Glad you're feeling a little more positive Sammysam. I've got an appointment with the fetal specialist tomorrow and I'll let you know exactly what he says.
How far along do you think you were when you first had symptoms ?
From what I can gather from the internet, other mums, etc there isn't a big fuss made about this because it's so unlikely to affect the baby ! Being realistic, you're much more likely to suffer a miscarriage during the first 12 weeks, or pre-eclampsia, or a whole number of other conditions - it's scary to read what could (rarely) happen with this parvovirus but we'd all be raving loonies if we stressed over all the what-ifs !
The most important thing is that your GP and midwife are aware of the possibility that you've had an active infection since falling pregnant and now you'll be monitored. I bet your midwife is reading up on it now !
If you really can't settle this weekend, without some information, maybe a phonecall to NHS direct or NCT might yield some results ?
On a much lighter note, we've now told DS(4) about the baby - which he's delighted with - and I've been given strict instructions not to drive to fast and when asked why, my little cherub told me that if I drive too fast the baby might fall out of my minnie . He then gave me a full account of how he climbed out of said minnie, got some toys, and then climbed back up into my tummy when he was a baby !
I couldn't love that little boy anymore than I do !