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shanelle5 · 18/06/2012 23:07

Little, there are no adequate words but (((((((( HUGS)))))))))) an prayers to you and your DH. xxx

daisychain76 · 18/06/2012 23:07

Such sad news little9, take care x

DesperateHousewife21 · 19/06/2012 06:55

little I'm so sorry to hear that, I can't imagine what you've been through. Please take care of yourself (((hugs)))

Thechick · 19/06/2012 07:05

little I am so sorry to hear your news. Your positive attitude is amazing. Please do take good care of yourself. xx

georgee · 19/06/2012 07:08

Oh little9, how very sad. Am so sorry and am thinking of you. Take care. xx

PetiteRaleuse · 19/06/2012 07:42

It somehow didn't feel right to write this yesterday but yesterday morning I had my scan and ti was confirmed that I'm expecting DD2. I had started feeling her move around about two weeks before and felt her regularly for about a week. And then nothing for days on end, so by the time yesterday came round I was very worried but she was fine. Dr can't understand how I wasn't able to feel her - maybe she's kicking on scar tissue?

Have a week off work this week and feeling the urge to nest - de-clutter, clean etc. This urge only happens during pregnancy and since this is the last baby I had better make the most of it.

My next scan, and that horrible sugar test thing, will be in August. Would usually be before but my Dr is going on holiday the selfish lucky man.

ShellyBobbs · 19/06/2012 08:06

Oh Little so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

eversomuch · 19/06/2012 08:10

So very sorry to hear your news, Little9. Am very moved and impressed by your positive attitude, despite such a devastating loss, and I hope you are indeed back soon. Thinking of you.

eversomuch · 19/06/2012 08:12

Congratulations on another girl, Petite. Great news. Enjoy your week off nesting!

SwissArmyWife · 19/06/2012 08:13

little I am so sorry for what you've been through. Sleep well little Daisy x x x
I wish you all the best for the future and of course will keep an eye out for any good news you may have. Biggest of hugs to you x

stabiliser15 · 19/06/2012 09:26

little9, so sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you and your family.

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StuntNun · 19/06/2012 09:35

Little9 so sorry to hear your sad news about your baby. Please look after yourself and get support. Mumsnet is great for that as so many of us have had losses and know what you're going through. I hope you will feel able to keep an eye on us even though it will make you sad I think it helps to cope with your loss. I think a miscarriage has the same effect as losing a child, you will always carry thoughts of your Daisy in your heart. Good luck to you in these next few difficult weeks.

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ditsygem · 19/06/2012 10:09

So sorry Little9 that is heartbreaking news. Know that we are all thinking of you. xxx

LittleLolly · 19/06/2012 10:23

So sorry little. I can't imagine how you must feel. Daisy is a beautiful name for your little girl. Take care of yourself xxxx

misslaughalot · 19/06/2012 11:25

Gosh little I don't know what to say. Your optimism is amazing. I wish you and your family all the best for the future, looking forward to seeing your name on future threads with good news before too long x

Iheartpasties · 19/06/2012 12:02

sad news little9 (((hugs)))

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TheDetective · 19/06/2012 14:32

Oh Little I am so sorry to hear such awful news. You are so brave to come back here and talk about your beautiful daughter, Daisy, with us.

It is just heartbreaking to hear, I can not imagine what you and your husband must be going through. You are a strong woman.

Wishing you the very best for your future, and please do keep coming back to share any future news you have, or just for support. And I second what Stunt said about MN, there are boards which will give you the space to talk about what you need to, and provide you with much needed support.

Detective x

DonnaDoon · 19/06/2012 14:39

Little I am so sorry for you and your husband...sending lots of love and thoughts to you and beautiful baby Daisy x

ValiumQueen · 19/06/2012 15:14

Scan went well. All seems fine. Baby was awkward with positioning so took some time. I did ask if she had an opinion on colour schemes but she said she was not allowed to say. Will book gender scan for next few weeks.

applepieinthesky · 19/06/2012 15:31

Congrats petite and glad your scan went well valium. My trust does tell you the gender but I have known two people recently that have had babies and they haven't been able to tell them because of baby's position.

I asked DP if we would wait until November if they can't tell us but he said no, we will book a private scan. We just want a healthy baby but think it's much more practical to know if it's a girl or boy. Also I hate saying 'it' all the time. I want to know if it's a he or she.

shanelle5 · 19/06/2012 15:38

Im very excited for my scan tomorrow, though after such sad news here esterday, it feels wrong to say so. Still thinking of little.....
Really hoping to find out the gender, keep reminding myself its not the sole purpose of the scan and that I get to see that bub is healthy above all else but with 4 children already all of the same sex, its hard to think about much else!

ValiumQueen · 19/06/2012 16:28

I feel the same too Shanelle, about Little. I think we will hold our little ones that bit more closer because of such losses. I have a RL friend who was due at the same time as me, and she lost her little one at 10 weeks. When I had my bleed at 18 weeks I naturally feared the worse, and that was so upsetting. Prayers for all our little ones, but especially for Little9 , her husband, and dear little Daisy x

I need to know the gender too, so if it is another girl I can grieve the son I will never have. I can imagine the feelings are even stronger with 4 already. Perhaps you will have a few more babies, but I know this is my last. My finger is poised to book a scan for Sunday...

DesperateHousewife21 · 19/06/2012 16:29

Congrats on the scan valium :)

apple I still say 'it' even though I know its a girl! It seems so strange saying 'her' though as we have ds Im so used to saying 'him'!

applepieinthesky · 19/06/2012 16:45

My mum had recurrent miscarriages after she had me hence why there is a gap of 8 years between me and my brother. So I never take it for granted that everything will be ok. I?ve always said I won?t completely believe it until I hold my baby in my arms. At the moment I see every week as a milestone.