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Megan & Harry - I want all of the tea!!!!

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OhShutIt · 07/03/2021 10:05

I'll start by stating I couldn't give two shits about two people I don't know.

However, I am finding so much humour in the 'non racist' vitriol from people that don't know them, and who seemingly don't care, yet can't get them out of their mouths!

I can't wait for this Oprah interview (that I might not even bother to watch) because I'll find the obsessive thread after thread on this absolutely hilarious.

To start us who have had a lifetime of this shit off, I thought I'd add to the frothing with this gem!

Kelechi, Shola and Gina were so on point and so unapologetically Black!

I'm hoping we can congrats here for our own analysis later!

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RomeoLikedCapuletGirls · 10/03/2021 07:44

The thing that really gets me is that when racism is covert you have a hard time proving it. When it’s blatant and overt the speed and willingness with which people explain it away is breathtaking.

I mean, are people so naive to think that within the most elite institution that has for centuries been the head of a hierarchy that has placed black people at the bottom, that there isn’t even one old racist fart? I mean, given their upbringing it would surprising if there weren’t any smug feelings of white supremacy floating around in the RF.

skodadoda · 10/03/2021 08:08

@RomeoLikedCapuletGirls

The thing that really gets me is that when racism is covert you have a hard time proving it. When it’s blatant and overt the speed and willingness with which people explain it away is breathtaking.

I mean, are people so naive to think that within the most elite institution that has for centuries been the head of a hierarchy that has placed black people at the bottom, that there isn’t even one old racist fart? I mean, given their upbringing it would surprising if there weren’t any smug feelings of white supremacy floating around in the RF.

The ‘old farts’ are not so much racist as crashing snobs. They were dreadful to Kate for being ‘common’ and ‘trade’.
C8H10N4O2 · 10/03/2021 08:14

I wish she had shown a more united front with MM, and been vocal in her support, rather than just being safe and silent

That was her choice.

She had some of the best education money can buy and by ordinary standards no shortage of money. She wanted more.

She now has immense privilege and wealth for remarkably little actual work.

The price she pays for a place in one of the bastions of male, white, wealthy privilege is looking the other way strategically when hubs and his family play away or behave poorly and performing as a silent clothes horse. She made her choice when she allowed the tabloids to use her to lobby against Meghan in situations she could have rectified and when she collaborated with William in that nasty charter flight stunt.

She isn't Diana 2.0, Diana didn't keep silent and did reach out to people and she paid for it.

RomeoLikedCapuletGirls · 10/03/2021 08:17

The ‘old farts’ are not so much racist as crashing snobs. They were dreadful to Kate for being ‘common’ and ‘trade’.

Exactly. But if they are crashing snobs capable of thinking themselves better based on class, they are more than capable of thinking themselves better based on race to the point that they lament the possible diluting of the gene pool. It’s not a huge leap.

debbrianna · 10/03/2021 08:21

Oprah said when she met Meghan two-three years ago, meghan told her she was asked to be 50% of herself. How the fuck do you do that?

That can hive any one a mental breakdown.

I can see why kate fitted right in, if all you have to do is breed and smile.

RomeoLikedCapuletGirls · 10/03/2021 08:21

She isn't Diana 2.0, Diana didn't keep silent and did reach out to people and she paid for it.

Well quite. And that’s why Kate manages to escape the level of vitriol aimed at Megan who has had the temerity to own opinions.

C8H10N4O2 · 10/03/2021 08:38

And that’s why Kate manages to escape the level of vitriol aimed at Megan who has had the temerity to own opinions

Exactly. Kate is complicit.

phoenixrosehere · 10/03/2021 09:19

She tried to change an ancient institution. The establishment didn’t like it.

I keep seeing this trotted out but no one has said what she did exactly that says she tried to change it.

Other than saying she wanted to hit the ground running and being enthusiastic to start her duties especially concerning charities, what examples are there that she tried to change things?

RedMarauder · 10/03/2021 09:20

Exactly. Kate is complicit.

