Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 8)

[MummyAbroad]

A safe haven for those just off the mc rollercoaster and thinking about getting back on or are already on the TTC rollercoaster. Be warned these lovely ladies chat, and the thread moves lightening fast, but all are welcome to join in any time

For those who have just mc'd, there is great info about your first cycle here

If you want to add yourself into the stats, just copy and paste the lot, change everyones CD (cycle day) if necessary and add yourself in.
WTF = first cycle after mc
WTTC = waiting to TTC
CD = cycle day
UCL = usual cycle length

i did bag it first but i think I'm going to have to fight for it as someone else bagged it the other day :)

I'll give it until 4.30 and if no-one has fought me for it before then I'll do the honours

NIX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :):):):):):):):):):):)

Wishing you lots of sticky bean thoughts :)

mouse - I can't remember whether I've said congrats to you yet

Do it Dachs! Wooo for new thread

daddysgirl I know its hard but do try to take it a bit easy and rest whenever you can. Your body is going through a traumatic time not to mention the emotional side of mc and you need to give it a chance to heal. I remember you saying you had funeral things to sort out so this is another hit for you on top of an already difficult time. Are there people in real life who know what has happened and can help support you through this?

Remember we are always here if you need to rant or cry or ask any questions however silly they may seem. (((hugs)))

Daddysgirl - any idea how many weeks pregnant you were when the miscarriage happened? And how has it gone so far? Did you need any surgery, or are you bleeding naturally? (Sorry if you've posted this already and I've missed it). It's hard to advise as I'm not quite sure exactly where you are in the process, but I second the advice from the others to seek help from a Dr if you cannot cope with the pain/bleeding or think there's any evidence of infection. During my MC and for about 4 days afterwards (like MamaC), I needed combined painkillers + a hot water bottle (actually one of those microwaveable wheat bags) to keep on top of the pain. (Combined painkillers = paracetamol OR co-codamol, plus ibuprofen). I remember this being the worst time really, as there is a constant physical reminder of what's happening. Sorry to hear about your dad as well, you are having a crappy time.

Oh nix huge huge congrats! Am thrilled for you :)

dachs it was me who tried to bag it, hadn't realised you'd had dibs! you go for it, my love. I'll have the next one!

dachs - go for it! baubles - very gracious of you, the thing is, these threads move so damn fast you'll be starting the next one before Christmas I reckon!!

I'm hoping not as I missed the boat if they have

We are still here. I'll miss the wonky wallpaper but we can put up Christmas decorations in the next one

Oooh I'll get the vat of mulled wine warming!!

nix yay am so pleased for you and sending a ton of superglue your way!

So pleased to see good news on here after a crap day! Think I have lucked out this month despite fairly good timing, but that's only 3 cycles post m/c so I know I have to be patient for a bit yet. Frustrating!

Im still here too, I will give you a hand with the packing and clearing up. There are an awful lot of empty chocolate wrappers round here...

Oops soorry MummyBells that might have be me...

It's all the empty wine bottles that are worrying me!

Izz, that might be me. And i wonder why I haven't conceived yet..

Don't worry, stick some candles in them and we can pretend to be a french bistro

still here. thanks baubles will set up thread :)

izzy what's wrong with empty wine bottles? surely they're better than full ones! Breaks out another bottle of wine...

if i have trouble with setting up the new thread i'll come back and hang my head in shame!

nice one Dach, we will be here waiting, drinking the emptys by candlelight

I have set up a new party room if anyone wants to join! Thread part 9 now available and comes well stocked with wine and christmas gear, plus pg vits for all you newly upduffed bfps

Nice one dachs

Just in case anyone is wondering why the lights off, Dachs has gone and got us a festive new home right here