Hi everyone ... my bump is now a baby!
Oscar William was born at 4.47am on Sunday morning.
My waters broke at 4am on Friday and we went into hospital to be checked out. They said that if I didn't go into labour by 5pm Saturday I had to phone them. I was getting contractions on and off but they didn't come to anything, so we were told to come into the hospital at 9pm. I was getting pretty upset because I wanted a waterbirth or at least an active labour with just gas and air, and didn't like the sound of an induction at all.
We were lucky with a fab midwife who understood my concerns and decided that enough was happening to hold off the drip. So we roamed the hospital corridors until midnight, then went back to the delivery unit as the contractions got stronger. I had to spend time being monitored but the midwife tried really hard not to be obtrusive. I got really disheartened because the contractions were in a strange pattern, and would get really frequent and then go away for 15mins. At 4am I finally cracked and asked for an epidural, but as she was getting everything ready the midwife checked me again and discovered that actually I was really to push so too late for an epidural anyway.
Oscar was then born at 4.47, face up, weighing 7lb 2. Because of the monitoring I was lying on my back but the midwife let me reach down and 'deliver' him myself once the shoulders were out, which was so magical.
Scarily the midwife said the placenta was huge, and if I'd gone to 40 weeks Oscar would have been 11 or 12 lb [ouch emoticon]. Amazingly I didn't tear, just a graze, which has made life so much better than last time when I had a 2nd degree tear.
We stayed in for 12 hrs for observation because of the waters breaking so long before the birth, but we're home now and Oscar is doing ok with feeding. He's pretty sleepy during the day and wide awake at night. my milk is starting to come in so I'm hoping that he'll be able to cluster feed in the evening and then sleep a bit at night.
Hope everyone else is well ...