Hello everyone!
I know what you mean about it not sinking in yet. It feels a bit like getting married: big palaver, nerve-wracking ceremony, then...well, doesn't feel any different to living-in-sin. I think I'll really believe it when my trousers start getting too tight. Happened at 10wks with ds and at 8wks with dd, so in about a fortnight I suppose, this time.
I did dh's test last night - such a BFP it was almost unreadable. Dear technological husband looked at the test, consulted the instructions, compared the result with the diagrams and then complained that it didn't look like any of them! I think he can't decide whether he's over the moon or wondering why we're rocking the boat.
There are so many things to worry about, aren't there, PrettyBird? I'll be 40 when this one is born. No point saying "Don't worry", is there?! . We were also very concerned about the effects on first ds, and now on the whole family relationships, despite being certain all along that we wanted more than one. But it's brilliant having two, especially when they get to the age that they can enjoy each other's company. Wow!
And BTW, ds is now vomiting as well.