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kittyvet · 21/01/2016 07:38

Wow! First here. Well actually mine #2 is due 30th Sept by dates but as DD was 10d late I guess Oct is the place to be. I was in Oct 14 so Oct 16 seems to be the right place to be. Anyone else?

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missybct · 27/01/2016 14:10

Ah see that's perfectly understanding love Grin - you've got an existing relationship with your GP re: TTC and now you have a bun in the oven it makes sense to speak to her about it.

I'm still half and half about it, I've ironically got 5 days off around the time that my 8 week appointment would be (booked off before I got BFP) so hoping I'll pull my finger out and stop being fearful and book before they get taken up.

How are we doing for symptoms? I'm SO moody today. I've already had a bit of a tiff with OH (not good as we work together) and just feeling generally very crabby.

ILoveYouBaby · 27/01/2016 16:18

Symptoms have totally kicked in today. Feeling super tired, I almost napped when my daughter did. And my hunger, bottomless! I'm embracing them as good signs...but I may not be so happy next week when the tiredness and hunger turn into exhaustion and sickness. I have a lon commute to work (1h45 train journey each way), so the sickness there is much worse than at work. Large sandwich/freezer bags are v useful!

missybct it's worth making the gp visit. You get to apply for the maternity card which gives you free prescriptions etc. Plus If anything does happen, your gp already knows you're pregnant.

Having said that, I've no plans to go just yet Blush but I'm a fourth timer so super chilled!

leoniethelioness · 27/01/2016 18:03

I have a desk job so I think 16 weeks is probably doable. I've just missed a call from the midwife to arrange my booking in appointment so I'm going to give her a ring when I'm home from work (fortunately soon!) to sort everything out. I'm five weeks today - a little peppercorn!

Your commute sounds grim, Baby!

leoniethelioness · 27/01/2016 18:04

Just to say my surgery didn't do a GP appointment - filled in a form and straight to the midwife!

SimileMilly · 27/01/2016 19:08

I have my booking in app next Tuesday. They like you to do it ASAP here and after previous miscarriage it was useful to have all the details already registered.

Sympathies to those with long commutes. When I was pg with DD I had a 2.5hr drive - it's now 20 mins on a bad day!

Convinced myself I had light pink discharge today but not fully convinced. I hate the waiting game of the early days.

missybct · 27/01/2016 19:23

I hate it too Milly - I'm a first timer and I've been very lucky to have no miscarriages before, but I can't seem to shake this feeling of anxiety. It doesn't really feel real yet, I keep looking at my tests to truly believe it happened! I hope the pink discharge turns out to be nothing - it can be common to see that if it helps. Flowers

iloveyou - that's a very good point. I'll ring them tomorrow.

I've still not really got any symptoms - a bit of cramping, nausea last week but none now and my boobs aren't that sore (either that or I've gotten used to it). My hyper sense of smell has gone too, but I have a horrible cold so that may vouch for that. I am annoyingly stuck to Google checking that what I feel (or don't feel) is normal Hmm.

TMI alert coming up - but have any of you DTD with your OH's since conceiving/finding out? It's been hurting a bit, plus I feel uncomfortable down below - almost like a UTI that isn't quite there? I know it's common and I know I need to relax....gahhh!

melonribena · 27/01/2016 21:22

You have inspired me to ring up about my booking in appt. wasn't sure if it was too early but will ring and find out!

I've only got a stress free ten minute drive to work and I'm part time anyway after having ds 3.5 years ago so I know I'm lucky.

Lightheadedness has gone today but feeling very nauseous one minute and starving the next!

CatsCantFlyFast · 27/01/2016 23:13

Missy the discomfort is possibly to do with your cervix - it's pretty swollen and sensitive during pregnancy

I really feel for those of you with long commutes - I remember all too clearly having to leap off the bus to puke into a bag! (Top tip - I carried wipes/mouthwash and sick bags everywhere as the sickness can come on fast and unexpectedly when it starts)

Ladycrazycat · 28/01/2016 04:54

Morning everyone, Has anyone else got pregnancy insomnia? I managed to sleep from about 10.30 until 3.30. Usually I would lie ther for a couple of hours before going back to sleep but I decided to give up and get up.

