July 2016 (2)

[EllieJayJay]

Still have a few pages left to go on the original thread, but in case we got chatting created this one a few pages early xx

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/2515542-Funny-Embarrassing-first-trimester-stories

Just for fun xc

Aww missclark it's probably hormones, try to enjoy this stage as much as u can. Was baby planned or a happy surprise? We were ttc for 3 months and well prepared but I'm still feeling disproportionately unhappy that I can't just have a bottle of beer when I want, there's beers in the fridge and they're actually making me angry (wouldn't have even had one on a weekday before) I know it's not the sake thing but shows that hormones can really affect your mood xx

aahh missclarke that is sad, especially with what you said about the other day about your DP's reaction to the news. It sounds like his reaction is making you feel blue about it.

i think you need to spend as much time together doing stuff you normally do and making sure you're having a good time together. all the stuff you won't be able to do as much when the baby comes - go to the cinema, out for meals and other things out together (what you normally do). its hard when most of the stuff you used to do includes alcohol (like it did with me and my DP) but not impossible.

in some ways, the fact that its having such an effect on your DP means he's taking it very seriously and realises what's coming up rather than being in denial. some dads can be like this and then go into a depression when the baby arrives because it hits them so hard (i have a close friend this happened to so i saw it first hand)

Hi Ladies,

Sadly my journey with you has to come to an end, I had an awful day yesterday. I'm sorry to put a sad spin on the conversation but didn't want to just disappear without saying goodbye X

I sadly lost my baby yesterday after an awful ten hours. I am at least able to say goodbye to my baby after they have run some tests on the little thing and will be able to bury my baby in a week or so.

The nurses on my EPU were simply amazing I would never have been able to make it through yesterday without their kindness and love and neither could have my dear dear partner.

I wanted to wish you all lots of love and hope xx I also hope that no one else has to experience this as it is the most awful and devastating thing I've ever experienced xx so very lost xx

Take care everyone X

lucybear I booked mine with ultrasound direct on fenchurch street. There are also a couple on Harley Street friends have used as well. They are all around the £99 mark

Ellie I'm so so sorry to see this. I was wondering why you hadn't posted in a while. You poor thing. I'm really shocked ,you didn't have any signs that anything was wrong did you? Try to rest as much as is possible. I really hope you and your DH can find comfort with one another at this difficult time.

So much bad news on here at the moment

Sorry to hear your sad news Ellie, and also that you are having to undergo tests. I hope you are being looked after x

So sorry to hear that Ellie I'm glad the nurses took such good care of you. Hoping you and your husband/partner have real life support as well as each other. So sad xx

Thank Beautician I did not have a single sign, all of a sudden I developed cramping which was more painful than it had been and suddenly I had bright red blood and clots, I was taken to hospital as my GP was sure I had an eptopic because I went downhill so quickly - I was giddy and sick and unable to stand I went from chatting on here to an hour later being in an ambulance. My HCG levels were 100,000 and then just a few hours later my baby was in my hand, it really was the most awful experience and today I've just cried and cried. But I am glad to have the option to burry my baby, even though my baby was so small this for me will help me find some peace - I guess God forbid if anyone else goes through this, hopefully someone else can benefit from knowing this - as I don't think I would have ever considered this.

I just hope everyone else on here makes it through this and in seven months is holding and loving a beautiful baby xx and I hope I will be shortly behind you X

Oh Ellie that is so, so sad. Take care of yourself xx

I'm really sorry for your loss. It must have been horrendous. Thinking of you

Oh Ellie, I'm so awfully sorry. What a terrible thing to happen - I can't even imagine how distressing it must be for you. I am so glad that you will have the comfort of burying your little baby.

I wish you absolutely every bit of luck for the future. xxx

Oh Ellie, my heart breaks for you. Look after yourself.

Ellie what a shocking and awful thing to experience. I hope that being able to have a burial will give you some comfort. I hope that we see you on the boards again soon. Wishing you a very boring 9 months next time & a super sticky bean. Xx

Voom - you seem amazingly strong about something so traumatic. So sorry that you've had to go through such a tough time. Wishing you much love and luck for the future xxx

Oh Ellie I'm so so sorry. That sounds absolutely awful.

Oh Elliejayjay I can't believe it, I'm so sorry. I was wondering where you were and then saw your post. So very sorry for your loss. Good to hear that you had great care from the epu and that your DP was with you and taking care of you too. We are all thinking of you

Ellie - I am so, so sorry to hear your news, absolutely heartbroken for you. Hope you're being looked after and have time to grieve. Much love to you and wishing you all luck for the future xxx

Ellie and Voom very sorry to hear your sad news - all the very best x

Ellie I'm so sorry to hear what you have been through it sounds very traumatic. You have offered lots of support to us on this thread and so will be missed greatly. Wishing you lots of luck for the future when you decide to try again

ellie I am so sorry for what you went through, but being able to bury your baby is a good thing and I'm sure will help you through this. I hope you get all the help and support you need xx

Link to the new thread in case we run out of space at page 40. Hope I've done it right as its a first attempt and don't want to lose you lovely ladies

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/2515596-July-2016-3?watched=1

ellie I'm so shocked to see this, and I'm so sorry to hear what you've been through. I had noticed you hadn't been here for the last couple of days. You brought a lot of funny chat to the thread and you will leave a hole. But that is nothing compared to what you've just been through and its good you've got such good support IRL.

You seem like the kind of person who throws yourself wholeheartedly into what you do. You seemed to with this pregnancy anyway. Which means at some point in the future when you can I'm sure you'll throw yourself into getting pregnant again. And I wish you all the best in getting to that time.

Xxx

ellie I'm so shocked to see this, and I'm so sorry to hear what you've been through. I had noticed you hadn't been here for the last couple of days. You brought a lot of funny chat to the thread and you will leave a hole. But that is nothing compared to what you've just been through and its good you've got such good support IRL.

You seem like the kind of person who throws yourself wholeheartedly into what you do. You seemed to with this pregnancy anyway. Which means at some point in the future when you can I'm sure you'll throw yourself into getting pregnant again. And I wish you all the best in getting to that time.

Xxx

So sorry to hear your news Ellie no words can really describe. Wishing you all the best in the future xx