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Breastfeeding calendar?

291 replies

VictorianSqualor · 12/04/2008 10:07

After seeing some of the beautiful pictures on the breastfeeding photos thread and watching the nude photoshoot on Young Mums Mansion the other day I've had a look for some breastfeeding calendars and it seems there are but two.

One of which just looks like playgroup type pictures, the other is the IBFAN calendar.
If I were to arrange (hopefully in conjunction with MN and the new Breastfeeding helpline) a calendar would you buy it? pose for it?

Hopefully MrsBadger won't mind me linking to this post, but this is the type of thing I was thinking.
Something arty that shows the real beauty of breastfeeding.

Would also be greatful to hear from anyone who is, or knows a photographer or a great location for the pictures.

It would have to be for 2009 now so I'd think we have plenty of time.

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VictorianSqualor · 12/04/2008 19:01

ejt, I know there are quite a few people in Wales on my antenatal thread who are popping as we speak, so there is definitely an option to get some of you ladies together for a shoot.

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VictorianSqualor · 12/04/2008 19:02

sorry stefka x-post but as I said earlier, there are opportunities for other shoots to be held, if there are enough people to do them and is a photographer available.

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looneytune · 12/04/2008 19:14

VS - just emailed you, baby due 23rd June.

VictorianSqualor · 12/04/2008 19:54

Got it.

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ejt1764 · 12/04/2008 19:59

Fab - I'm the there's only 2 of us in Wales on our pn thread - it's good to know there's more of us around!

VictorianSqualor · 12/04/2008 20:02

In fact one of them has posted here already Eva07 is in Wales.

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crochetdiva · 12/04/2008 20:23

Thanks VS - I will contact her ...

I like the idea of "Beyond the Feeding Room" - I would be happy to be photographed feeding in church - I seem to spend most of my time there with my norks out, so there'd be no change there!

p.s. have name changed (was ejt1764)

VictorianSqualor · 12/04/2008 20:29

Oooh church, great idea.

Berolina has written a fab poem to show the general gist of the calendar, about not being sat in some stuffy room that is practically a toilet extension and being asked if we'd like to use 'facilities' only to go outisde or somewhere, start feeding and actually no-one really cares, or notices.
It'a lovely, but I'll let her share it if she wants to.

Was also thinking maybe each page could have a mythbuster, if we could find the 12 most common myths about breastfeeding (I'm sure we'd get plenty of answers if we asked on here) and then tell the actual fact.
It wouldn't take much space, just one line myth and one line fact.

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SparklyGothKat · 12/04/2008 20:32

myth: breastfed babies don't sleep through the night

Indith · 12/04/2008 20:34

The fore/hind milk thing that has all new bf mums terrified that they are not feeding on one side long enough to get to the "good stuff"!

VictorianSqualor · 12/04/2008 20:36

Yes, the fore/hind milk thing was one I had thought of, also re-establishing breastfeeding, mum not having 'enough' milk, not being able to have aglass of wine whilst feeding...there's more. Sleeping through the night wasnt one I'd thought of thanks SGK.

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lilyloo · 12/04/2008 20:38

VS i would be interested my dd now 12 weeks and hoping to still be bf in August i am near Manchester but if you organising somethin for Leed i could get there.

kiskideesameanoldmother · 12/04/2008 20:40

about to add one of the last bfing pics taken of dd - in public - to my profile. at 2.4, on a steam train in Devon.

berolina · 12/04/2008 20:41

shall I post the poem VS? or do you want to? did you like it?

love the idea of a mythbuster every month. How about not having to eat a saintly diet or drink gallons of water? Weight gain things. And an 'extended' bf one - all children will self-wean eventually!

VictorianSqualor · 12/04/2008 20:43

I did like it bero, I actually got tearful reading it, but I blame that on the hormones, I'm a tuff old boot really

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berolina · 12/04/2008 20:45

OK, here it is. (Warning: long, at least longish)

The Feeding Room

They tend to put it, planning shopping heavens,
behind extended walls, ushering even
the door back out of casual sight; inside
a plastic chair that sticks itself to summer?s
and hormones? sweat, next to the bin
and piped with flushing music from the loo.
And then they ask, when we have perched
in the café, on the edge of a display, or on a bench,
fenced by a boundary of bags, oh, might
you be more comfortable doing that
in our facilities? And then we think,
no, I would not.

And afterwards we pass the magazines:
braless, wide-open shirts at teenage-height,
and the girls who see them twitch and lift
at their pink-spanned, upwards-pushed array.
It is just fine, it seems, in fact, encouraged,
to get them out for the boys.

You cry; you nuzzle at me, stretch the sling,
and I am out under a city sky,
out here with smokers and with monuments
and buskers. It is warm. On a low step,
grey, and fairly clean, I take you out,
lift up my top ? your eyes glaze over, and your mouth
makes practice-gulps at mother-sweat-warmed air ?
and hold you close, your hand grabs me for anchor,
you suck, your eyes fall shut; you dive
right into milk, completely. I straighten, and sigh;
the agitation action-stationed by your cry
clocks off. I?m rich; the city day is mine.
Nobody sees what I do: they look straight at me
and somehow miss the exhibition I
am making of myself, the streaking straight across
the public field. I am just a tired mother
whose child, then screaming, now miraculously
quiet, has given her a moment?s break.

You surface sleeping, ready for the sling;
I, secret scandal, rise and wrap you in.

Indith · 12/04/2008 20:47

That is lovely bero

milou2 · 12/04/2008 21:16

Thanks for posting your poem

BouncingTurtle · 12/04/2008 21:22

Wonderful, Berolina

Another myth - you have to pump and dump after a glass or two of vino

Crochetdiva - wow can't believe your lo is 6 months now! Doesn't time fly I too am a Church feeder as well, always with my norks out during the service.

Dalrymps · 12/04/2008 21:55

OOh if you are going to put lots of images on front cover of pics taken before stopping bf i'll have a look at some of mine...

VictorianSqualor · 12/04/2008 22:12

Good stuff Darlymps

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whomovedmychocolate · 12/04/2008 22:15

VS, I'm up for modelling for it - I did some bf modelling for the local midwifery service education prog when DD was a baby and I'm still feeding her and will prob be tandem feeding (AKA feeding time at the zoo) .

Now about that big bump you appear to have...

VictorianSqualor · 12/04/2008 22:16

Bump? What bump?

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MamaMaiasaura · 12/04/2008 22:19

got pic on my profile