Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 8)

[MummyAbroad]

A safe haven for those just off the mc rollercoaster and thinking about getting back on or are already on the TTC rollercoaster. Be warned these lovely ladies chat, and the thread moves lightening fast, but all are welcome to join in any time

For those who have just mc'd, there is great info about your first cycle here

If you want to add yourself into the stats, just copy and paste the lot, change everyones CD (cycle day) if necessary and add yourself in.
WTF = first cycle after mc
WTTC = waiting to TTC
CD = cycle day
UCL = usual cycle length

nicks sorry you're having a crappy week, please try not to get too stressed about work, it's just not worth it and they never really appreciate it. Deep breaths and rise above all the politics and bitching...

I can understand you putting poas-ing to the back of your mind too...why don't you try a few days of taking temps properly if you can and see how your chart goes, then test at end of week if no change?

orange well done on wellness test and gym, think it's only right you have a beer to balance it all out!

Night all x

X-posts nix . Go on, poas!

It's close enough to Tuesday so I'm going to do..

TUESDAY'S LIST

Inbetweener TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 29 CD35 BFP!!
Tunnocksteacake TTC #2, cycle 1, UCL28 CD39
PrettyQuichey TTC#1,(round 7)Cycle 6 UCL 28-30 CD 38
Getawiggleon TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL26, CD38
Loola2shu TTC#2, Cycle 2, UCL40 CD38
Nickstermum TTC#2 cycle 2 post MC UCL 30-40 CD36
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 1 (post MC#1) UCL 27 - 44 CD33
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 20 UCL24-9 CD33
Kat2504 TTC#1, cycle 3 UCL 26-28 CD29
RunForTheHills TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL28 CD29
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 2 (post MC) UCL 31 CD27
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL26-30 CD26
Sunchild77 TTC#3 cycle 6, UCL 24-28, CD20
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 4 UCL33 CD18
LadyBee TTC#2, cycle 4 (round 3) UCL27 CD18
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 4 (post mc1), UCL 38, CD16
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, (round 3) cycle 4 UCL 25-30 CD15
Freezingmyarseoff TTC#2 cycle 6 UCL28 CD14
Orangetoenails TTC#1, cycle 1 (MC#2), UCL 35, CD14
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 3 UCL 35, CD13
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 4, UCL 28 or 35 CD12
AandRmum TTC3 cycle 2 UCL29 CD13
HidingInTheBackRow TTC1, cycle 1, UCL 26, CD9
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 4 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD7
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 5 UCL 27 CD3
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL28 CD2

WTTC
Hairytriangle
Shitforbrains TTC#3, MC 1st Sep
Sarahmia TTC#2, MC2
MummyAbroad TTC #2,(MMC#1 31 Mar, ERPC 7 Jul), Ashermans Op 16 Nov
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#1 4th Oct WTF cycle
Barrenbrook TTC#1, MC#4 Oct 2010
Lemonsherbet TTC #1, ERPC 15 Oct 2010, WTF cycle
Batteryhen MC conf Oct 2010
Digitalgirl TTC#2, MC#3 Oct 2010
Nurse47 TTC#2, UCL28, WTF cycle ERPC 9 Nov
Emoo TTC#2, MC#1 18 Nov 2010, WTF cycle

MIA
Jamface TTC#2 post MC#2), UCL 27
Sillyness TTC#1 post MC1 WTF cycle
Lottiecrump UCL 27/30
Cheepz TTC#2 (round 4) UCL30
BackOnceAgain TTC#3, MC 17th Aug

RECENT GRADUATES
BUnderthebonnet BFP 20 June
Muser BFP 22 June
northerngoldilocks - BFP 12 July
Magic8ballhastheanswers BFP 14 July
Hopefully BFP 22 July
IvySedai BFP 1 August
PenguinsMummy BFP 15th August
VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP ~24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oc
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov

mouse fantastic news...... It's quite unbelivable when you get that positive..... I was about 55 days after erpc...& 14dpo also...so i am hopeing these words give you some reassurance...however I have to say the rollercoaster ride continues!!!!! Best of luck xx

nix sounds like your the lady for the job!! Hope it all pans out as smooth as possible. Wispers Keeping everything crossed, loving your unique chart I think it's just a little bit bonkers, just like you (meant in the nicest of ways) xx

mama Mr mama sounds just wonderful you lucky girl.... Don't worry about the tears often well up whilst lurking. Don't work too late!

HUGS TO EVERYONE XXXX

hairy welcome back! Your hairy baubles were freaking me out slightly - don't think I'll see you in the same light after this!!! I want to change my name now - where do I go again?

Dachs biggest (((()))) ever.

Betweener glad things seem to be hanging in there.

LadyB love the new name! Good negotiating with the Doc. I will come to you for lessons as I am rubbish at it - I just end up in tears every time I walk in there!

StNix I am not surprised you are showing up as the living dead - how are you surviving that much time up in the night (DD1 has had odd screaming dreams before - very bizarre stuff)!?!! No long drives to Bristol for you young lady!

Well, I thought I was doing rather well - but I had a long chat with my sister yesterday and ended up in a right state. Realised I have attached all sorts of meaning to this shitty shitty mc - feel like I have failed at something (am a bit of an overachiever!), disappointed my DDad (who in a moment of panic - stuck with me on the phone with no DMum in sight told me that cows who mc were put down!!) and feel guilty about getting on with life. Oh well - feel better for having said it out loud rather than having the thoughts lurk somewhere in my subconscious but obviously have some stuff to get my head around.

