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GrouchyKiwi · 03/02/2016 19:56

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Icecappedpinetrees · 05/05/2016 14:20

Busy busy here today! My waters trickled with every contraction after being induced for several hours. It was pretty gross. I'm hoping for something more dramatic this time Smile like 'Waters go with a gush then contractions then whoooooosh baby!!'

ParsnipSoup · 05/05/2016 15:07

Fingers crossed baby cant is on the way. Has anyone heard from pearly?

Hurrah for a fully engaged baby ODog! Almost makes up for the wee-incident?!

Good luck today Grouchy, let us know how it goes? Mine is at 5.20 tomorrow.

Everythinggettingbigger · 05/05/2016 15:44

Ah so seems everyone who's waters have broken went by themselves the first time too! Just sitting in the sunshine at the park with DS, he's just asked when the baby is born can he bring him to school to show all his friends and teachers! I love that he loves him already!

The dread is kicking in about tonight.....I'm really hoping I go into labour to get out of it! I'm comparing counting counting votes to labour.......must be hormonal haha

cantbelieveImquittingcoffee · 05/05/2016 16:37

Just checking in to say it was a false alarm...I'm sure it was nothing really this morning as no pains, no more trickling, nada definitely wasn't wee either though so it's a bit of a mystery!!

ODog · 05/05/2016 16:51

No shame in wetting yourself here cant!

cantbelieveImquittingcoffee · 05/05/2016 18:22

So - my parents are still here and I haven't said anything to them, DP is home, and I just went to the bathroom and it's pale pink when i wipe...it probably means it IS my waters slowly going, right?? And yet I don't want to tell anyone except the whole Internet

GrouchyKiwi · 05/05/2016 18:49

Go get checked out. They can then let you know the best way to proceed. Smile

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GrouchyKiwi · 05/05/2016 18:54

Scan was fine. Plenty of amniotic fluid, baby looks fine, and the sonographer was fairly sure we are indeed having a girl. The only thing is that nearly 38 weeks is too late to actually check growth - you can't get a lot of baby in view at one time!

I'm sure yours will be fine tomorrow too, Parsnip.

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Icecappedpinetrees · 05/05/2016 19:22

Get checked cant no harm in calling someone. It means something is happening Smile

And ODog - just Grin

ODog · 05/05/2016 19:33

Call your birth centre and ask them cant. It might be waters or it might be bits of your plug going. Mine was pale pink when it went with DS and when I wiped.

cantbelieveImquittingcoffee · 05/05/2016 20:17

I think I am being MENTAL because I don't even want to tell DP!! As in - if I don't say it out loud then it definitely isn't happening....right??! My notes from my midwife say don't call the hospital when your waters go unless they are green/dark until contractions start (and/or it's been 24 hours) so am going to sit right for now. DP is just taking my parents to the station!

ODog · 05/05/2016 20:29

If you are sure it's your waters then do everything you can to get things going. If you go over 24hrs you will be classed as high risk and they will push to induce you. It happened to me with DS and I hated being monitored so closely the whole time. Luckily I avoided induction but if you can get things going naturally then it's all good. Good luck!

cantbelieveImquittingcoffee · 05/05/2016 21:19

Thanks ODog! I do seem to be having some contractions now (though very far apart and pretty mild still) so I'm bouncing on the ball and DP is panicking!

ODog · 05/05/2016 21:37

Sorry that sounded very alarmist. Obviously being monitored isn't the worst thing and some people prefer it. Just wanted to give you my experience. Good luck!

Pikz · 05/05/2016 22:55

Good luck can't

Looks like the end of the road for me. Nada materialising from two weeks of on off BH, contractions etc. Consultant at 10am will see if my vbac dreams are all over

PearlyFish · 05/05/2016 23:27

Hey all, sorry I'm slow to update! Everything went really well and my beautiful baby boy arrived on May 4th at around 8am. He was due on the 6th so I was pleased to be early, even on Star Wars day! Went 8 days over with DD.

I had an induction on Tuesday evening after my waters went on Monday evening. I had been having some erratic contractions so was pretty confident that the pessary would get things going. Sure enough, about 2.5hrs after the pessary I started to have regular contractions. Got by for a while on the antenatal ward using breath, visualisation and tens machine, but the plan was always to have an epidural. The midwives were very good and got me over to the delivery suite once contractions ramped up (although they did rather comically offer me paracetamol first!)

On the delivery suite I was was offered gas and air until they could examine me. I went easy on it this time after totally hammering it for DDs birth and ending up a bit out of it. Part of wanting an epidural was so I could have pain relief but be mentally more present for the birth.

As I was 4cm they agreed there was time for the epidural and produced the anaesthetist.

I had been hoping to sleep after epi went in, but the anaesthetist had left it to the midwife to top up the epidural a couple of times and she didn't actually do it until DH went to get her and remind her. Contractions during that time were still painful, but not so bad I wanted the gas and air. After the top ups I was blissfully unaware of the contractions, but a bit too late to have time to sleep before needing to push.