Leonie I know exactly what you mean about being deceptive. I also keep forgetting that everyone doesn't know my trail of thoughts about pregnancy so I start to say something, for example 'we are really looking forward to moving because we need more space and it'll be great to be nearer to our families for the baby...' then having to change what I'm saying half way through. It's tough!

simile Glad it went well telling your boss. I'm thinking of telling mine today actually but I'm not 100% sure.

missy I have booked in for Monday. I'm going to be moving to a different area soon which is going to make things a bit more complicated. I reckon it'll be around the time of my 12 week scan so I'm hoping I can have that in my current area (I'll still be working nearish to the hospital) and then register with a new GP and transfer my maternity care after. To those who have done it before, does that sound workable? I am worried that if I say, move at 11 weeks and my scan is booked for week 13, then by the time I get registered in my new area I may be much later before I get my scan. I sort of need to see it to believe it still as well as I still can't believe this is happening!

Would I be able to self refer to the midwifery team in the area I'm moving to or would that be silly? It's about 1 hour from my current home and I'm not sure which hospital I would want to give birth in. There would be a choice of two about half an hour from each other and I think I'll be living pretty much midway between the two.

I've been waiting on a referral for something else and it has finally come through for Tuesday morning at 9am, when my first GP appointment is Monday evening. My boss is lovely and a friend too but it seems odd that I'm having two appointments so close together so I wonder if I should just tell her. She will be surprised as I had no idea I was pregnant last Friday and was out with work for a leaving do. I only had a couple of drinks luckily. It feels too early and like I'm somehow cursing myself by telling someone at work but I just wonder if it'll be better given the close proximity of doctors appointments!

I'm hoping that I might avoid morning sickness. if my mother is anything to go by though I'm not so sure - she said she had awful morning sickness with my brother (her first) but thinks she was ok with my sister and I.

Re symptoms, the sore boobs have totally died down, cramping is more intermittent, I'm suffering awful insomnia (hence this post at almost 5am!) and am not particularly hungry but still feel the urge to eat everything (I know that sounds strange).

Ladycrazycat · 28/01/2016 05:06

missy I feel exactly the same - I don't believe it yet and I'm really worried about something going wrong. I feel strangely protective over my 'bump' as well which obviously isn't a bump yet - just bloating!

For those who have had children before, if you don't mind me asking, how long did you take off work? I would like to stop work in the last week of Sept and come back in the first week of July but it may be a struggle money wise as I earn more than my DH at the moment.

CatsCantFlyFast · 28/01/2016 06:20

Crazycat I've got the 3-5am insomnia here

I'd personally self refer to the midwives in your new area rather than complete booking in your existing area. If you ring to explain this should be fine. I had to transfer care to a different area during my last pregnancy due to a house move and they insist on starting you a brand new set of notes and re taking all of your bloods - a complete pain. There is a cut off date for the scan I think so I'd call your new area midwives and get their advice. You won't need to choose where you give birth until quite a bit later in pregnancy

I can't comment on how long to have off - I never went back after DD1.

Ladycrazycat · 28/01/2016 06:50

thanks Merkin. I'll self refer today in that case.

Oh dear, I expect the insomnia must be even worse when you already have a DC to take care of. Hope it calms down soon and you get a good night's sleep!

kittyvet · 28/01/2016 07:29

I have self referred to the home birth midwives and booking in is 8th Feb. crazycat I second booking in at new hospital. Have a look at Which Birth Choices online as it explains different options and what's available in your area. For example you might choose a hospital with an alongside midwife unit over one with just a labour ward/obstetric unit.
I stopped work at 34 weeks last time but I have a hard physical job and I was bored at home after. I plan to stop about the same time this time. I planned to take just 6mths off as I am self employed but as my daughter was EBF and I just loved every minute of it I extended it by 3 months. Even when I went back at 9mths it was a struggle with expressing and feeding on top of working. This time I hope to take the full 12 months, not least do I can make it up to my DD and be home with her too.
Insomnia here too! Not helped by fact still feeding a few times a night too!

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CatsCantFlyFast · 28/01/2016 08:55

I think the insomnia went away for a while before returning nastily in the third tri. At the moment it's coinciding with my daughter sleeping soundly (something that never happens at home - we are on holiday) so it's not terrible but once we are back at the weekend I might be weeping dramatically into a pillow.

