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December 2011: We've got big bumps and we cannot lie (down comfortably)

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LittleMissFlustered · 15/11/2011 20:36

:o

Shake those bumps ladies.

And squeeeeeeeze Wink

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bennybenbear · 27/11/2011 05:13

Morning all! What is this silly time on a Sunday?! There will be naps this afternoon.

Big congratulations mr and mrs cheep! glad to hear both mum and baby doing well.

hawthers · 27/11/2011 07:22

Sympathise with all parent and in law issues at the moment. It was my DM's birthday yesterday and parentals are staying 2 nights with us. Unfortunately that seems to mean me and DH catring and cleaning up after them although they did babysitter DS on Fri night while we went to an Nct class and they did take him to the park on sat am. However my DF is very untactful so ha been a bit of a pain in the star!

DMIL is.coming to say on Thursday did 4 nights and she has the same amount of tact so hopefully we'll escape without me crying too much!

OiMissus · 27/11/2011 08:06

Morning all, another baby!! Hurrah!! Congratulations to the cheeps!!!!
Sorry for those not sleeping. I was really sore and achey last night so had some painkillers at bedtime - they helped to knock me out eventually. But not before the tears! Sad
It's aquanatal this morning, Bennybenbear and I weren't supposed to be going this week as we were supposed to have had our babies. Maybe this week's labour inducing exercises will work. I really hope so!!

kri5ty · 27/11/2011 08:32

yayyy congrats cheep and Mr cheep! and thank you so much for letting us know!

bec, vanessa, what inducing exercises do they do? [Hmmm]
I'm with you... I'd love to go on a wslk to help baby drop... but even after 10 mins on a very go slow my pelvis and hips just hurt way too much... tried that position on the birth ball, but my boobs hurt way too much... then my knees do also lol

Highs
I slept from 11-7 with only 3 toilet get ups, and being awake from 4-5.30, first time in months I feel half human :o so a clean of the house will be taking place today!

DarciesmumandBump2 · 27/11/2011 08:52

Cheep Mrcheep Congratulations on the birth of your baby girl and thanks for letting us know Smile

Sorry to hear about IL & DIY ishoos hopefully they will all bugger off soon so you can relax before babies are due.

msbuggywinkle · 27/11/2011 08:56

Morning! I tried to stay off Mumsnet last night, but it didn't help...was awake from 3.30 to 6am!

Congratulations to the cheeps!

Thanks everyone for the support, I'm considerably calmer now. It just felt so humiliating and is all messed up because I love that I actually have a normal sized term bump...having had one prem baby and one growth retarded baby it is so good to actually look and be heavily pregnant!

plu that would drive me crazy too, people just don't seem to understand how dangerous lack of car seats is sometimes.

Plan for today...lie on the sofa groaning, drinking coffee and crocheting.

OiMissus · 27/11/2011 08:56

Yep Kristy sore knees also! Sad
Quick question, lavender oil and gauze pads... Do you need a base oil too? Is there anything else, am sending DH out on a shopping mission? Ta.

msbuggywinkle · 27/11/2011 08:58

Nope, lavender can be used neat, that and tea tree are the only ones that can be though.

PullyWoolOver · 27/11/2011 09:05

Hurrah! Congratulations to the cheeps!

Sorry to hear about the continuing IL probs that folks are having.

Oi good luck with the labour-inducing exercises!

Am going to attempt a walk today as the sun is shining...not sure I'm going to get quite as far as DP hopes Wink but fresh air will be nice. Then pub for lunch of course, yum!

Hope you all have a fab Sunday Grin

kri5ty · 27/11/2011 09:15

Glad you asked that! Do you just apply the lavender / tea tree directly to the gauze?

I have already got the pads with gauze that you put in the freezer, but going to get some oil to put on the gauze itself.... does it not, Erm, sting/burn down there?

OiMissus · 27/11/2011 09:16

Ohhh pub lunch after a walk, sounds fab. :)
I have aquanatal, then I visit my Granddad every Sunday at 2pm til 3pm, so no walk or pub lunch for me. However, I have my laptop back - hurrah! - and have uploaded some bump pics here. I shall now go and catch up with all of yours. :)

DarciesmumandBump2 · 27/11/2011 09:21

Plu DD was ranting because she didn't want to go on a train....not a toddler she will be 7 in march. She was just trying to rule yesterday morning - didn't work tho lol.

I went Christmas shopping with my lovely mum yesterday walked for 2 hrs in Chichester got home and could barely walk - ouch ouch ouch! once I got moving again it started to ease off, which is why I like to walk in labour - staying still hurts more for me Smile

today is chill out day but I do need to go food shopping as my cupboards are bare!

BluebellsintheSpring · 27/11/2011 09:48

Oi lovely bump pictures!

While I am not glad to hear of lack of sleep/tears, I am just glad I am not the only one! I got to 2 last night without sleep and then just sat and cried pitifully for over an hour. It consisted of: woe is me, I can't do this any more, I just want this baby to be born, I'm never going to get to sleep again and will have no energy for labour etc etc then I decided that all the photos my family texted of my sis with her new baby yesterday were just taunting me and that my baby was never going to be born! Lol - what nonsense, I would have cried had no one sent me pictures as I would have felt left out!

After a lot of self-indulgent sobbing, I returned to bed after 4 and eventually got to sleep around 5 and had about 4 hrs. I feel like a new person already! It's amazing how just a little bit of sleep returns you to the world of sanity.

Hope you all have a great Sunday!

