Wow, this thread moves fast! waves to all the new people (excited to see that lots have a similar due date of the 17th to me!)
It's so easy to worry... I'm veering constantly between being ridiculously excited to feeling pessimistic about future career to assuming I'm about to lose the baby because it just happened so quickly that surely it can't stick around, to getting random hormonal rage at DH for not buying bread... (seriously, it's like the worst PMT I have had in my life, and I've had fairly extreme PMT!). Good to know others are going through similar and I'm not just on my own little weird hormonal preggo island.
FiveLeaves and PigsInParis, I'm in a very similar boat - I'm a freelance contractor, and my next contract runs out at the end of March. I've calculated that (because I did a MA in the last 12 months and therefore didn't work very much) I need at least one more week of work to qualify for maternity allowance, so I hope I can get another contract lined up before having to go public... so much sympathies from me!
On the positive side, I'm hoping freelancing will at least give me a bit of flexibility as to when and how I go back to work. It all seems so far in the future right now... can't quite imagine it...
I am still slightly spotting, but it's very very light brown. Am trying not to worry as I guess if it does mean the worst, there's nothing much I can do about it - and I know that many people have said upthread that it's very common in early pregnancy for spotting to happen and it mean nothing untoward - thanks for the reassurance! I did yet another test yesterday morning and it got a lot darker, a lot quicker than previous ones, so I hope that's a good sign that my hormones are doing what they should be! (no idea if there's any actual science behind that, but I found it comforting!)
Sorry - that was a bit of a long post! TLDR: sympathies to all worriers, hang on in there!