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petitech · 11/05/2011 09:06

Will this be the final thread?!? I somehow think not, with more and more people starting on maternity leave, we have time for a good few more methinks!

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KaraStarbuckThrace · 27/05/2011 09:36

PP - good luck with the MW!!

CMH1stbaby · 27/05/2011 09:51

Yay, welcome to the new arrivals!

We're off to Bristol for the weekend so taking my hospital bag with me...just in case....
Have a good bank holiday ladies!
xx

sasamaxx · 27/05/2011 10:18

Good luck with the midwife Provocateur
Welcome to the thread Ifancyanewname

Oh would love a look at that link Thornykate and MOSP - I will stick it on my (so far non-existent) birth plan if it's a good idea - I never quite know why they want to do it, but just went along with it anyway. I quite fancy the drama of a waters breaking moment in a public place, but just know it's not going to happen.

I soooooooooooooooooooooo want to go into labour today like you wouldn't believe.

motherofsnortpigs · 27/05/2011 10:26

Welcome Ifancy Too late to panic now :) It's amazing how much more manageable life is when you're not heavily pregnant. (That's what I'm currently trying to convince myself). Our 4th is expected in the next 2 weeks. Oldest is 5. It's all going to be fine. I repeat, it's all going to be fine

motherofsnortpigs · 27/05/2011 10:31

xp sasa I'll get on the laptop later and see if I can find something useful...

knackered76 · 27/05/2011 10:43

Banana Congratulations Grin. Glad to hear you're home and everyone is well. Obviously don't know how it went but take all the time you need to recover!

Cuppa Grin Hooray! I know what you mean about it being different after a miscarriage. I'm 39 weeks and I am still having moments about it all!

Ifancy Welcome to the final stretch (literally!) :)

Provocateur Good luck with the fight Grin

I have no rumblings, pains, any form of indication this baby is making it's way out. In fact I reckon it's going to stay put seeing as half term is coming up and already everyone has been telling me the next time they see me (back at school) I'll have the baby. Surely they realise that's a sure fire way to make sure this baby is going to stay put!

Oh well, hopefully off to see The Rainbow Fish tomorrow with the dc's. I hadn't booked tickets just incase but will do so now . . . . .ohhhh maybe that will send me into labour, knowing I have just made a financial commitment somewhere Grin.

Happy Friday :)

loueytb3 · 27/05/2011 10:54

Congratulations to banana and merlion on your little girls!

cuppa really glad you are pg again and I hope the rest of your pg is stress-free

Off to hospital (again) later for more monitoring. Am hoping they let me out again...

crazychic141187 · 27/05/2011 10:57

Congratulations to those who have had their babies.

Feeling a bit crap this morning so sorry about no individual posts.

Just got out of bed and thrown up - thought that was suppose to have gone already! I want this baby out NOW!!!!!

motherofsnortpigs · 27/05/2011 11:00

Try this for information about breaking your waters.

Moog72 · 27/05/2011 11:04

last day at work - yippee!!

Congratulations Merlion and Banana - would love to read your birth stories once your feet touch the groudn - even if a bit scary! :)

Who is going to be next who is going to be next (not me I'm fairly sure...).

Terrible terrible night sleep again last night. Heartburn, leg cramps, achy hips and upset tumn - the joys!

Joannezipan · 27/05/2011 11:45

Congratulations Banana Well done and at least 14 hours wasn't too long for things to be "interesting"!

I'm still coughing like a 70 year old 200 a day smoker, but surprisingly I did sleep okay last night. I managed to get back to sleep after DH went to work this morning and have only just woken up! Now I'm feeling a bit lazy, but in my defence I am off work sick so I need to tell myself not to feel guilty at all! So what to do today? Wash up the mountain in the kitchen Blush. My brother and his finance are coming to visit today for the weekend which will be fun as long as I can get over this damn cough. They are brining the nursery furniture and my changing bag - I'm excited about that! Yay!

DaisyFields · 27/05/2011 12:35

Welcome to the world Isobella and Rosina - somebody needs to push out a boy and quick else we'll have a population problem in 20 odd years!