I was really worried about whether I would be able to push effectively enough to avoid interventions. I did find it really hard, but what helped was using Juju Sundin's 'coffee plunger' visualisation, plus putting my hand down to feel his head as it began to emerge. We were tapering the epidural so I began to get enough feeling to be aware of where his head was. Also, because I wasn't in pain or mentally affected by opiates I was able to have sensible discussions with the midwives about techniques, positions etc, and it was a low dose epidural so I could move around.

It was a wonderful moment as he arrived, I was fully with it, and not distressed, and cried lots of happy tears as DH revealed the gender surprise! With DD I was just too traumatised to have an emotional response.

Needed some stitching as I had a second degree tear on one side and a graze on the other. The lovely student midwife supported my old episiotomy scar during crowning so it didn't rupture.

Although we were both really well afterwards the hospital wanted to do lots of monitoring because the waters had gone early. This was ok for a while but we had to work hard to get my canula removed and to get discharged that evening.

It's been lovely since we got home and we had a good day in the sunshine today with family visitors.

Good luck to everyone, it's very exciting reading about all the possible early signs and looking forward to hearing more baby news Smile

Thinking about you in particular cant as it sounds like things are properly getting going! Hope you are getting on well and good luck!

PearlyFish · 05/05/2016 23:36

Cross post. Fingers crossed for your vbac Pikz x

ODog · 06/05/2016 06:12

Lovely birth story pearly - congrats. You are making me want an epidural now!

pikz - how far over will they let you go before they discourage a vbac? Surely if you stand your ground they can't make you do anything you don't want?

Hope all going well cant.

I've become an obsessive MN checked the last couple of days with all the exciting news. All quiet here though except for it being my due date today!

cantbelieveImquittingcoffee · 06/05/2016 06:54

Pikz fingers crossed for your appointment this morning Flowers
Lovely to hear the full story Pearly! I had been planning to try just water (and has and air) but over the past week have been really thinking about epidural a lot so that's another vote in favour!!
Haven't really slept and been having contractions all night, but the pattern is weird - they got closer together (from about every 15mins to more like 7 or 8 minutes, lasting just over a minute each time) but then they seemed to get further apart again as it got to early morning! I woke DP up at 5.30 so I could go in the bath and then started having very short and much milder ones closer together while I was in there, so I'm not really sure what's going on now! Will probably call the hospital in a bit and see what they say.

Icecappedpinetrees · 06/05/2016 06:54

Pearly - Congratulations! Flowers thank you so much for taking the time to share your story. A beautiful little boy Smile brilliant news!

Happy due date ODog!

Good luck Pikz.

cantbelieveImquittingcoffee · 06/05/2016 06:54

And happy due date odog!

ParsnipSoup · 06/05/2016 09:46

Happy due date ODog!

Pearly your birth story is lovely. I'm glad things went better than last time.

Cant definitely worth calling the midwives. Sounds like something is happening, but it must have been frustrating when the contractions got weaker. Maybe you're one of those people who mentions having mild contractions but is 10cm dilated when they get to the hospital?

Pikz good luck, I hope you get the VBAC you want.

My growth scan is this evening. Making time pass quicker by going for a really posh lunch with a friend.

ODog · 06/05/2016 11:14

Posh lunching sounds fab parsnip. I'm having a picnic in the park with the nct crew, not quite the same but will be nice none the less.

Thanks for the due date greetings. I'm actually having a catastrophe of a day. Running late for rhyme time, car park full up, tried the slightly further away one and one of the ticket machines not working, massive queue at the other one, Rush toddler through town and get there just in time. Just starting to relax and enjoy DS getting into the singing when he sits on my lap and wets through his nappy all over him and me. No change of clothes -obviously! DS finishes rhyme time in a Tshirt and a nappy and I sit there with a wet patch on my dress. Not going to lie, I have so few summery clothes that fit that I wiped it with a baby wipe and sprayed perfume on it and I'm staying in it all day!

Luckily he fell asleep on the way home so hopefully that's all my bad luck done for the day! Turns out being covered in urine is a theme for this week. Grin

GrouchyKiwi · 06/05/2016 12:09

Lovely birth story, Pearly. Thank you for sharing it.

Hope your appointment went well, Pikz.

Have you called the hospital today, cant? It does sound like things are happening, albeit slowly.

Happy due date, ODog!

Am very envious of your posh lunch, Parsnip. Will maybe try to sneak one in when my Mum is here. What time is your scan this afternoon?

MW came around this morning to check all of the home birth paraphernalia and do a check up. Everything is back to normal - good bump size, blood pressure perfect, nothing in urine - so I'm feeling very happy. The MWs go on call for my home birth on Sunday so just have to get through two more days - not a problem as nothing is happening apart from the usual BHs.

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GrouchyKiwi · 06/05/2016 12:10

Hope your day gets better, ODog.

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