All true, but all his reports make it clear he is in an independent school.
I was having a wobble. Time and time again i have muttered to DH; 'But I am not sure we really deserve this- we can more or less cope' and he points out it's not for us, it is for DS. The adhd medication costs have completely stretched us though. Our GP medical centre no longer prescribes ADHD meds for various reasons and so we are on a waiting list for the provider they have outsourced this to. Until then though we have to go via his psychiatrist and pay to see her; the prescribing fee; then the medication itself. It's simply so expensive.
I guess now we are fairly close to (hopefully) a decision I am overthinking everything. What I did not put down in the section where you explain how he is affected day to day etc. I did not include anything from the school because they contributed to every report that has been done on him. Now I am double guessing that as well!
It's quite anxiety provoking!!