Definitely not too early! Throw cake and learn amazing facts about semen and mucus on the 2nd December bus!

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I started another bus! I can't believe we got full so soon :o

From the last thread:
"He has said - 'no gym, no sex' - that'll do it!"

:o

OMG I love your DH, he sounds hilarious :)

blue I've literally just tested (I was weak) and another BFN. That's 5 BFN's in 5 days, I don't think I can take any more for a while. I'm so fed up and just want AF to arrive.

I'm so sorry seven waiting a while before testing again sounds like a good plan... I think BFN's are def worse than 'hopeful waiting'...hang in there!

My DH 'not in the mood' now apparently!! And just as I was warming to the idea as it might not be such a bad thing to hasten AF on her way if she's dilly dallying for no proper reason!

Thanks blue but I'm too optimistic weak for my own good. Everyday I think if I test today it might be a BFP, then I get a BFN and just feel more slightly more stupid than the previous day.

Sorry for moaning!

Have we had any more news from maybe?

seven sounds like me the cycle before last! I spent a small fortune on tests and then cried when AF arrived because I was so fed up with the whole thing! Have been more restrained with the testing this month but mainly because I was on hols and didn't want to end up in a bad mood every day if it was bfn!

Now that there's been the suggestion DTD might actually be a good idea think I may need to try and talk DH into it tonight as if we haven't made it this month I would really rather get AF out of the way and crack on for 2012 than hang around...should I be concerned if my AF only seems to come along with a little DTD help though?!

Oh seven don't apoligise for moaning.. we are all ears (or eyes maybe)

blue what does DTD stand for? I understand it could mean shag?

micky it's 'doing the deed'

So who will be joining me in testing next weekend (unless evil AF turns up beforehand)?

I will be testing next Sunday karbea I am hoping to last out till sunday when AF is due :)

Olis I'm going to wait till then as well if I can!

FX karbea i will let you know! :)

I'm testing next weekend too. Sunday if I behave and don't succumb to early testing (having just read a thread on here about the perils of early testing!)

Hey ladies, just thought I'd check in. On CD 21 of 30 at the mo. Not much to report. Still SWI going on but a lot more relaxed about it this cycle than last. Trying not to think about it constantly :).

Congrats on all the BFPs! X

Morning Ladies :)

Made up with DH and SWI / make up shag last night. Still had some EWCM yesterday so could have a chance!

So all testing next sunday sounds fun.. Are you all going to POAS at the same time and post.. Please do!

For me POAS will be the following weekend of course

micky glad you've sorted things out you sound much happier in your post, fx the make up shag does the business :)

Karbeilla I will possibly be testing next weekend. Af due anytime between tomorrow and friday, I put on the list and on my calendar fri knowing that should be the lastest to try and prevent early testing I just need to erase it out of my head now as I keep thinking maybe I should test tomorrow but I am really going to try and wait till fri maybe even saturday.
Glad things are sorted micky.
Hope you ok seven, hope you and Blue get answers soon. This waiting is horrible.

Thanks orange.

Glad you and DH have made up Micky.

Any more news yet blue?

Like the name change seven take it no more news after yesterday evening's bfn?

Well...my 'not testing again until tuesday resolve' didn't last and I used an IC this morning...bfn...still no sign of AF either! CD39 now and 14DPO. Will try another FR tomorrow but not getting my hopes up...just waiting for AF really! However, I am going to book a docs app for the end of the week as I just want to ask whether I should be concerned that my cycles seem to be getting longer with each cycle since I came off the pill? Or if I do get some good news when POAS I can chat to them about that! Figured if I book an app then I've got both bases covered

Back to work which has been a shock to the system this morning...and a colleague has really left me in the and gone away on hols themselves without leaving proper handover notes so bit as have to sort the mess they've left out and finish it off for project deadline in the morning! Best get back to it really...

Thank you everyone.

Just been on skype to my mum planning what we will do with our two week break at hers in the UK. Very exciting! I won't be heading back until October so need to buy all our clothes for summer.. But do I buy maternity or normal summer clothes??? as it will be my 3rd I will need maternity from round 3 months. Should just buy a mix and normal clothes one size up.. Oh so hard.

Blue Good idea with the doctors appointment and fx you will be telling them you are pregnant. Holiday blues are awful arn't they, hope you sort the mess your colleague left you in.

I mean I won't be heading back once I have been in 10 days.

Was away all weekend so - congrats Caramel!

Well, one week and 3 days late AF arrived last night. Bugger. Was away with work over the weekend and was hot and bothered, dehydrated, tired and carrying suitcase for most of it - could this have caused an early miscarry?

If not cycle was 44 days long?! How on earth am I supposed to work out when next ovulation due?!

DH says we should relax and enjoy but I am 35 and feel that time is running out - how over emotional am I today?!

micky if they are summer clothes, maxi dresses might be good.
Sorry AF got you modern. Did you test at all in that time. Thinking very strong of you if you managed to be a week and 3 days late without testing.
Blue sounds a good idea with the docs. Hope work gets a little less stressful.

Thanks orange just staying calm with work - there's only so much I can do today to get it sorted! Must try not to go to the loo so many times though - convinced AF is going to show up any mo but sill no sign!

micky there's quite a lot of summer tops around at the mo which are non-mat but I think would be fine over a bump just due to the style that they are (not that I've been checking them out at all ) so you could probably get some of those which would work with or without bump. It's trousers and skirts that will be more of an issue I'd have thought. The maxi dress option could be good though providing you're not short like me as they're all too long...even the petite ones!

modern sorry to hear about AF

Any news from dolly or thecake ??

Modern It is hard not to get emotional when TTC and hard because it is such a waiting game. Sorry to hear that AF came.

I am only 5ft but will get some maxi dresses and have them taken up maybe. Think I will go with the non-maternity tops that will allow for a bump. Good idea blue and might get a pair of maternity shorts then order online when I need to (after the BFP)

MickyLee you are right, less than 2 weeks to go! I got confused with the dates!

I see you are and I are neighbours on the list.

Hello all, just checking in and catching up with posts.

congrats to caramel

sorry about af modern

CD22 of 30 here, so only just over a week till I can test! Trying reeeeeally hard not to symptom spot as I know its still FAR too early!

Good luck to Karbea olis and everyone else due to test soon