Still achey, twingey, grumpy and tearful - I hope this is the beginning of the end as another 4 weeks would be bob. Mw said yesterday that I'm 3/5 engaged so hopefully the end is in sight (although I don't know whether that has any relation to how far we have left to wait.)

Have a lovely bank holiday weekend everyone & I hope it brings more special deliveries :)

BarbieLovesKen · 27/05/2011 13:25

Huge, Huge congratulations on the arrival of Isobella and Rosina!! Merlion, I just cant believe it!! you were here one minute, talking about last day at work and the next... wow!! hope your well and cant wait to hear all about your little girl.

Banana, Im really sorry to hear that things were "interesting" and hope your ok and being very kind to yourself.

Cuppatea so lovely to hear from you and thank you for coming back to update us. Huge congratulations on your pregnancy. Smile. I think we now have 6 babies on the June thread - all girls!! (is that right everyone else?)

Im due tomorrow but really hoping I wont go into labour tomorrow (which is unlikely - I think its only 5% of babies that are born on their due date?) as my clever dh has booked a gig 2 hours away from where we live (tomorrow night), he'll be gone at about 4pm for practice, driving to gig from about 7.30 -9.30 and given that he'll be signing/ playing his guitar its unlikely hes going to hear his phone for the few hours hes playing. I cant complain too much as its extra money that we need for new baby and understand why he couldnt exactly turn it down but its making me really nervous.

Really looking forward to tonight, myself and dd are planning a girls movie night as soon as I get ds to bed, I've just been in town and bought the movie tangled, popcorn, too much chocolate and we intend to snuggle up in bed tonight and enjoy. Im dying to see this movie Blush (soooo handy to have kids as an excuse - another pro to the list Grin)

Ifancy a huge welcome!!! Im nervous too if Im honest but as mother has said, tis a bit too late to be having second thoughts!! Smile. Hope your well.

Off to clean again, my house is lovely, sparkly and organised. I have no washing to do Shock.

DH is clearly pissed off with me as Im getting him to do loads of diy/ bits hes promised to do for ages Hmm.

Thorny hope your little one makes an appearance soon, I know its horrible being overdue.

I've had loads of niggles and pains and braxton hicks and discharge Blush, mood swings and bursts of energy/ tiredness. No sign of baby though, I luckily did expect this though as I've continuously read/ heard that 3rd labours can be fussy/ unpredictable/ stop/ startish...

Hope everyone is well.

BarbieLovesKen · 27/05/2011 13:26

Oooh and Moog yahoo on last day at work!!!!!!!! Grin I remember how anticipated mine was so Im really happy for you..

BarbieLovesKen · 27/05/2011 13:28

One more and I'll leave you all alone.. daisy on the engagement, sometimes it means palpable - so instead of 3/5 being engaged, 3/5 can be felt (i.e. not engaged) if that makes any sense at all? I learned this on ds. Open to correction though! just dont want you to get hopes up too much just in case (as I bloody did when I heard this!!) as thats really frustrating.

PerpetualProvocateur · 27/05/2011 13:46

Well, still frustrated with my MW. She clearly favours hospital births, and is being very overcautious about my BP. Yes it is elevated, but it?s not in the ?at-risk? zone. She is coming around next week to do a home visit with the supervisor MW to make sure I am ?aware of the risks?, as she would prefer me to try for the home-from-home suite in hospital instead.

My naughty baby has also managed to wriggle out of the optimal position, where he?s been for weeks, and is now sort of on his side, so not back-to-back, but not great. That explains the weird crampy feelings I was getting yesterday. Also, my MW got a fundal height measurement of 40?, which she is now worried about as I?m at 37 weeks today, but at the DAU on Tuesday, the MW got 37?, so I?m thinking one of them is wrong as it?s unlikely that it grew 3? in 3 days. As the GP also got 37? last Thursday, I?m thinking it?s my MW who is wrong. She said I may need to go in for a growth scan next week, depending on my measurements then.

I really feel like she is looking for any possible reason to scare me out of a home birth, which I feel is unmerited as I?ve had a very easy, normal pregnancy all the way through until this recent minor concern about my BP. Sigh?

