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TTC a 2012 baby - THE GRADUATES!! Pt 2

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ghosteditor · 03/01/2012 22:17

Here's the new thread ladies!!!

May this one bring some BABIES!!!

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Carlitawantsababy · 25/01/2012 13:02

Wow davina! 45 days left, how exciting! Bet you're exhausted, it's very tiring this baby growing business and lugging them round all day, my last day of work is tomorrow Grin (except one day delivering training on 1st Feb) can't believe it is here already (obvs very early as supposed to be moving..Shock < also a yawn)
bun I'm so glad Lilly slept a little more last night and the snuggles sound lovely! Only 5% loss for an EBF baby is very impressive! Well done you! Grin
I've started to get SPD pains (front of pelvis, pubic bone) this week) baby's head is right in there (thanks boy, a little earlier than required really) I'm having to walk like my thighs are glued together and it's constantly sore (but not too painful) I can deal with it at this level but am nervous of it getting worse, I'm going to talk to my aqua natal instructor tonight and see what the verdict is as my thick ever helpful midwife could only manage that 'everyone gets that' Angry yes, great but considering my hypermobility and PGP history what is the likelihood of this getting worse, can I control it in the same way as my PGP or do I need to do extra? Is it an inevitable decline? Thank goodness I have my aqua natal class...Smile

MammaInTheMaking · 25/01/2012 13:35

fingers crossed for your aqua natal class Carlita, would just be good to get some advice on what's what and whether you can do anything about it. Do you have a completion/moving date?

Good luck with Lilly's scan tomrrow Bun, it sounds like they're being very efficient and at least you'll start to get some answers.

My cantaloupe melon baby is VERY hyperactive today. It's moving constantly to the point of distraction! I keep having to get up from my desk and have a little walk around to office to try and settle it but no good. It's definitely on a mission in there today.

Toddle i was looking back through the old thread the other day and wondered where you had gone. Also has there been any sign of Batsinasnowglobe and Piggymad?

Goodness me, this baby is MOVING!!!!!!!!!!!

Carlitawantsababy · 25/01/2012 16:40

Thanks mamma! No, still no date Shock < yawn.
Grin at your baby! It'll probably carry on like that now just with 20-40 min breaks for sleep, I feel him almost all the time these days, it's just amazing! Grin

aBundanceOfTime · 25/01/2012 17:17

Woohoo for your last day Carlita! Sorry to hear your PGP is worse, mine went worse when DD moved down too but then eased off again when she turned back to back which was nice for my pelvis, not so much for my labour! Hmm Grin Hope you get good news tonight!

Grin at cantaloupe melon mamma
I don't know about bats or piggy either, would be lovely to hear how they're doing.

I put Lilly in the moby wrap earlier and can confirm that it is fabulous! Really easy to get her in and out and very comfortable, couldn't pin point any points of pressure. Will update review when I've worn it for longer for anyone interested Smile

MammaInTheMaking · 25/01/2012 17:47

The Moby wrap was the only one which had really appealed when I was researching Bun so a review would be good once you've had a bit more of a go with it. Was initially expecting to get a proper carrier type one but they cost a fortune and seem v bulky. I hope it keeps on getting the thumbs up from you.

Baby cantaloupe melon is going to become a new fruit/veg tomorrow. I wonder what it'll be! Grin

Carlitawantsababy · 25/01/2012 20:59

Mine's a head of lettuce currently, will have a new one on Saturday!
News from aqua natal not good, it's a different set of ligaments that have given up so will likely get worse again and will be another battle to stay off crutches. Feeling pretty Sad for myself and feel like I've been punched really hard in the fanjo

Kayzr · 25/01/2012 21:15

My baby became an exotic mango today Grin

It's also having a good wriggle about tonight. It feels like I have a foot or something sticking out of my stomach but I can't feel anything with my hands from the outside yet.

Hope everyone is ok! Smile

elliebug · 25/01/2012 21:35

Ear of corn checking in here Smile

MammaInTheMaking · 25/01/2012 22:07

Ear of corn!!!!!!! Absolutely love that one. I hope I get an ear of corn soon!!!! GrinGrinGrin

babybrain3 · 26/01/2012 06:59

I've got an orange seed.... Sorry about your pains carlita guess you'll just have to rest up! Smile

Carlitawantsababy · 26/01/2012 07:08

Thanks babybrain, i've been up since 4.30 with pelvic pain and leg cramps..indeed, I'm under strict instructions to do nothing but have to walk round to my sister's (2 normal walking minutes away) to use the wifi as we've had ours turned off in prep for the move and I dropped my work blackberry in the bath yesterday Sad so can't pick up my email otherwise..it's my last day today so really not wanting to call in sick! But will do all the stairs (toilet upstairs only Sad) at her house on my bum and at least I'll have lots of snuggles with my (8 week old today) nieces to cheer me up. Smile

babybrain3 · 26/01/2012 08:13

OOooh baby snuggles sounds fab!!

