Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 11)

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A safe place for everyone on the TTC after MC rollercoaster. Welcome and come in - virtual wine and chocolate for all, and lots of support and hand-holding until you get your BFP!

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Good luck to all - here's hoping for lots of healthy, sticky BFPs by the end of the thread!

Babes if that aint triphaisic i will run round the garden in the dark with no knickers on!

orange why cant they scan you this week? I am confused? Im so sorry you have all this anxiety to go through.... can you get into the hospital again? Seems a bit mean to make you wait another week! Good that Doc is reassuring about the bleed though...i cant imagine where your head is right now...mine has been all over the place with a bit of discouloured today... then a few hours later i realised it was my neon wee causing it (pregnacare tabs) ((hugs)) xx

Nix I don't know why I have to wait 2 weeks, maybe to potentially see more? I'm going backwards and forwards between trying for a private scan on maybe Weds, but I'm scared it might still not be conclusive - don't know what difference 4 days would make

I wondered why my wee was neon!!

Pink where are you going skiing? I'm looking at Bulgaria cos it's cheap :) I hope you're right and I won't be able to go

Thanks everyone for the support, again, dunno what I'd do without you [wobbly grin]

at nix but yrmotb having used my basic knowledge of charts I'll actually join her in the dark naked run if you're not in the club

orange how many weeks are you now? I'm assuming they are just delaying the scan until there's the best chance of being able to conclusively show you it's all ok? I would have thought things change pretty quickly at this stage, so maybe 4 days makes a massive difference?

I am excited about everyone's exciting charts! Makes me wonder if maybe I shouldn't have thrown the thermo into a dark corner of the wardrobe after all, although it was v. liberating at the time, it would be good to know actually what day AF is due rather than guessing based on pee sticks. Still, I guess she's either going to rock up, or she's not..... It's just a case of trying to use some willpower (which I have none of.....) to try not to pee on a stick every single day!!

I'm off to Austria can't wait - I was hopping from foot to foot just watching ski sunday

Ps nix I too have neon wee - it's practically radioactive!! Quite disturbing really!

Orange really feel for you having to wait hon :( not good for your sanity levels! Well done you for being strong and patient enough to wait xxx

naked mamap no one mentioned naked..you can do that one on your own

babes get an FR for tomorrow and dont drink anything xx

nix ha ha you little minx, in my book if you got no nickers on you're in the buff mate (that's how I got diffed anyway ) )

Morning all

really mama... is that how it happens?

All you skiers....keep your skiing stories to yourselves...we cant afford to go this year and im gutted as it will have been the first year for DS to learn.

mamp i hope your last minute diffed ness has made today a little easier on your emotions xxx thinking of you xxx

Morning all! Loads to catch up on! I'm on phone and can't scroll back so for now I.ll just say welcome to piglet and natalie sorry you find yourselves here. And GOOD LUCK to dachs!

Anyone poasing this morning?!

Ok I've heard from the clinic. Not enough survived to leave until Wednesday but there are two top quality embies going back in today...

That's awesome news Dachs!! and you only need 1 of course. C'mon embies! Top quality too

Apologies Piglet and Natalie I think I missed your posts in my self-imposed gloom. I'm sorry you find yourselves here, and I hope your stay is short

I'm doing better today, I seem to peak and trough. I'm trying Pink's positive thinking and visualisation boobs still sore and mild nausea, gotta take my positives whereby can!

Morning all, Hope you're all ok.

dachs sorry about the other embies. but glad you have top quality ones. fx for today

orange hope everything has calmed down.

wombat how are you doing at the moment?

mamap i think i missed if you'd found a house.

I don't think it'll be my month this month. DH is suffering and although he tried couldn't provide, bless him. Will just have to see if he's better before i ov. Is it best to do it the day before ov or on the day i ov?

Signed onto fertility friend.com yesterday will be interesting to see what it shows on a chart. Although i'm not very god at judging the mucus and my temps were all over the place before, but i'll give it another go, once i'm back to day 1.

sorry orange x post, i'm so glad you're feeling better today.

Dachs wha hoo! That is fantastic news, perhaps you could end up with twins Keeping everything crossed for these 2 special embies.