Kate and the rest of the Royals strategy is if the press is picking on someone else then we can stay extremely silent as they will leave us alone.

Unfortunately they didn't reckon that Harry would want to protect his wife and children from all of their racism.

RedMarauder · 10/03/2021 09:22

Piers Morgan has been talking to the press still doesn't get it.

Jangirl2018 · 10/03/2021 09:25

@RedMarauder

Kate and the rest of the Royals strategy is if the press is picking on someone else then we can stay extremely silent as they will leave us alone

Exactly this. They are used to people suffering in silence or divorcing from the family which they probably hoped, in time Meghan would do the same. As long as the media is focusing on one of the outside women who have married in they are happy. Takes the heat off them, especially with the Andrew crap going on.

HmmmmmmInteresting · 10/03/2021 09:53

@RomeoLikedCapuletGirls

The thing that really gets me is that when racism is covert you have a hard time proving it. When it’s blatant and overt the speed and willingness with which people explain it away is breathtaking.

I mean, are people so naive to think that within the most elite institution that has for centuries been the head of a hierarchy that has placed black people at the bottom, that there isn’t even one old racist fart? I mean, given their upbringing it would surprising if there weren’t any smug feelings of white supremacy floating around in the RF.

People always say the UK is much less racist than the USA. No. It. Isn't. In the UK they will smile at you while knifing you in the back.
HmmmmmmInteresting · 10/03/2021 09:54

@RedMarauder

Piers Morgan has been talking to the press still doesn't get it.
Oh he gets it all right. He knows being a bigot is profitable in the UK
HmmmmmmInteresting · 10/03/2021 09:56

The price she pays for a place in one of the bastions of male, white, wealthy privilege is looking the other way strategically when hubs and his family play away or behave poorly and performing as a silent clothes horse. She made her choice when she allowed the tabloids to use her to lobby against Meghan in situations she could have rectified and when she collaborated with William in that nasty charter flight stunt.

Ugh. I don't know how she lives with herself.

phoenixrosehere · 10/03/2021 10:03

People always say the UK is much less racist than the USA. No. It. Isn't. In the UK they will smile at you while knifing you in the back.

Agree, I’ve dealt with more instances of racism and xenophobia here in my eight years than I did my whole life growing up in the States. The main reasons I haven’t moved back are because of the gun laws, healthcare, better support for my autistic son , and not wanting to start all over again.

RedMarauder · 10/03/2021 10:04

@HmmmmmmInteresting Piers doesn't get he was asked to leave because he went down "not believing someone had mental health problems" territory regardless of who they are.

It was fine for ITV that he was racist and sexist but once he went down the "not believing in mental health issues" territory he had to go particularly as he upset MIND.

RedMarauder · 10/03/2021 10:08

People always say the UK is much less racist than the USA. No. It. Isn't. In the UK they will smile at you while knifing you in the back.

The difference is in the UK you are less likely to get shot to death by your racist.

Fuhfeuucdr · 10/03/2021 10:09

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HmmmmmmInteresting · 10/03/2021 10:10

[quote RedMarauder]@HmmmmmmInteresting Piers doesn't get he was asked to leave because he went down "not believing someone had mental health problems" territory regardless of who they are.

It was fine for ITV that he was racist and sexist but once he went down the "not believing in mental health issues" territory he had to go particularly as he upset MIND.[/quote]
True

The people saying 'hE waSnT saCked- hE LeFT!' don't understand that if he had the choice he would still be there, spouting his bigotry unchallenged. His position became untenable because he said something that made them look like hypocrites with their #BeKind mental health bullshit campaign.

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HmmmmmmInteresting · 10/03/2021 10:11

@RedMarauder

People always say the UK is much less racist than the USA. No. It. Isn't. In the UK they will smile at you while knifing you in the back.

The difference is in the UK you are less likely to get shot to death by your racist.

Yeah. You'll die a death by a thousand cuts instead.
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