Dino - I don't think I saw an update. If it's bad news I'm very sorry and hope you are coping as well as you can do

missybct · 28/01/2016 10:22

Thanks Merkin - the discomfort has eased, I think I just wasn't 'ready' enough if you see what I mean!

Lady - ahh, I get insomnia at the best of times; I'm a terrible sleeper. Didn't help that I was falling asleep too early and waking around 4am, but even going to bed at 11pm last night didn't stop the wakefulness around 4am Confused. I can't really advise on the midwife/booking in/moving scenario - this is totally new territory for me so I'm taking everyone else's advice!

Still not feeling hugely symptomatic, although this bloody cold can go and do one! I'm also stupidly constipated, which I know is totally natural and I have lazy bowels anyway.

I booked in this morning anyway - bit the bullet, me and OH had a chat in the car into work this morning where he expressed he was nervous too about the early days thing, and also that we need to stop talking so clinically/realistically and both try to relax. The fact OH is having another child is a miracle in itself (he found parenthood with his ex and son 6 years ago very very hard and traumatic for certain reasons). We've been a bit tetchy with each other the last few days after a week of excitement, probably because we keep nervously trying not to think too far into the future. We're too bloody similar sometimes Grin

missybct · 28/01/2016 10:23

Also, wishing us all peaceful sleeps tonight!
Dino - I hope you are as well as can be x

LotsaTuddles · 28/01/2016 13:10

Ooh me too. Got my bfp (well more big faint positive) yesterday.

Going on dates, I'm due 5th October.

Have DS 1 (September 2013) and DD 1 (December 2014)

Must be mad Grin

isthatpoisontoo · 28/01/2016 13:34

Hello, Tuddles.

How is everyone feeling today? By the sounds of it several are feeling tired!

I'm wondering if any of you are managing exercise? I felt a bit less green this morning and tried my usual work out (well, a third of it, as it turned out). Now I feel very green indeed. Yesterday evening I felt faint after twenty minutes of a wander outside to get some fresh air. Does anyone who is on their second/third/etc know how long this sort of thing lasts?

LotsaTuddles · 28/01/2016 13:39

I'm feeling sick a lot and dizzy/light headed too. Makes looking after 2 toddlers fun Confused

For me the light headed lasts for most of pregnancy and post birth, but I have low bp and vertigo

missybct · 28/01/2016 13:52

I'm with Tuddles (congratulations and welcome btw!) - I have low BP and often feel a bit lightheaded anyway - I suppose that if anything is the most regular symptom. It's not super bad, just waves.

isthatpoisontoo - I haven't done much yet, mainly because I feel like utter shite with this cold. I do road cycling, but it can be high impact so want to swap for swimming (OH's suggestion) except we've had this lurgy and don't really fancy a swimming pool atm!

LotsaTuddles · 28/01/2016 13:57

No exercise here apart from walking the dog. I'm far too lazy busy Grin

kittyvet · 28/01/2016 14:02

Welcome tuddles!
With my DD I felt exhausted and sick between about 8 and 18wks. I mean I had an afternoon nap most days and still went to bed at 7! Doubt I will be allowed to do that this time! Don't be too hard on yourselves and take it easy!

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LotsaTuddles · 28/01/2016 14:04

Grin with my first I was still working, so I couldn't nap (I snuck a few in a cupboard though Shock). With my second my first was 6 months when I fell pregnant so he still napped, thankfully, this time, he's slowly dropping his nap and I have too much to do to nap properly Sad

LotsaTuddles · 28/01/2016 14:07

Oh and this is my faint bfp (my 4th Blush).

I keep peeing on sticks Blush just did a clear blue plus that was negative Hmm I'm pretty sure it's just because I pee every 3 minutes and I think I must have ovulated late.

Just ordering more from amazonGrin

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missybct · 28/01/2016 15:03

Clear Blue are notorious for being less sensitive - if you're catching faint's on more sensitive ones you're not likely to get much on CB in my experience. Plus if you're peeing every half hour your urine won't be very concentrated Grin

Can you get any FRER's?

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