mum2kiss - be afraid then. While talking about the doula thing last night, boyfriend said that he wouldn't want to take the word of a doula over a doctor if I was unconscious and unable to make decisions for myself.
a) you haven't quite cottoned on to what a doula is for,
b) I wonder how many women he thinks are unconscious while giving birth, I wasn't planning on it!
c) this is why we I need a doula!