Hi all, we are shattered & so this will be short, but just wanted to report that baby girl is doing very well and we've decided to call her Evie Rose. :)
She had her 5 day check up and has put on weight - now 6 lb 1 oz! I'm really pleased the breastfeeding is going well. (Although we have decided for my sanity to give her 2 FF per day so DP can help bond and I can get some sleep! Nearly had a meltdown after 4 days of no more than 2 hours' sleep at anytime.)
I had a very intense day 3/4 as I'd heard - all those hormones crashing out & making me blub with both happiness but also exhaustion & irritation. I cried at every new lovely photo of Evie, then thought I'd lost my wallet & had a big strop, not like me at all!
Hospital tip: pack a pen for your feeding charts in case you have to stay. I didn't have one & the MVs wouldn't loan any so I'd be stumbling out to reception at 4 am to borrow one. It was the one thing I wished I had, odd as that may sound.
Also the dream genii nursing pillow has been an absolute godsend, it's comfy, props up both of you & she loves to snooze on it after a feed. :)
Also, I've finally started doing my post natal kegels in earnest & they have made a massive difference tommy recovery. I'm much less sore & (sorry if TMI!) it has sorted out any incontinence ishoos. Sounds obvious but I always struggled to remember to do them before birth, and it's even harder IMO postnatally...
My uterus has also nearly fully descended & I have hardly ant baby bump tummy to shift, which the MV attributes to breast feeding. I'm going to stick with it for as long as I can...
Anyhow best of luck to everyone, I hope you all have safe & straightforward labours. x