and have spent loads of time in the Med. Really feel like that's where I should have been born!
DP is out tonight so dinner for one and a pile of marking for me. Rock and roll!!

Pipbin · 31/05/2014 20:36

I had OHSS first time. I had tablets for it but it wiped me out. I remember having a shower and the heat made me too weak to stand. I was nearly passing out. I was very bloated. I looked about 6 months pg.
The clinic should have given you an emergency number. Give them a call if you are worried.

greatbigbushybeard · 31/05/2014 20:58

Wow chloe what a lot of eggs. Hope you are feeling ok. I felt v bloated for a good few days afterward. When I went back for et they said to me that my ovaries were swollen so I would still feel bloated for a few more days after too. Make sure you have lots of fluids and take it easy but a little walk may help. Glad the little kestrel is alright and don't worry you're not mental being jealous of the parents... I was jealous of a cat and kittens recently!! Lol!

I must be allergic to gardening, did some potting and tidying up, felt a few twinges and went to loo later and have got a bit of brown spotting. The first time I spotted after my bfp was after gardening and that turned into the mother Hubbard bleed. So now taking it easy, just had v unhealthy tea of fish and chips and a magnum!

barkingtreefrog · 31/05/2014 21:46

Phew, what a hectic day. Now back home and in bed early, having packed DH off to a party neither of us wanted to go to so he could show his face on behalf of both of us Grin . Saturday night rock n roll.

I pimped this morning, found a plastic cup in the campervan... The worst thing I've pimped in was my MiL's toothbrush holder Blush . I was desperate, we were flying out on holiday the next day and I needed to know if I was about to Ov as it was our first clomid cycle!

Well, still in limbo. If I stand on my head, tilt the stick 45 degrees to the sun and screw my eyes up there might be a very very faint line. I showed DH this evening when we got home. He wasn't convinced at all. So I'm still clutching on to the arms of those getting ready for the chopper and not ruling myself out of the running for joining the cluster diff, but there's nothing to celebrate yet. More waiting. Do I pimp again tomorrow or just wait until Monday? Or just wait until the blood test results Monday afternoon? Hmm

Nice haul Chloe, hope you're feeling more comfortable soon. Don't hesitate to call the emergency number if you feel the least bit inclined to, better to have a conversation with someone than stress about what might be happening.

Hope you're having a lovely hen do feather !!

I'm off to sleep. Feel exhausted must be pg, nothing to do with late night, little sleep and driving back from Wales.

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funkymonk · 31/05/2014 22:11

Oooo Batking! I love to poas, so I would be pimping tomorow, with the frame of mind that what was there today would be there tomorrow but hopefully be a bit darker!... Thanks for the new thread by the way! Smashing job of the list! I wonder how many more berries we can get rid of to the chopper before the end of this thread? Shall we place some bets? Im glad we didn't all drown in seepage as predicted on the last thread... I reckon we can manage at least another 3 diffings before thread 22.

Beaky I'm so sorry that you are having problems with the random bleeding. Maybe visit your GP if the FC aren't being helpful .Cervical erosion perhaps? I haven't heard of oestrogen breakthrough bleeding, but am about to consult Dr Google.

Chloe that's a great egg haul. I hope you're feeling a bit better now, but if not as Pip says, call your emergency number. Welcome back to the thread Pip Flowers

Feather hope you're having a fantabulous hen and are sticking to the soft drinks!

How clever are you Happy speaking all those languages!

Bushy sorry that you are spotting again. Please put your feet up.

Rain I hope your 'proper shag' went to plan.

Rosie I also use preseed. I have used it for over a year and have got pregnant twice when using it. Interchange between that and conceive plus, but going to stick with preseed now after using conceive plus for the last 2 cycles and realising it actually smells a little like fish, which is absolutely not what I want. It's one thing having an infertile fanny, but a fishy fanny as well is just a step too far.

Otters I'm glad you're here lurking and I hope you are feeling as well as can be expected.

RP hope you can keep your anxiety at bay.

Bunnygirlie · 31/05/2014 22:26

batking I would be in the wait till Monday camp! Still keeping everything crossed for you x

funkymonk · 31/05/2014 22:52

Spoil sport Bunny Grin

greatbigbushybeard · 31/05/2014 23:18

Hmm, a tricky one, I'm usually with bunny on this one as you need to give it a bit longer to show a clearer line so Monday would be best but...... maybe test tom am and Monday?? Then you'll have a few to compare.

Lol fishy fanny Wink

beakybeak · 01/06/2014 00:28

What did you make from HH Rosie? I've got preseed too and it's very handy, especially for, ahem, quickies.

Wow happy, you multi linguist you Grin I'd love to be able speak more than very basic French! My dh teaches me German every so often but I won't be conversing fluently anytime soon!

Pip ohss sounds awful. chloe def get some advice if it gets worse please.

Bushy put down the spade and hoe etc and no more gardening! Hope the spotting disappears quickly.

Batking poas Sunday and Monday?! I am really keeping everything crossed for you.

Funky yep I think I am going to see the GP. It
Could be cervical erosion, am really not sure but dh thinks it's stress related but I don't know, it has been a quite bad month. I've researched acupuncture in my area and found two people I'm going to ring for an initial chat too. I will definitely be keeping away from conceive plus - no fishy infertile fanny please! Grin

Win if you're about, how's things going?

tigerdog · 01/06/2014 08:29

I am a moron! Just made a gluten free carrot cake, put it in the oven and realised I have forgotten to add buttermilk. Stupid cookbook muddles the ingredients for the topping and the cake and stupid me didn't spot the buttermilk at the bottom of the list! The mixture seemed perfectly normal but no doubt it'll come out like a dry old rock.

That'll teach me - should be taking my lazy ass to yoga and not baking first thing in the morning whilst oh is at the gym. Having an 'I can't do anything right' couple of days. Sad

barking any developments?

tigerdog · 01/06/2014 08:50

I'm impressed with the language skills happy! I'm half italian but my grasp of the language has really slipped since I was a child.

barkingtreefrog · 01/06/2014 09:09

bfn.

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tigerdog · 01/06/2014 09:17

barking I'm so sorry. It's just not fair. Xx

happylass · 01/06/2014 09:18

Oh Barking I'm so sorry. Is there a chance it could still be too early? Sending lots of love Thanks

Pipbin · 01/06/2014 09:25

Sorry to hear that Barking.

How are you feeling today Chloe?

FeatherFeather11 · 01/06/2014 09:28

So sorry barking. It's just completely unfair, as tiger said. Thinking of you. Flowers