Trying I'm sorry, just read my post and I sound really blunt and unkind. Am really sorry for your miscarriages. It's such a fucker, but there are things that can help. You're doing the right thing by pursuing those.
Lots of good advice on this thread, you've come to the right place.
Pred can be awful. Some people tolerate it really well. I was an insomniac, exhausted wreck on it and my face looked like a helium balloon. Had just started a new job and felt like hiding.
The way I managed with work was being really open about the previous miscarriages, type of treatment and possible side effects. I'm in a senior role, so had time off for appts when I needed to, but also worked hard in my own time to make sure all work got done and to deadline. This isn't a legal requirement at all, but it made me feel it minimised the risk of being overlooked for promotion.
The ladies on here got me through some really dark and stressful early days. It was the place I could come too when worried, not sleeping, frightened, sad and pissed off. The rest of the time I put those feelings away somewhere and I think that's why I sounded so abrupt in my last post. It's a survival thing and I'm sorry you were at the receiving end.
Guess I'm trying to say this is a really sickening and scary roller coaster at times, but you're not alone and lots of ladies on here have had babies. Free updates a list regularly.
Good luck x