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July 2016 (2)

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EllieJayJay · 15/11/2015 09:20

Still have a few pages left to go on the original thread, but in case we got chatting created this one a few pages early xx

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Ellizardo · 24/11/2015 19:58

Missclark - I totally understand how you feel. You're going through such a momentous time and your life will never be the same again. It's natural to miss your old, relatively responsibility-free life with just the 2 of you, Sunday lie-ins, spontaneous fun etc. frankly the future is a massive question mark, so different from the familiarity of the past...PLUS you've got 9 months of often v boring and uncomfortable waiting ahead! Woohoo!

Luckily, it's all totally worth it. So I hope the 'down' is just you adjusting and to be honest I don't think you ever really believe it!

Ellizardo · 24/11/2015 20:12

Oh Ellie. In tears. I'm devastated for you. Take comfort in your partner and your love for each other and your little one. You'll be back. Lots of love. Xx

Vickie360 · 24/11/2015 20:15

So sorry Ellie it must have been heartbreaking for you xx

redstrawberries101 · 24/11/2015 20:36

I'm so very sad to hear of all the losses and am trying to take every day as it comes and have no expectations. It's so hard to relax isn't it. Really feel for you all x thank you for being such fantastic support X

VulvaVoom · 24/11/2015 20:41

Sorry for your loss Ellie Flowers

Cookiesandcoffee · 24/11/2015 20:41

Oh ellie I'm a totally devastated for you. So tragic And such a shock too. ThanksWe will miss you on the thread for sure. You will definitely leave a hole. I hope the burial helps you to grieve and you can eventually move forward to ttc again. Wishing you every success in the future and honestly if you do conceive again please try and find us and pop by to share the good news. Lots of love xx

gnat99 · 24/11/2015 20:46

Oh no, Ellie, I am so, so, so sorry this has happened to you. How absolutely awful and sad. And it seems so extra unfair because you were our cheerleader the whole way through almost 80 pages of chat and support. We will really miss your good cheer and fun, and your kindness. I really hope being able to bury your baby will help you recover from this awful experience.

I had just said to DH before reading the chat updates that I must really try to stop constantly worrying about mc, and to be positive unless proved otherwise. But it's such a challenge to do that when we hear such sad stories from new friends and companions on the journey Sad

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Gx91 · 24/11/2015 21:17

Ellie my heart is breaking , so sorry to hear about what uv had to go thru Sad I hope u find piece in getting a proper sent off for ur little one , you we soul ( hugs) hope u have a good support network and get all the rest and grieving time u need , lots of love and luck to u for the future Flowers will miss u on here xx

wantingno2 · 24/11/2015 21:26

So sorry to hear your news ellie there's been so much sad news this week really hope everyone is ok. I got my blood results back today doctor just said it was within normal range but didn't tell me the actual level they've messed up all my appointments they've booked me for antenatal care at 2 different places and still not had my appointment for my scan but the doctor said he would chase it up so hoping to hear from them tomorrow I'm so on edge today feel really moody and been having bad waves of nausea today.
6+0 today x

Bluebell20 · 24/11/2015 21:32

Wanting, is it the 12 week scan appointment you're waiting for? Because I'm 8+3 and mine still hasn't come through!

Gx91 · 24/11/2015 21:36

Wantintono - sorry ur still feeling edgy about everything but glad ur blood work has come bk normal , nausea seems to b a gd sign !
I'm 6 weeks today too and no nausea yet still feeling normal , Iv still 2 wks til booking app wish it would hurry up as feel like it's not real at the moment .
Has been such a sad thread this week feel terrible for all those being burdened with grief at this stage Sad life can b horrible to us ! X

wantingno2 · 24/11/2015 21:48

I'm waiting for an early scan and my booking app is on the 3rd of December wish it would just hurry up I'm glad my blood came back normal but I wish they would of told me level x

Cookiesandcoffee · 24/11/2015 21:52

I literally can't think of anything else since I read your post. So sad.
Upon wiping just now there was definitely a pink tinge. I've had it in previous pregnancies but I feel more anxious than ever following all this sad news. Sad

Somnambulator · 24/11/2015 21:58

My heart goes out to the ladies that have had such sad losses this week. As a newbie to the forum I have not had the opportunity to talk to many of you yet but can see what an influence you have all been in shaping this group.

redstrawberries101 · 24/11/2015 22:08

Group hug X

gnat99 · 24/11/2015 22:35

Joining in the group hug x

Cheery1 · 24/11/2015 22:37

Me too xxxx

Vickie360 · 24/11/2015 22:38

Me to xxxx

Jo6526 · 24/11/2015 22:39

Elliejayjay i am so sorry to hear what's happened! Can't shine what you went through yesterday. Take care xxxx

It really does show how fragile this time is!

Jem01 · 24/11/2015 22:57

Me too. Just catching up on the thread now, Ellie I'm so sorry to hear about this and for your loss. Xx

Hamsolo · 24/11/2015 23:16

It is heart breaking. Take care of yourself Ellie Flowers

Gx91 · 25/11/2015 07:35

Morning ladies , how r we all today?

DD had me up most of the night with bad dreams I think so was in with me , I'm so tired this morning and can't b arsed but loads to do and ppl to meet , think Iv over booked myself this week so mad at myself now X
Iv decided next week will b very lazy ! X

Ellizardo · 25/11/2015 08:00

Think we're moving over to Thread 3