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Am I being a snowflake about this - name of a nursery that is similar to something I find offensive ?

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Putoffalot · 08/01/2025 20:44

AIBU to not want to send my child (of a mixed heritage) to a childminder with a name that is very similar to something offensive (GW). It’s come up when searching and is the closest to my work but I can’t even contemplate contacting them as it’s too close to the name of an offensive item ?

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Wimbledonmum1985 · 08/01/2025 20:46

Huh?

Pinetreethree · 08/01/2025 20:46

I don't think anyone could say without knowing the name.

Pepla · 08/01/2025 20:46

GW?

WiseLurker · 08/01/2025 20:47

As in the dolls?

I doubt very much there is a nursery called that.

Ilovethatbear · 08/01/2025 20:47

Do you mean the first part of the name is Golly?

No, I would not send my child there.

Tinselinthewhoopsiebasket · 08/01/2025 20:47

Is the nursery Scallywags?
If so Yabu...

username299 · 08/01/2025 20:47

Adolph Mitler?

BarbaraHoward · 08/01/2025 20:47

What's the name of the nursery? We can't comment otherwise I'm afraid.

Herewego25 · 08/01/2025 20:47

I was thinking Scallywags. Nothing wrong there.

maudelovesharold · 08/01/2025 20:47

Is it a nursery or a childminder? Someone’s surname or a ‘company’ name.

Putoffalot · 08/01/2025 20:48

Wimbledonmum1985 · 08/01/2025 20:46

Huh?

I was searching for childcare options near me and one came up that would be ideal
of they have space but the name of the setting is so similar to the name of a racist item (GW) I’m not sure I can name the actual place ? Not sure that’s allowed on here but they’ve called it something which after googling means ‘tadpole’ but it’s so similar sounding to GW??

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JessiesJ99 · 08/01/2025 20:48

You find a woman's name offensive???!!! So just move along then!!

Ilovethatbear · 08/01/2025 20:49

WiseLurker · 08/01/2025 20:47

As in the dolls?

I doubt very much there is a nursery called that.

I just did a quick google search. There’s something fits that nasty bill in Wales. Is that where you are @Putoffalot ?

ItsCalledAConversation · 08/01/2025 20:49

Hard to know without knowing what the term is.

Eventually you get used to people’s name just being their name, rather than the thing it initially sounds like/reminds you of. You may even come up with a nickname to avoid the offensive reference altogether.

Im dying to know what this person could possibly be called that’s offensive though. Barbara Bumbaclart? Ruth Dildo? Sarah Titwank? Moira Shoesinside?

Hedjwitch · 08/01/2025 20:49

Scallywags is not the same as Gollyw*.
YABU

Putoffalot · 08/01/2025 20:49

Herewego25 · 08/01/2025 20:47

I was thinking Scallywags. Nothing wrong there.

No it’s not that . Am I allowed to name businesses ? I don’t want to get in trouble! It rhymes with GW but means tadpole apparently. But it’s just too close for me am I being weird?

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Pepla · 08/01/2025 20:49

Putoffalot · 08/01/2025 20:48

I was searching for childcare options near me and one came up that would be ideal
of they have space but the name of the setting is so similar to the name of a racist item (GW) I’m not sure I can name the actual place ? Not sure that’s allowed on here but they’ve called it something which after googling means ‘tadpole’ but it’s so similar sounding to GW??

What sounds like ‘gollywog’?

whatkatydid2014 · 08/01/2025 20:49

I guess polliwog based on OP update

GallopingGuineaPigs · 08/01/2025 20:49

Ohhhhh is it Golliwopsie? I drove past it once and was sure I'd misread until I googled it when I got home!

Putoffalot · 08/01/2025 20:50

Hedjwitch · 08/01/2025 20:49

Scallywags is not the same as Gollyw*.
YABU

Yes it has the second part the same as well so I feel offended and can’t even bring myself to see if they have spaces

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InkHeart2024 · 08/01/2025 20:50

Pollywog. It's not meant to mean the same as gollyw*

MargaretThursday · 08/01/2025 20:50

You mean Pollywog? That's American for tadpole.

NorthernGirlie · 08/01/2025 20:50

What a ridiculous name!

Am I being a snowflake about this - name of a nursery that is similar to something I find offensive ?
Hedjwitch · 08/01/2025 20:50

Polliwogs. An old word for tadpoles.

echt · 08/01/2025 20:50

Pollywoggle.

It has nothing to do with racism and a dictionary would have shown you this