Carlitawantsababy · 26/01/2012 17:12

I'm now on maternity leave! Grin

MammaInTheMaking · 26/01/2012 19:41

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aBundanceOfTime · 26/01/2012 20:44

Gah sorry about the bad PGP news Carlita, here's hoping it doesn't kick of too badly for you Sad Hope today wasn't to much of a struggle too. and a big fat WOOHOO for the beginning of your mat leave!! Grin

Loving the foody babies Grin

Back from the children's hospital with good news, they're as sure as they can be without doing other scans (that would involve general anaesthetic) that it is an ovarian cyst and it appears to have shrunk since my last scan; so, they're happy to leave it as it is and just monitor how things go Grin No op!! Grin Grin Grin Grin

AND I braved my first public breastfeeding session today too! Have been very nervous about it as I'm a very private person when it comes to stuff like that - having H cups doesn't really go hand in hand with under the radar discretion either... Smile

Suffering after the piddly amount of walking I've done today though, still rather erm...interesting down there Hmm Grin

ghosteditor · 26/01/2012 20:55

Fab news on all counts bun (except the undercarriage bit Grin). Congrats to your DD!

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MammaInTheMaking · 27/01/2012 07:20

Yay for Lilly being ok and them not having to do any operations. The best possible outcome Grin what a relief!

Well banana baby is definitely a wriggler. I'm week 21 now and apparently it can hear all of our conversations. DP has a great image of it waking up and hearing us chatting, then having a perplexed look on its face and cupping it's hands to its ear to get a better listen. DP's been having chats with Blubes hoping it's listening. He's not caught a poke yet though, I hope he can feel them soon.

I'm off to my parent's this weekend to make nursery and lounge curtains with my mum Smile

Carlitawantsababy · 27/01/2012 07:45

GrinGrinGrinGrinGrinGrinGrinGrinGrinGrinGrin hooray for Lilly! That's amazing news bun! What an enormous relief that must be! How is your PGP since the birth (and during?) is it partly that that is causing you pain?
Wow mamma 21 weeks is great for banana baby to be so active! Ours still stops stock still whenever DH talks through the belly to him, we have very funny mental images of him being stunned and looking around for the public address system. Grin
I have 8 weeks to go today but Heidi won't give me a new fruit or vegetable until tomorrow! My first day of maternity leave and I'm up at this hour? Hmm

Davinaaddict · 27/01/2012 10:46

Morning ladies - sooooooo tired today and TGI Friday! Just on a boring teleconference. Trying to work through this years Operational Plan but it's like wading through treacle, and the baby brain really isn't helping! I'm so EnvyEnvyEnvyEnvy at you being on mat leave already Carlita

So pleased Lilly is doing well Bun and that she doesn't need to have an op. You must be so happy Grin Hope the walking gets easier for you. Well done you on the bf too - wow at the H cups though!!! I always said I'd never feed in public when I had DS, but that soon went out of the window Smile I'm not looking forward to it this time, as we struggled at the beginning. Fx it's a bit easier this time.

Sorry about the SDP Carlita. I seem to be starting with some of that when I'm walking (the punched in the fanjo feeling). It's less of a waddle and more like a shuffle, walking from the knees down Confused Not great news that there's nothing we can do to ease it off either Sad I love your public address system comment - I did nearly get orange juice everywhere when reading that!

Loving all the fruity/veggie babies! But I think ear of corn is my favourite so far Grin I should get another one tomorrow - hoping for a less prickly one than pineapple this time, as Disco Baby has been living upto it this week!

Lovely that you're both getting wiggles now Kayzr and Mamma. Did you get any further with deciding on your birth plan Kayzr? I've got my consultants app on the 9th Feb to do mine, but I'm a bit scared and keep changing my mind Confused I'm sure it will be fine though studiously ignores all the press about Amanda Holden Hmm

How are things with you ghost? How's little Jools getting on? Bear

babybrain3 · 27/01/2012 11:52

I'm extremely jealous of your maternity leave too carlita!! there's a long way for me to go before I can enjoy some time off... Although dd is off school today with tummy ache so am taking advantage of a day off to rest....(my mum could have had her really but why miss out on a day off eh?) Grin

Well done for the public bf too bun and the good result at the hosp-are you doing anything to celebrate?? Wink

I'm loving the image of the address system too mamma can't wait to get to that stage fx!

