sauv I read that there's a higher risk of SIDS with a 2nd hand mattress. I'm not clear how 'second hand' that would be, though, as no one ever puts all the citations in for these things! Having dealt with dust mite allergies, a surprising amount of crap can live in a mattress, and lots of people bung all the baby stuff in the loft/garage so I'm not all that suprised.
My understanding is that this applies to long sleeps - overnight rather than a half hour nap - so you could reuse the 'old' one as a safe, soft play space somewhere in the house?
Feeling useless & sorry for myself today. Had a scare last week which meant that instead of going to a wedding + a couple weeks on a beach, I spent £500 rebooking flights to dash out for a long weekend for the wedding only. Am now back watching the rain and have picked up a horrible cold somewhere along the way. Glad that it was just a scare, of course, but still moping. Wish I still had an office job so I could call in sick, rather than being self-employed where I can't!
Out of curiousity, does your bump feel hard? I'd read that somewhere (probably as a teenager in one of those dreadfully inaccurate yet formative books, e.g. Mills & Boon) but mine really doesn't. Bean is clearly fine & doing flips but mostly just feels like flab & can't tell where she is.