Hoping for some more baby news over the weekend!

PerpetualProvocateur · 27/05/2011 13:47

Oh, by the way, the photographer put some of the photos from my pregnancy shoot on his blog. I've (temporarily) put the link on my profile page; I'm the most recent one.

xx

8rubberduckies · 27/05/2011 14:17

Right all, this is my third attempt at a post today so it'd better stick this time! I lost the first one when I turned my back for a minute, and then my Mum turned up and the battery went on laptop! My Mum is over cleaning the house from top to bottom this afternoon just in case I am interred kept in for observation on Tuesday. She has banished me to the sofa, hence the big long catch-up post...

Congratulations Merlion and Banana - I am soooooo happy you've had your little ones! Banana I'm sorry it was interesting and I hope you are resting and healing well Smile. Merlion it is apparently very typical for babies to turn up as soon as we start maternity leave Hmm. And Yes, where are the boys?

Lovely to hear from you Janice and so happy to hear about your pregnancy! I hope it is uneventful and chilled and pain free!

Welcome Ifancyanewname - I have also been feeling the same as you and have a son who is just coming up for 3, but have heard from various sources that 2 are a lot easier once number two is actually out! I plan to wear this one in a sling most of the time so I can still chase after ds1. I am most worried about lack of sleep though, being up all night with baby and not being able to catch up in the day when she is asleep because ds1 is about.

TTL I have seen lots of these feeding covering up thingies recently, they did not seem to be about in 2008 when I had ds - a lovely treat as a pressie, but I found a large muslin did the job perfectly.

Nurse I too have stretch marks rearing their ugly heads. I am moisturising like a demon but fear I have left it too late. I still have them from ds1 but they are very pale and definitely getting thinner over time.

CMH pop in for a cuppa this weekend if you fancy it! Hope you have a lovely weekend in my hometown - if you fancy heading out of the central area, drinking coffee on Gloucester Rd, browsing the boutiques in Clifton village (by the suspension bridge) and taking a boat to Beeses Tearooms from the central docks area are lovely, relaxed things to do. Both St Michaels Hospital and Southmead Hospital are good options if things start kicking off baby-wise, but Southmead has a midwife-led unit.

I have been feeling shockingly hormonal the last few days... "d"p was acting like a 2-yr-old this morning, as was my 2-yr-old, and when I got home after dropping ds at childminder's I was in floods of tears. One of them refused to get dressed, and I had to take him to the childminders in just a Tshirt and trousers, with the rest of his clothes and his shoes in a bag, and it did my SPD no favours having to barrel him into the car. The other one was slamming doors and sulking all morning because I had a mini-flip when I got up this morning and there was piles of washing up, empty takeaway cartons all over the kitchen, the baby monitor still on buzzing away and last night's detritus all over the living room. I told him I was fed up of living in a student house, and to try and stay awake long enough before crashing on the sofa in front of Sky Sports News to have a bit of a clean-up. The house is hard enough to keep on top if when I'm not heavily pregnant, but I just can't cope anymore. I am coming to the end of my tether, as he is very helpful and supportive, but only when it suits him. He refuses to cook and would rather spend a fortune on a takeaway if I'm too tired to cook or not eating at home, doesn't notice if anything needs doing around the house unless I ask him , or it gets to the point where he can't see the floor. Rant over - thanks for listening Grin. Barbie I think our partners were separated at birth...

Maybe it'll be good if I go into hospital for the next three weeks and will give him a kick up the ass....

Still no movement from baby - she is trying to tunnel her way out of my belly button at the moment, which is rather disconcerting, but a lot less annoying than that foot-under-the-ribs feeling I had with ds at this stage. Pelvis still feels completely floppy and empty, so I think she is still transverse, the minx Smile.

8rubberduckies · 27/05/2011 14:44

PS Fantastic Photos Perpetual Smile

Joannezipan · 27/05/2011 15:00

I seem to have a craving from avocados and fruit corners...well at least it is more healthy than cheese!