Looking forward to the new fruit and veg babies tomorrow-I have to wait until Wednesday :( Sad

Just a quick (probably stupid) question, is there any benefit in going straight to the doctors after getting a BFP? I got mine on Monday, but was thinking I might wait a couple of weeks, just in case, but DP is badgering me to go. My LMP was on 28th Dec, to I'm not technically a month yet, although the apps say 4+2..... thoughts please??? Confused

trope · 27/01/2012 12:46

well there's really no hope of me getting a proper catch up post written (aside from anything else it would make moby dick look like a short story!) I admit defeat!! But I shall do a semi catch up! I've been checking in daily, but have been too zonked out to post / update properly! Fuzzy has taken up residence where my stomach should be and consequently i've been up throughout the night retching/suffering with heartburn again, despite the super strong gaviscon! I was so bone weary last night that I cracked and slept sitting up last night - and feel about a million times better for finally having some rest! I really miss lying down flat in bed!!

Anyways!

Bun CONGRATULATIONS!!!! GrinGrinGrinGrinGrin That's quite a weight!! I love Elizabeth Rose - what a beautiful, classic name - just gorgeous! Fantastic news about the scan/no operation! You must be thrilled!! She's absolutely gorgeous (as is your DS btw - what a cutie!!) Do let me know when you're up for visitors - would love to come and meet Lilly! Grin

Ghost Congratulations on going home - that's wonderful! And happy belated birthday - sorry I missed it! It must be so lovely to be home with Juliet! Hope you are managing to get some sleep! :)

Davina Belated birthday wishes for your DS too! His ride on train set sounds amazing!!

Babybrain Woo!! Welcome back!!! GrinGrinGrin I have everything crossed for you!! October is a fantastic month to be born (can you guess when my birthday is? Wink) With regards to going to the GP - there's certainly no harm in going now. I don't know what the system is where you live, but I believe that some areas offer early scans to people who have had prior losses - for reassurance? No idea if that's an option (or something you'd want) but it might be worth asking about? The heartbeat can typically first be seen between about 6 and 9 weeks I think, so at 4+2 you've a little way to go, but it usually takes some time to get things organised and scans booked etc anyway.

toddle There you are!!! we've missed you! Grin Welcome back - how's everything going?

carlita :( about the SPD - that really sucks. Hope the newborn snuggles helped to take your mind off it! :) Any update on your house moving plans? Hurrah for starting your maternity leave - really not long to go now!! Grin

elliebug love the ear of corn! That's so cute!

Fuzzy goes nuts when DP gets home in the evening - loads of kicking and movement! He definitely knows his dad's voice!! He goes respectfully quiet when we watch west wing, but kicks all the way through mad men! I love the way he responds to us, can't wait to meet him! Am so impatient!! We had another scan on Monday - all looking good - abdominal circumference is up just above the 50th centile, which is great. You can really see the difference in him from scan to scan; he's so much chunkier looking with every fortnight that goes by! He's starting to look properly squished in there too (really triggers my claustrophobia - just have to remind myself that he's happy in there and not feeling trapped!!) He's been head down for a while, but he sometimes comes out of that position and turns sideways, which is unbelievably uncomfortable! He also likes to stick his bum out really hard to the right hand side of my belly button - really pushes it out!!! Is amazing how much you can feel him from the outside now - although sometimes I really can't work out what position he's in - I am starting to suspect he's actually an octopus in disguise - he seems to be everywhere at once sometimes!!

Had a super frustrating conversation with my obst about induction - am really anti being induced at 40 weeks for lots of reasons and she is really determined about it. Her reasoning is that there is no information available on the risks of going beyond 40 weeks with my health problems, as they always induce, so I should be induced. But I feel that the risks of induction (especially the massively increased risks of intervention or c-section) outweigh the completely unknown potential risk of not inducing; I want to be really closely monitored and go maybe a week overdue (which would actually only make me due by my dates anyway, as they moved me by a week at the 12 week scan). Think I'm going to have a battle on my hands come 40 weeks. :( DP is in complete agreement with me though, so we are united in what we want and they can't force us to induce so hopefully they will agree to increased monitoring and a more wait and see approach! In the meantime, we are researching what exactly DPs private health care will cover (they don't cover routine maternity care, but as i'm high risk they may cover some/all of my care - is decided on a case by case basis apparently) so that we hopefully have another option if things get really strained with the obst!