Just realised I am two pages behind -

Ooooo mousebacon and once again oooooooooo - very exciting and I get the scary bit too

My suspenders are playing Christmas songs for you StNix!

Pink ((())) talking it out is bloody hard but - for me - rather necessary - scary to find out what I've been thinking without really noticing it!

Izz I don't really understand the charting stuff yet but triphasic sounds pretty impressive - fx.

Hopefully LadyBean will be prophetic!

Waves to all

Morning all - big (((hugs))) to pink and aandrmum - hope you're feeling ok this morning.

pink - well done on emailing re the counselling, fx you'll be able to get that set up before long. Your church sounds great, providing that service. At least you've taken a positive step to do something. Why do you think you're not ov'ing though? I had the feeling you'd been temping, if so do you want to link yo your chart and maybe someone on here can shed some light?

nix how's the chart today?

11dpo here and temps still up which is great news for my luteal phase (they usually plummet the day that AF is going to arrive so I know we've definitely got to 11 days!). If I get to 14dpo I'll do a celebratory dance for you all [ever-hopeful emoticon]

Morning! I woke up middle of the night soaked in sweat, very bizarre and sorry for overshare but I'm still WTF?

AandR I hope you felt better afterwards. It can sometimes feel like a weight's been lifted just for realising why you feel a certain way. I have no doubt the 12 sessions I had this year did me the world of good. Sounds like you have a good sister there too :)

OPK a bit darker again. Do I assume that when I've OV I won't get any second line again? I don't normally get any line, and last month it wasn't that dark and I reckon I definitely OV'd as AF came 14 after. Hope that makes sense?!

We're still going for the scattergun so I know I'm covered, if nothing else I want to know when to switch to the pineapple juice!

[[http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/1873b3
well blow me down with a feather]]

Wow nix !!!! POAS, POAS, POAS!!!!!!!!

Big extra special hugs for A&R and pink*
AR go to my mumsnet, registration details ect and change nickname there.

I am bordering on feverish today, during the night was just too hot. Combatted the therm problem, DS came in bed with me at 3am. (little devil slotted me in the eye in his sleep)

Snowing here, and so i am sacking off my day in Redditch. Too far to go in severe weather warning country wide and neither i nor my car are good in snow!

My friend gave birth yesterday, to a little boy. We had DS's at the same time, and i met her through antenatal. We then started TTC at the same time for pg 2, she conceived, then so did i, she birthed, mine didnt.... happy for her of course, but it still affects me (more so cos she told all the other mums i was pg/mc!)

Ouch nix ((((hugs)))) that's really difficult...x

Well we did a little POAS action

Its only bloody BFP BFP BFP

How the hell did that happen?!?!?!?!?!

OMFG!

3 bfps cos i did 3 tests...............!

Aaaaaaagh!!!!!!! Hurray!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go nix !!!!!!

That's bloody brilliant!!

Hope you're feeling cheerier now?!

(that was an excited scream btw, not an angry one - hard to tell in writing! )

Morning all .
Just going to go and catch up with the last 96 pages....
I'm snuggled in bed wearing my noo onsise .
Lots has been a happ'nin on here.

Bit shocked actually..................!

blardy nora!

But of course.... ecstatic!

Very long way to go yet xxxxx

nixy right I have got tinsel suspenders on too! Saw your chart and just thought implantation dip! I guess testing will still be iffy because if a bean has just implanted there still may not be enough detectable hcg yet, but I am really excited for you and..

Sorry for dodgy punctuation I am clearly too old to use an iPad

izzy can't help thinking this long lp ( for you) is signifying something else!

AandR great that you have found an outlet for some your feelings and that you are able to identify some of the thoughts that have got stuck in your head. Sometimes just being able to see what has been going on helps enormously. So have you found a way to reconcile what your dad said about the cows? (men really don't have a clue how to handle these things, do they?!) do you think you might talk to him about it and see if that brings you some closure?

emoo hope you get that bfn soon, Its an agonising wait, haven't given you my stats as I didn't want to
freak you out, I didn't get one for three months and then had another erpc. it's really good that you are being monitored closely like this right from the start.

orange I wouldn't assume anything with opk's as they aree not really an exact science, have you got any other info to correlate with, temps, cm cervix stuff etc?

Wheyhey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![ grin]

nixster that is fab news!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ grin] I am doing a special Christmas bfp dance for you and twirling the tinsel garters above my head!!

( I will put it back on for izzy in a minute)

[ grin ]

Fook me Nixster x posts with you, got up made a cuppa picked up my mowbli and wooo hoooo!
Made up for you! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :).

:) :) :) nix :) :) :) that's AWESOME!! Especially after a tough day yesterday

I've had good CM which I thought might be the grapefruit...and high cervix.....will see this avo I spose when I test again

OMG NIX! I am reading this with happy happy tears for you!!!!!!!!! Really - What a sap I am! But no seriously thrilled and nervous and envious for you too!

How you feeling? Tell us about taking the test! Have you told DH? BRILLIANT News :D

Woooohooooo! Congratulations nix! That's so so fab! Am so very chuffed for you. Congratulations again! A Christmas BFP! (one for each test!)