8 sorry your DP is behaving like your DS you should sit him down and tell him the influence is supposed to work the other way round! Wink :o

I don't think the bump knows what to make of the cough. It has been really active since it started, but every time I have a coughing fit it goes really still. Poor little thing it must be like constant earth quakes. :(DH gave it a talking to last night and told it to stay put until the cough had gone, but not leave it too long because we are getting impatient and that the end of next week would be ideal. I'm not sure it listened Hmm

CMH1stbaby · 27/05/2011 16:01

thanks for the tips 8 - my DH is originally from Bristol so think he's secretly hoping the baby will show up and have Bristol on the birth certificate!! Surprisingly he's kept the boutiques in clifton village quiet Hmm

nomoreheels · 27/05/2011 16:19

Hi everyone, haven't had a chance to read all the current news but wanted to post just to update:

My waters broke at 4:30 AM on Tuesday and by 10:15 am, our little girl was born! She was a week and a half early and weighed 5 lb 14 oz, so she is quite a tiddly thing. She has taken to breastfeeding really well, and is very good natured. We're both besotted with her and just need to decide on a name (we're trying out a few to see what fits!)

I found the birth very difficult due to two things. One, everything happened so fast - by the time I'd got to hospital I was already 4 cm and having strong contractions. It was all a bit of a shock and I didn't feel like I had time to get used to anything. (And not surprisingly, the whole birth plan went out the window!) My blood pressure started to go up and I was told I had pre eclampsia, which was also frightening. I was still allowed a vaginal midwife led birth though, so it must have been within a certain stage.

In some ways it was completely amazing - there's nothing like it, and nothing can prepare you for how you will feel - but I have to confess I felt very scared and, bizarrely, totally alone. Alone in the sense that I realised no one could get me through it apart from myself, I think. I also found the rapid progression between levels of pain hard to manage, but had to make do with gas & air and pethedene (sp?) - I was promised an epidural but the anaesthetist was in theatre and things progressed too quickly. By the time they were free, there was no way I could stay still long enough to have it done. So transition and birth was VERY painful for me. The midwife kept telling me that I was doing an amazing job - I only pushed for 45 mins and then she was out and she said most people took 1.5 hours or more - but

Although I really tried hard to listen to the midwife's guidance, I still had 2nd degree tearing. This was compounded by a difficult 3rd stage - I had the injection but my placenta refused to deliver for ages. Luckily it came through just before they were going to take me to theatre. I then had to sit through an hour of suturing my tears, and this is where I started to lose it - the doctor (we feel) didn't manage my pain relief for this very well. I wondered if I should have been given some sort of overall anaesthetic rather than over 10 very painful local injections, and having to top up with more as they discovered new tears and places where the pain relief hadn't worked. My DP said this was the only point where he nearly lost it.

I was also extremely dizzy from the pre eclampsia and was on a drip for several hours. The hospital stay was also dull and tiring, but that's the same for everyone I'm sure. The midwives were all excellent as well, couldn't ask for better care.

So - despite the difficulties, our little girl is a treasure and I'm very happy now! :)

Gillzz · 27/05/2011 16:21

Hi all reading all posts 2 many 2 comment on!
Congratulations on new arrival lovely name!

Just back from mw app and they have decided to induce me due to pain of spd and the fact I am an emotional wreck since finding out about having GSB!! So booked in for wed 1st of June oohh so scared and excited just know the pain I have in front of me from dc1 but know will be so worth it! I will be 39 +1 hopefully the labour starts quick and I'm not waiting days!!

Hope every1 well xxx

Gillzz · 27/05/2011 16:26

Aww congratulations nomoreheels so sorry u went through a difficult labour but over now and u have ur little princess! Iam very worried about requesting an epidural and can't get one! Xx

BarbieLovesKen · 27/05/2011 16:27

Nomoreheels wow!!!!! another beautiful little girl. Cant wait to hear what name you eventually decide on. You sound besotted. Am not surprised you found things so difficult - sounds like such a quick labour - Im sure it was very intense. So delighted to hear all is well now though. Enjoy your little one!!

Gllizz ooh how exciting - knowing when you'll have your baby. Lovely to have something to focus on and plan for..

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