OiMissus · 27/11/2011 10:09

bluebells glad you got some sleep eventually. The "woe is me" crying is unavoidable. I started at bedtime too. DH was trying to soothe me and talking about how he's "here to help, to do anything, just as he had just rubbed cream into my feet"... I said, " just be thankful I don't ask you to rub in my pile cream." which is partly what had set me off in the first place. Woe is me! Sad

DarciesmumandBump2 · 27/11/2011 11:35

Just been and done the food shop in Tesco, was hard to push a heavy trolley so thankful DP was with me otherwise I would of cried in middle of shop - BH & months shopping in trolley is not a good combo lol!

jigglebum · 27/11/2011 11:51

Hi everyone and huge congratulations to cheep and seven - exciting news. I have 2weeks until due date now and started maternity leave on friday so ideally would like to have a couple of days of chilling and sorting on Monday and tuesday when DS at preschool and then baby can arrive!

Sympathies for those having DIY traumas - we are still in midst of our extension, no way they will be finishing on time now - better be finished by christmas though. We do have a nice new boiler now though so geting there.

Sympathies re the IL rants too - mine are lovely and DS loves them to bits but they drive me crazy too. Despite being very cautious about lots of things they have in the past suggested driving with no car seat, let DS cycle without his helmut etc. Also MIL likes to get her own way eg re Christmas we have said wewill provisionally go to theirs on Christmas Eve but come home so we can just be the 4 of us here for christmas day but she keeps going on about how it would be easier for us to stay with them and then DS would get a "proper Christmas" - well excuse me but he can have a proper christmas with us!

LittleMissHumbuggery · 27/11/2011 12:21

Afternoon!

Congratulations to team cheep

I had to escort the girl child to church this morning, and it was a sparse congregation so couldn't catch a sneaky nap with the boy. Thankfully they only have to go three times a year so it's not all bad.

I am now going to go make lunch. I suspect there will be fish fingers involved...

Full of cold still, so am going to run away before the gems figure out a way to abuse the internetWink

LittleMissHumbuggery · 27/11/2011 12:22

Thread title idea: once they pop they just can't stop

sevensevenseven · 27/11/2011 12:31

Dont feel sorry for me being up at 4am, I was feeding DD (I love saying that!), you'll all be up at silly times throughout the night soon.

In case anyone is still undecided on carriers, I had Eva in my stretchy wrap earlier and it's great. Fairly easy to get her into it, she slept the entire time and I could actually get things done without worrying about leaving her with DS in the room.

On the milk front I expressed 70ml earlier and the engorgement has now gone, I'm so pleased I carried on trying to express after a wobbly frustrating start. My sister has just bought over her electric pump and it's currently in the steriliser.

msbuggywinkle · 27/11/2011 12:41

seven sounds like the expressing is going well now! My insides just went all squishy with you reminding me of having a newborn in a stretchy wrap, I'm not sure I'm going to let anyone else have a cuddle of Miri when she gets here!

My coping plan for night feeds involves DVD box sets of fairly mindless TV. I have Buffy and Red Dwarf that I bought on offer and am saving.

DP has gone out to Sainsburys with DD2 to buy my prosecco (taste the difference one is on 1/3 off!) for after the birth and mince pie ice cream for this afternoon in front of the TV. DD1 and I are in our PJs listening to Christmas music!

kri5ty · 27/11/2011 12:45

JUST LOST MY MUCUS PLUG!!! WOOOOO
Haha is it wrong to get excited? I know it could still be 2-3 weeks away, but makes me happy things are actually starting!

seven which wrap is it??

plupervert · 27/11/2011 12:47

msbuggywinkle, I do hope you enjoy the groaning as well as the drinking coffee and crocheting, otherwise that could be a very nice day marred. Can you do some really good heart-rending groans? Or would that upset DH too much, poor man?!

hawthers, sounds as though you need to enjoy being a drama queen, too, so at least you get some enjoyment from the tactless family... Would it help to consider the impact of any tears, making the tears properly cathartic, rather than just an expression of frustration?! Sad

Glad sleep helped make it better, Bluebells. Any chance of a nap's doing the same for you today, OiMissus?

I'm not totally advocating the drama queen approach, though; it's very wearing in a small child - sympathies, Darciesmum!

jigglebum, if you want to feel smug that "at least we're not that badly off" with the DIY, you could always watch old episodes of "Property Ladder". I was desperate for some television the other day while I was sewing and sorting, and ended up watching several episodes, and marvelling at people's stupidity. This episode has a pair of particularly stupid people, who seem to actually not get away with it! Call me mean, but they are very unlikeable and didn't deserve to! Grin Hope that helps!

I really like that "once they pop they can't stop" title, LittleMiss! The other "buses" will all be very jealous of us!

I managed to get some sleep in the end, and DH woke me up with the joyful news that I had finally taken our spare bed apart, in preparation for us to move to a bigger room for the baby to come! He's now got our kingsize set up in the new room, but has told me sternly that he doesn't want to set up the spare bed yet, "because then you'll pop!" Grin Have I married a witch doctor rather than someone brought up in supposedly atheist and scientific Eastern Europe?! Amazing. Anyway, he's going to get DS soon, so there will be no carseatless transport, and I will get some hours to move clothes, do laundry and sort other things. Hahahaha, nesting is happening, whether DH frustrates it or not!

plupervert · 27/11/2011 12:50

Oooh, kri5ty!

msbuggywinkle, i did the same for the night feeds! Eleven seasons of MAS*H plus the BBC i-player got me though very nicely. Smile

kri5ty · 27/11/2011 12:55

i also like the once you pop title... off to the shop soon for cat food, i will now add pringles to my list hehe

DarciesmumandBump2 · 27/11/2011 13:20

Plu Thanks - I could be a drama queen if I had the energy Grin

Kri5ty ooo Exciting stuff.

like the pop till we stop thread title!

DD is really wearing my patience thin today, roll on school tomorrow.