Thanks nix feels really odd actually, still so blooming happy but twinge of sadness when I woke this morning! Weather permitting me and dh are still going to let go of some wish lanterns tonight for our little 'Tiny' (what we always called it).

cep we got an offer in and I am still waiting to hear... keeping everything crossed our good luck continues! About the 'when' that's the $50million question! There is so much conflicting information. If it's of any help, I got diffed from SWI the day before!

Orange so glad you're feeling more upbeat today. I just spoke to my cousin, she had multiple mcs before conceiving and going to term and she said that as long as you're feeling tired/sore boobs and or sickness kicks in and stays, it's looking good

Morning wombat how are you doing?

Just a quick post (under the table at work!) - mamap you must be a real whirlwind of emotions today, I hope you're coping. Don't feel guilty about being happy for your bfp, or about feeling sad even though you have a bfp - just look after yourself. Thinking of you x

dachs - yay!! That is fab news!!!!!

Oh and nix / mamap - in the buff means nothing on at all in my view - no knicks is just getting in touch with your inner ho!

Hoorah for the top notch embies! Everything crossed, Dachs .

Orange 4 days can make a big difference at this stage - the later you can bear to leave it, the more you will see & the more reassuring it will be. But I know how bloody hard it is waiting. Good news about the sickiness.

MamaP it's a weird one, isn't it. Tis my due date on Friday. I have the official 12 week NHS scan on Wednesday. This week is a bit of a headf&$k all round, really.

Nix put your pants back on, missus, you're scaring the new people

mamap hope today's going ok for you, guess it's a little bit easier with a BFP, but go easy on yourself hey? Mine went ok until DH gave me a hug and said 'i'm sorry we didn't have a baby today' :( :( :(

nix wanna swap diffdness for ski holiday with me? Am willing to switch!!!

dachs fab news on your two top quality minidachs!!

Definitely happier than last time. They want them to be 8 cells, last time they were only 5 cells and not even sized cells so they were only grade 2 quality and too small. This time they are 8 cells and grade 1+ so I'm a but more hopeful!

Whoo hoo!! Dachs that's brilliant news!! Keeping everything crossed for today and the next days xxx

Mamap hugs for your dd. The laterns sound lovely.

Owly hugs for your DD too but also fx & much excitement for your scan!!

Orange still sending sticky and growing vibes your way. Counting down now until the scan. If the wait is driving you mad then maybe get a private one in the interim as well?

Welcome back abord the TTC wagon Mummya!!!

I'm feeling okay. A bit [a lot] anxious about my test results in a few days. Mamap by your cousin's definition, it's not looking too hopeful for me. Though if I focus really hard maybe my boobs are a fraction more sore than they were last week (but not a sore as they were the week before and still deflated). I'm trying to be pragmatic but of course I'm secretly getting my hopes up even though I know the chance are not good.

Womble I feel compelled to share my Diary of Insanity with you - I started writing down what (if any) symptoms I had each day. I'm still doing it. For weeks 5 and 6 and 7 it basically goes like this round and round in a circle of perpetual mentalness:

5+2 - oooh symptoms convincing today
5+3 - where the feck have they gone??
5+4 - why haven't they come back???
5+5 - Belching, does that count?
5+6 - GAH NO SYMPTOMS oh hang on do I feel a tiny bit grotty? Is that a symptom? Or did I just eat too much cake?

Etc

I am hoping for good (and calming) news when you get your test results. x

Nice one Dachs now just for those special little embies, how does a litre of PJ a day sound!? Feet up x

Pink swapping diffedness with no one!! Just wish we had the spare pennies this year to teach DS. I wouldnt have skied anyway tbh.
I am bridget jones!

mamap funnily enough i have found that the bfp doesnt alleviate any sense of loss over MC, seems to heighten it if anything cos thats all you are thinking about. I got very upset yesterday after my DH went for a pint with his mate whose wife has my DD in feb :( Lovely idea, lanterns.

*orange whoop for the mild nausea, dont eat for a couple of hours to see if it gets worse!! If i dont eat, mine seems to change.

owl everything crossed for weds. x and yes i agree

cep if you want to increase your mucas, drink a glass of GF juice each day.... :)

welcome newbies, sorry for your losses, can be a very painful time indeed. xx hope your stays are short x

LOL Owl that pretty much sums things up for me too!! Can but wait and see!