I also got sad news this week, my lovely rheumatologist is losing her battle to keep her general rheumatology patients - I am being transferred to the head of rheumatology for care from now on. She's still fighting it, but it doesn't look like she's going to win. Am gutted. Is such awful timing. She's the only person in the department with experience of pregnancy/my meds/my health problems - the rheumy head has experience managing lupus and pregnancy, so has some relevant knowledge, but it's really no comparison...

All in all it's not been a great week to be honest! But I got some sleep last night, the sun is shining, DP is working at home today, plus it's nearly the weekend - so i'm feeling pretty good! Roll on the weekend!!

(hmmm, that was rather epic in length, so much for a short catch up!!!)

aBundanceOfTime · 27/01/2012 13:34

Thanks everyone Smile but I forgot the best news of all from yesterday (Wink) I tried on my pre-pregnancy jeans and they fit! and I needed to wear a bump band to hold them up properly!! Grin Grin
...AND holy shit. That just led me to go and weigh myself - (I weighed myself when I was in labour as I wanted to see how much all the 'baby stuff' weighed - a not at all geeky experiment(!) and had put on 18lbs all pregnancy. Since having Elizabeth I've lost 26lbs! Shock that's a lot of baby stuff! I promise I've been sitting on my arse loads and no dieting has taken place! I'm half a stone lighter than when I first got pregnant! Crikey! Shock

Carlita PGP has buggered off thank god, though it was still playing up for the first couple of nights post birth, nowhere near as bad though. It didn't bother me once I got into established labour either. The pain now is just bruising, and the muscles that have stitches being strained.

Only 8 weeks to go! Exciting! It'll be here before we know it Grin

Davina I really struggled with breastfeeding DS too, never got the hang of it. It's gone so much more smoothly this time round just because I'm better informed about it all and knew what to expect. Hope it's easier for you this time round too!
Sorry to hear you suffering with walking too Sad

How're you getting on Trope?

Oooh! Just refreshed before posting, 'ello Trope! Grin Thanks very much Smile My mum (who is miraculously still alive btw Wink) is going home next week so once I've got something resembling order here I shall bake us a cake*! Grin

So sorry to hear you're having such a tough time at the moment. FWIW I couldn't agree more with yours and your DP's stance wrt induction at 40weeks. They can't make you do anything you don't want to. It might be worth an abrupt 'I will not be induced before XXweeks and I do not wish to discuss the matter any further'. It's certainly a stress you don't need. What a bloody shame about your rheumatologist! Sad Really hope it doesn't impact too much on your quality of care.

Fantastic that fuzzy is doing so well Smile You're making me miss being pregnant with all the lovely wriggles! Grin

Have a lovely weekend!

*disclaimer: there will almost definitely be nothing resembling order or cake.

Carlitawantsababy · 27/01/2012 14:48

Sorry davina, must seem particularly unfair as you're further along than me!
Can we be of any assistance with the birth plan dilemmas? Smile
babybrain the extra scan would be a bonus! My GP wasn't interested at all, the hospital take self referrals where I am so they jut took my BP and referred me. I saw talk of a dinner with your DP on Saturday and some talk of a proposal perhaps? and I desperately need more details as to why you think that, what's happened so far and what you're planning on wearing I'm intrigued!
Hooray trope good to hear from you at last! We've missed you! Glad to hear fuzzy is getting on so well but sorry to hear you're not sleeping! I totally agree with you on induction particularly as you won't even actually be late as your dates will be the right ones, not theirs. I've been putting an induction avoidance plan together in my head just cause I'm sure I'll go over but at 40 weeks is ridiculous. You know in France they regard full term as 37-42 weeks so wouldn't induct until 44 yet in the UK our placentas implode at 42+1? Must be our diet?Confused
bun! Shock my goodness woman, well done, whatever it is you've done! Here, have 8 packets of Biscuits!

babybrain3 · 27/01/2012 17:59

Hi carlita they did say I could have an early scan at 7 wks, sooo looking forward to that-DP welled up when we saw the last one...

I've been thinking DP might pop the question for a while- we did discuss it a while ago a both agreed we wanted to get married, since then I have been expecting him to get down on one knee at every opportunity... I guess he meant wanting to get married as in... At some point in the future, rather than... Right now I know you want to marry me I'm going to do it right away... Which I'm fine with!!! It's just funny trying to second guess him!!! Wink

So last week he asked me if I wanted to go out this weekend - which is usually unheard of as I usually have to ask him out! So I thought he may have an ulterior motive. It will probably turn out not the way i imagine though... Hehehe Grin I shall keep you all posted, but don't hold your breath!!! Wink

Carlitawantsababy · 27/01/2012 18:13

Ooh exciting! Grin